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kelvinklein219:
I had a gf like that, and exact thing happened to me.
My deduction is
Subconsciously u re tired of how ur wife doesn't lyk sex, u begin to take her lyk a sister, lyk ur wife has friend zoned you haha.. Ok seriously when u think abt the stress you wil go tru to make love your p.enis would prefer to be celibate nd let me guess, she doesn't get wet quickly..talk to your wife she may be killing the sex life in the marriage, you may be unaware but you are just tired of doing it with her.

DonteMec:
Hello Fellow Nairalanders,
I have been a nairalander for years but this would be my first post. I have a very serious problem and I need your wonderful suggestions to guide me along.
I have been married for like Ten years with kids. My wife is a very good, faithful and wonderful lady. I traveled out of the country for 2 years and just came back this last December. However since then I have this rather strange problem, which has never happened prior to this period.
My wife is frigid. She really doesn't like sex. I hate that aspect of her. I have a high sex drive while she has little to zero sex drive. This has of course brought all sorts quarrel over the years. I have since learnt to manage her that way and bear that as my cross, since that is her only weak point. But its not easy.
I made love to my wife the first day I came back. It was all good. But subsequent attempts to make love to her, my penis simply refuses to stand erect. Try everything in the book still it will not stand. It's like the penis is scared of my wife, because even a thought of her makes an erect penis go flat immediately. If I strive to put it in with lots and lots of efforts, hoping it will thicken inside, it will stay for 35 seconds, less than a minute and ejaculate.
I have had to go for tests and it shows no sickness nor venereal disease. But I have gone for an intensive treatment for all kinds of powerful venereal disease, known and unknown for 3 weeks just to leave nothing to chance. After that, the penis started getting up again.
I made love to my wife very powerfully again after the treatment. I lasted for 45 minutes or there about for a round which is my usual style. I was happy that everything is back to normal. However 2 days later we tried to make love again, the penis starts being shy of my wife again. It has been several days since then we have kept on trying, no headway at all. Am confused. The penis simply refuses to stand erect - Jeez this is scary ...
I want to take my wife for a test of her own though she has no symptoms of any illness as I also didn't have prior to all these.
However I want to know:
Is there any venereal disease that is strong enough to paralyze a penis just one day after enjoying it?
Could this be as a result of some other reason or factor which I don't know nor understand?
Note: My wife is a very faithful one and I trust her. However I just want to explore every possibility.
Also note that prior to this I could go for 3 to 5 rounds in a single night, with each round lasting for 45 minutes or there about. Am 41 if you care to know. (Well with my wife its always 1 round of like 1 hour duration)
I love good sex and this is frustrating the hell out of me. Please every kind of advice would be considered, even the weird ones lol

Over use of your tool. Try and give it a break. In 2years you were watching football abi?

Zirah:
Then this is just the beginning of his dick paralysis. You think the side chick doesn't want this idiot person to herself? Foolish people. Foolish thinking.

DonteMec:
Bros I have a concubine outside the country. That is what has kept me in this marriage. Else my wife's low sex drive would have pushed me out of the marriage. It's with the concubine/ girlfriend that I do the drilling or hard work with. With my wife I take it easy as I know her capacity. Problem is that for 2 years and 72 hours prior to my coming back I performed optimally with the said concubine. Then back to my wife, after the first day, all of a sudden my JohnThomas does NOT stand up again. I need a real suggestion as to what could cause that ...

kimbraa:
You stated you were away for two years, who did you bleep while away for that long since your sex drive is high? Secondly, you stated you could go for 3-5 rounds a single night whereas with your wife, it's 1 round 1night. I still reiterate the question asked, who were you having 3-5 rounds a night with prior to this problem?

Pricelessangel0:
From All That U Av Said It Is True People Do Many Things 2 Keep Their Marriage Going But From All U Av Said U Re Taking The Wrong Part Of Keeping It, And When You Guys Were Courting Did U For Once Try To Talk About Your Sexual Drive? When U Married Her Was She A Virgin? & Have U Tried After Marriage To Talk About Sex Or Tried To Teach Her To Meet Ur Standard & Expectations? Dats The Mistake Some Guys Make And If The Reverse Was The Case Will U Be Happy Knowing Ur Wife Is Receiving Satisfaction Elsewhere? Pls I Have This Advise For U, Sit Ur Wife Down And Have Heart To Heart Talk With Her, Confess Ur Misdeed To Her And Plead For Her Forgiveness Then To Crown It All Ask God For Forgiveness And For Him To Heal Ur Marriage. Peace Unto You Shallom

DonteMec:
Bros GBAM. With my wife there is no kissing, no romancing, no moaning; Mouth Action- I deh craze to even expect her to go that length? Yes the truth is that sometimes I feel am making love to a dead body or raping someone. Yet am incapable of raping anyone as my P will pack up once a female shows fear or disgust. My wife has a strength of character and does not display any emotions, not even during sexual intercourse.
Thanks for your advice. I will keep open mind even with the spiritual suggestions ..

DonteMec:
Bros I have a concubine outside the country. That is what has kept me in this marriage. Else my wife's low sex drive would have pushed me out of the marriage. It's with the concubine/ girlfriend that I do the drilling or hard work with. With my wife I take it easy as I know her capacity. Problem is that for 2 years and 72 hours prior to my coming back I performed optimally with the said concubine. Then back to my wife, after the first day, all of a sudden my JohnThomas does NOT stand up again. I need a real suggestion as to what could cause that ...

labanj1:
So if you go 5 rounds for 45 minutes each you will have spent 225 minutes (3hrs 45 minutes) on sex. Your thing sef don dey fear you.

Pricelessangel0:
From All That U Av Said It Is True People Do Many Things 2 Keep Their Marriage Going But From All U Av Said U Re Taking The Wrong Part Of Keeping It, And When You Guys Were Courting Did U For Once Try To Talk About Your Sexual Drive? When U Married Her Was She A Virgin? & Have U Tried After Marriage To Talk About Sex Or Tried To Teach Her To Meet Ur Standard & Expectations? Dats The Mistake Some Guys Make And If The Reverse Was The Case Will U Be Happy Knowing Ur Wife Is Receiving Satisfaction Elsewhere? Pls I Have This Advise For U, Sit Ur Wife Down And Have Heart To Heart Talk With Her, Confess Ur Misdeed To Her And Plead For Her Forgiveness Then To Crown It All Ask God For Forgiveness And For Him To Heal Ur Marriage. Peace Unto You Shallom

luminouz:
Don't pity her...not if ur d one!!!
Cuz I go treat ya fvckup eh!!!

luminouz:
Not my penis Ode!!!
Why not bring ur sex starved gf n lemme satisfy her n make her smile once since u started dating her
I don't use drugs bro...I'm team natural!!!
Otuoshi!!!

DonteMec:
Hello Fellow Nairalanders,
I have been a nairalander for years but this would be my first post. I have a very serious problem and I need your wonderful suggestions to guide me along.
I have been married for like Ten years with kids. My wife is a very good, faithful and wonderful lady. I traveled out of the country for 2 years and just came back this last December. However since then I have this rather strange problem, which has never happened prior to this period.
My wife is frigid. She really doesn't like sex. I hate that aspect of her. I have a high sex drive while she has little to zero sex drive. This has of course brought all sorts quarrel over the years. I have since learnt to manage her that way and bear that as my cross, since that is her only weak point. But its not easy.
I made love to my wife the first day I came back. It was all good. But subsequent attempts to make love to her, my penis simply refuses to stand erect. Try everything in the book still it will not stand. It's like the penis is scared of my wife, because even a thought of her makes an erect penis go flat immediately. If I strive to put it in with lots and lots of efforts, hoping it will thicken inside, it will stay for 35 seconds, less than a minute and ejaculate.
I have had to go for tests and it shows no sickness nor venereal disease. But I have gone for an intensive treatment for all kinds of powerful venereal disease, known and unknown for 3 weeks just to leave nothing to chance. After that, the penis started getting up again.
I made love to my wife very powerfully again after the treatment. I lasted for 45 minutes or there about for a round which is my usual style. I was happy that everything is back to normal. However 2 days later we tried to make love again, the penis starts being shy of my wife again. It has been several days since then we have kept on trying, no headway at all. Am confused. The penis simply refuses to stand erect - Jeez this is scary ...
I want to take my wife for a test of her own though she has no symptoms of any illness as I also didn't have prior to all these.
However I want to know:
Is there any venereal disease that is strong enough to paralyze a penis just one day after enjoying it?
Could this be as a result of some other reason or factor which I don't know nor understand?
Note: My wife is a very faithful one and I trust her. However I just want to explore every possibility.
Also note that prior to this I could go for 3 to 5 rounds in a single night, with each round lasting for 45 minutes or there about. Am 41 if you care to know. (Well with my wife its always 1 round of like 1 hour duration)
I love good sex and this is frustrating the hell out of me. Please every kind of advice would be considered, even the weird ones lol

DonteMec:
Bros I have a concubine outside the country. That is what has kept me in this marriage. Else my wife's low sex drive would have pushed me out of the marriage. It's with the concubine/ girlfriend that I do the drilling or hard work with. With my wife I take it easy as I know her capacity. Problem is that for 2 years and 72 hours prior to my coming back I performed optimally with the said concubine. Then back to my wife, after the first day, all of a sudden my JohnThomas does NOT stand up again. I need a real suggestion as to what could cause that ...

Butoneday2:
Then y interfering for wetin no concern u. Aturu. Phuvck off my post I no get dat fhucking tyme of urs.

Nairalanddist:
We Yoruba Muslims believe that when such diseases occur, your wife is definitely having an affair with several men. This is why i love Islam. All you need to do is to threaten to kill her and watch her confess how she has been sleeping with your neighbors

nams77:
Dontemec. I don't think there is any std that can kill libido that fast. What I think is happening is over-familiarity. Funny, right? When a man is used to one woman,at long last, there is nothing exciting anymore so the urge just dies down. But take that man to a new lady and see the zest return with alacrity. Some men goes a round with their wife and fall asleep till morning but if it were to be another woman by their side, they won't sleep all night.
Our company electrician said he hardly get erection with his wife but have massive erection if he is with some other lady. Same discussion came up with some group of guys in a mechanic workshop.
There is nothing wrong with you Bro. Just try spacing sex with ur wife

DonteMec:
Hello Fellow Nairalanders,
I have been a nairalander for years but this would be my first post. I have a very serious problem and I need your wonderful suggestions to guide me along.
I have been married for like Ten years with kids. My wife is a very good, faithful and wonderful lady. I traveled out of the country for 2 years and just came back this last December. However since then I have this rather strange problem, which has never happened prior to this period.
My wife is frigid. She really doesn't like sex. I hate that aspect of her. I have a high sex drive while she has little to zero sex drive. This has of course brought all sorts quarrel over the years. I have since learnt to manage her that way and bear that as my cross, since that is her only weak point. But its not easy.
I made love to my wife the first day I came back. It was all good. But subsequent attempts to make love to her, my penis simply refuses to stand erect. Try everything in the book still it will not stand. It's like the penis is scared of my wife, because even a thought of her makes an erect penis go flat immediately. If I strive to put it in with lots and lots of efforts, hoping it will thicken inside, it will stay for 35 seconds, less than a minute and ejaculate.
I have had to go for tests and it shows no sickness nor venereal disease. But I have gone for an intensive treatment for all kinds of powerful venereal disease, known and unknown for 3 weeks just to leave nothing to chance. After that, the penis started getting up again.
I made love to my wife very powerfully again after the treatment. I lasted for 45 minutes or there about for a round which is my usual style. I was happy that everything is back to normal. However 2 days later we tried to make love again, the penis starts being shy of my wife again. It has been several days since then we have kept on trying, no headway at all. Am confused. The penis simply refuses to stand erect - Jeez this is scary ...
I want to take my wife for a test of her own though she has no symptoms of any illness as I also didn't have prior to all these.
However I want to know:
Is there any venereal disease that is strong enough to paralyze a penis just one day after enjoying it?
Could this be as a result of some other reason or factor which I don't know nor understand?
Note: My wife is a very faithful one and I trust her. However I just want to explore every possibility.
Also note that prior to this I could go for 3 to 5 rounds in a single night, with each round lasting for 45 minutes or there about. Am 41 if you care to know. (Well with my wife its always 1 round of like 1 hour duration)
I love good sex and this is frustrating the hell out of me. Please every kind of advice would be considered, even the weird ones lol

DonteMec:
Sis, I have already seen a Doctor and ran several tests already. Nothing was found wrong with me. Yet I still took a regime of 3 weeks total treatment/ cleansing. And after that the Manhood stood up and worked wonders on my wife again for one day. But just after that the manhood got paralyzed again. Am thinking that there is something inside my wife that is killing my manhood (if there is anything like that), but I don't know what ... Does anyone has any suggestion for me?

chronique:
Pls,don't type like this next time. It's hurting to the eyes.

chronique:
Pls,don't type like this next time. It's hurting to the eyes.

DonteMec:
Thanks for your contribution.
Yes I really doubt there is an STD that could paralyze a dick this fast. That's why I came here for all kinds of advice.
But I doubt this over-familiarity thing. Remember I was away for 2 years and just back. So I have the desire and zeal for her in spite of her attitude. That's why this thing seems a bit bizarre and puzzling to me.

DonteMec:
Bros my wife was ''almost'' a virgin when I got married to her. She is indeed a good girl/woman. She had most of the attributes I needed in a future wife, except on the sexual compatibility scale. I thought I could teach her and be able to make her up her again. That has turned out to be the worst assumption or miscalculation I ever made. Bros this case has past talking to her. For 10 years I have done more talking and other things than you can ever imagine.
He who wears the shoe knows where it pinches most. My dear, if not for that concubine ish I would have divorced my wife -FACT.
My problem is getting back my erection as I have my family greatly under control.

luminouz:
Then stop acting like a biatch on ya fellow man!!!!
Y u so pained he is sexually active