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You are really weak! The day ur wife threatened to divorce , was the day u should have gone in and put her ghana must go outside

NwaAmaikpe:



I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

Haa oma se o (it's a pity) that the only thing I have for you "pity"

Must pastors be involved in everything? Why can't Nigerian couples settle their differences without involving pastors?

Abeg...

Heebah:
Exactly my thoughts. Op,why r u angry about her action?

That one is not the real koko, read his post again.

Too bad for people who allow third parties into their homes. Mayb you should send her back to her mother's house to cool off.

NwaAmaikpe:



I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

only madness can make a person type this kinda thing. You ok bro?

Give no place to the devil.

kapelvej:
Lokking back now, I know I was wrong, i could have been more decisive in my decisions. It is not as easy as you think, If you do not forgive, they will call you a sinner who needs redemption, they will point it out to you that as Christians you must learn to forgive no matter what, but now i can see that everybody was just after their interest

forget about taking a decisive action bro your lost man and any decision to be strong n "Like" a man now would just make you look foolish to yourself coz where do you wana start from? #peace o

I'm struggling to see the wrong the mother-in-law and daughter did. Op, you being petty is an understatement. Grow up.

NwaAmaikpe:



I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

Evil man

Just dickyyy ur wife Wella, then ignore her for a while... She will come back to her senses, I did that to my partner and she's like a tamed person...

Oga ur threatening u with divorce, ehnnn its tym to show u are a man ,if she wana leave let her go,after all she cos dis hersef,again jesus said u can divorce only wen u catch d persn cmitin adultery, xo as e b now ,rope don tie u

Very unfortunate.

Marriage is one life task that is very difficult to handle, it's not just between a man n his wife but also involves both families . I have a bitter hatred towards my wife today not cos of her but cos of her father's behaviour who I found to be a grown fool but at a point a calm myself knowing well no marriage is perfect . To cut it short, you must not expect a perfect home, there are some pains you must bear to make the marriage manageable. Try over look your mother in law and always avoid anything that has to involve her talks. By doing this u can probably have a better home. As for your wife, let the past go and forge ahead. Marriage is a scam u can never change.

tradepunter:
Just dickyyy ur wife Wella, then ignore her for a while... She will come back to her senses, I did that to my partner and she's like a tamed person...

Wats dickky?

NwaAmaikpe:



I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

My guy I guess you forgot to ....

Oga, don't beat or divorce ur wife.
U were the cause of ur problem. She was showing u this sign before both of u married but u were enveloped with infatuation and obsession. Now this is the result of the compromise.
However, send ur wife to her mother and when she travels, don't visit neither call her but send her money for her upkeep and nothing more. If u bear her absence for six months, she will have a quarrel with the mum and look forward for ur forgiveness and hate her mum for deceiving her. Now the threat for divorce would decline. Take care

kapelvej:
My brother not as you think

Learn How Be Principled. It Saves A lot Bro

The big story here is "My wife did some nasty stuff" bro can u be specific so that people will knw the advice to give to u. Let it nt be what i am thinking cos i guess ur life is in danger. Avoid her food 4 nw.

NwaAmaikpe:



I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

..........i bu ekwensu........keep leading people astray..........agent of darkness

pls. op,tell us the nasty thing ur wife did..Some people. mistake ones quietness/ gentlemen as weakness. .Beta show dem ur fang/python dance(nor kill anybody. oo)but send dem both outta urhouse

Hmm

Kapelvej

No spouse should threaten the other with divorce unless they mean it and in that case they should follow through with action. Marriage is not dating where u make up and break up at will or where one can just up and leave. It is a conscious choice u make everyday to love ur partner and put him or her first after God and before yourself. Tell her not to ever threaten u with divorce again unless she means it.

You MIL visiting ur Ma due to a bereavement has done no wrong. Clearly had or have issues with her existing before this visit. I think u should see her as your mother, seek her out n have a meeting with her. Gently and respectfully tell her whatever issues u have and get them resolved. Subsequently call ur wife and let her know ur intimate issues n details as a family are off limits to 3rd parties and she has to learn that. With that, u gradually assert urself and set the healthy boundaries u need between ur nuclear family and in-laws.

Remain cordial and respectful but firm, you'll find there might be no need to cause the trouble u want to.

This is ur marriage. So u need to sit ur wife down and talk. If its not working,u can inviolve a counselor nto come in. I don't know what ur wife did that could be nasty to involve pastor and co. But u are a man,and the success of your home depends on u. First clean ur own dirt first and go on for a peace talk,most times you don't train a child with flogging always. I believe u said I do with her,there was love before u guys married,marriage won't keep that love brother, its ur mindsets that will. And marriage is two people of different characters coming to leave together with there different characters in a confine arena.talk. listen and pray. Thank u

Mrkumareze:
Marriage is one life task that is very difficult to handle, it's not just between a man n his wife but also involves both families . I have a bitter hatred towards my wife today not cos of her but cos of her father's behaviour who I found to be a grown fool but at a point a calm myself knowing well no marriage is perfect . To cut it short, you must not expect a perfect home, there are some pains you must bear to make the marriage manageable. Try over look your mother in law and always avoid anything that has to involve her talks. By doing this u can probably have a better home. As for your wife, let the past go and forge ahead. Marriage is a scam u can never change.

Marriage is a scam u can never change.

Marriage is always an Avenue for man and woman to exhibit their demons... You should be grateful pekin never come man that one they go use finish you.

Except there are other heinous crime committed by ur MIL, otherwise u should be the one to call her and appreciate her sympathy visit to ur family. Pls don't set ur marriage on fire over useless ego. Ur MIL is as good as ur mother, treat her like one and see the difference it will make. Shalom.

Marriage is not do or die.

Divorce is a good thing. Why? Because no good marriage ever ended in divorce. Only bad ones.

If a woman threatens me once with breakup, she will never get the chance to do it again. Heaven forbid I be held to ransom by a recalcitrant jezebel. Anyway I'm not about to sign away my life to any entitled àss aunty in this life!

Baba, if e no favor you, tell her gerrarahia mehn!

(As long as YOU are blameless)

basingstoke:
Time to stand your ground

Guy, wetin be your own, na your marriage? Make e go resolve him family wahala na...sebi konji bin hold am then, e no no say marriage na for better for worst...