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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by biggy26: 10:32pm On Mar 02, 2018
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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Apina(m): 10:33pm On Mar 02, 2018
You are really weak! The day ur wife threatened to divorce , was the day u should have gone in and put her ghana must go outside undecided
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by heendrix(m): 10:34pm On Mar 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

Haa oma se o (it's a pity) that the only thing I have for you "pity"

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Nobody: 10:36pm On Mar 02, 2018
Must pastors be involved in everything? Why can't Nigerian couples settle their differences without involving pastors?

Abeg... undecided

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Nobody: 10:37pm On Mar 02, 2018
Heebah:
Exactly my thoughts. Op,why r u angry about her action?

That one is not the real koko, read his post again.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Nobody: 10:37pm On Mar 02, 2018
Too bad for people who allow third parties into their homes. Mayb you should send her back to her mother's house to cool off.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by LaClickLaBend: 10:38pm On Mar 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

only madness can make a person type this kinda thing. You ok bro?

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by biggy26: 10:38pm On Mar 02, 2018
Give no place to the devil.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by heendrix(m): 10:39pm On Mar 02, 2018
kapelvej:
Lokking back now, I know I was wrong, i could have been more decisive in my decisions. It is not as easy as you think, If you do not forgive, they will call you a sinner who needs redemption, they will point it out to you that as Christians you must learn to forgive no matter what, but now i can see that everybody was just after their interest

forget about taking a decisive action bro your lost man and any decision to be strong n "Like" a man now would just make you look foolish to yourself coz where do you wana start from? #peace o
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by chioma134: 10:40pm On Mar 02, 2018
I'm struggling to see the wrong the mother-in-law and daughter did. Op, you being petty is an understatement. Grow up.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by nnaeyes6: 10:41pm On Mar 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.

Evil man

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by tradepunter: 10:43pm On Mar 02, 2018
Just dickyyy ur wife Wella, then ignore her for a while... She will come back to her senses, I did that to my partner and she's like a tamed person...
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by elonize(m): 10:44pm On Mar 02, 2018
Oga ur threatening u with divorce, ehnnn its tym to show u are a man ,if she wana leave let her go,after all she cos dis hersef,again jesus said u can divorce only wen u catch d persn cmitin adultery, xo as e b now ,rope don tie u

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by AreaFada2: 10:44pm On Mar 02, 2018
Very unfortunate.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Mrkumareze(m): 10:45pm On Mar 02, 2018
Marriage is one life task that is very difficult to handle, it's not just between a man n his wife but also involves both families . I have a bitter hatred towards my wife today not cos of her but cos of her father's behaviour who I found to be a grown fool but at a point a calm myself knowing well no marriage is perfect . To cut it short, you must not expect a perfect home, there are some pains you must bear to make the marriage manageable. Try over look your mother in law and always avoid anything that has to involve her talks. By doing this u can probably have a better home. As for your wife, let the past go and forge ahead. Marriage is a scam u can never change.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by elonize(m): 10:45pm On Mar 02, 2018
tradepunter:
Just dickyyy ur wife Wella, then ignore her for a while... She will come back to her senses, I did that to my partner and she's like a tamed person...
Wats dickky?
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by chuksjuve(m): 10:46pm On Mar 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.


My guy I guess you forgot to ....

Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by BiggyBamBam: 10:48pm On Mar 02, 2018
Do you have a good paying job?
Do you have enough money in your account?
Some mothers-in-law disrespect guys if they have no money or standing.

I hope your wife is not the one feeding you?
If you are sure of yourself, then send her packing at least temporarily!
Or ban the mother-in-law from coming to your house
Or move to someplace like Ghana, where it will be difficult for her to visit.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by nnaeyes6: 10:48pm On Mar 02, 2018
Oga, don't beat or divorce ur wife.
U were the cause of ur problem. She was showing u this sign before both of u married but u were enveloped with infatuation and obsession. Now this is the result of the compromise.
However, send ur wife to her mother and when she travels, don't visit neither call her but send her money for her upkeep and nothing more. If u bear her absence for six months, she will have a quarrel with the mum and look forward for ur forgiveness and hate her mum for deceiving her. Now the threat for divorce would decline. Take care

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by MetroBaba1(m): 10:49pm On Mar 02, 2018
kapelvej:
My brother not as you think

Learn How Be Principled. It Saves A lot Bro

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by tiwasiaife(m): 10:49pm On Mar 02, 2018
The big story here is "My wife did some nasty stuff" bro can u be specific so that people will knw the advice to give to u. Let it nt be what i am thinking cos i guess ur life is in danger. Avoid her food 4 nw.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by amakadihot87(f): 10:49pm On Mar 02, 2018
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


I wish you could say the nasty things your wife did; that way my advice will be well-informed.

But the problem here is a strong bond between your wife and her mother.
Your mom has an unfathomable influence over your wife.
It's so strong that she will confide in her mom and plan with her without your knowledge. This could be detrimental to you and your position as head of the family.

But there's a solution.
Seduce your mother in-law, make her fall in love with you. Ravish her, make her feel like the only woman in the world, make her yearn for you.
Most importantly, try and bed her.

Consider this a dirty task you must do to recover your manhood.
That way her loyalty will change, she will see her daughter as a competitor and not an ally.

She will also know she has an unsavoury secret with you and will be more om your side than against you.

That way she would have lost complete influence over your wife.
Good luck with this.
..........i bu ekwensu........keep leading people astray..........agent of darkness

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by ipobarecriminals: 10:49pm On Mar 02, 2018
sad pls. op,tell us the nasty thing ur wife did..Some people. mistake ones quietness/ gentlemen as weakness. .Beta show dem ur fang/python dance(nor kill anybody. oo)but send dem both outta urhouse

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Lexusgs430: 10:50pm On Mar 02, 2018
Hmm
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by passyhansome(m): 10:50pm On Mar 02, 2018
@kapelvej Well I love Nairaland, but their some issues that are too sensitive to be discussed here, if it's relationship outside marriage no problem, but Marriage an institution ordained by God, then you need to connect back to the originator of it, in prayer, word of God, be sensitive to ur spirit. If at all you need advice contact men led by the Spirit not carnal men.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by freeze001(f): 10:51pm On Mar 02, 2018
Kapelvej

No spouse should threaten the other with divorce unless they mean it and in that case they should follow through with action. Marriage is not dating where u make up and break up at will or where one can just up and leave. It is a conscious choice u make everyday to love ur partner and put him or her first after God and before yourself. Tell her not to ever threaten u with divorce again unless she means it.

You MIL visiting ur Ma due to a bereavement has done no wrong. Clearly had or have issues with her existing before this visit. I think u should see her as your mother, seek her out n have a meeting with her. Gently and respectfully tell her whatever issues u have and get them resolved. Subsequently call ur wife and let her know ur intimate issues n details as a family are off limits to 3rd parties and she has to learn that. With that, u gradually assert urself and set the healthy boundaries u need between ur nuclear family and in-laws.

Remain cordial and respectful but firm, you'll find there might be no need to cause the trouble u want to.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Funnydoctor: 10:51pm On Mar 02, 2018
This is ur marriage. So u need to sit ur wife down and talk. If its not working,u can inviolve a counselor nto come in. I don't know what ur wife did that could be nasty to involve pastor and co. But u are a man,and the success of your home depends on u. First clean ur own dirt first and go on for a peace talk,most times you don't train a child with flogging always. I believe u said I do with her,there was love before u guys married,marriage won't keep that love brother, its ur mindsets that will. And marriage is two people of different characters coming to leave together with there different characters in a confine arena.talk. listen and pray. Thank u
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by Nobody: 10:52pm On Mar 02, 2018
Mrkumareze:
Marriage is one life task that is very difficult to handle, it's not just between a man n his wife but also involves both families . I have a bitter hatred towards my wife today not cos of her but cos of her father's behaviour who I found to be a grown fool but at a point a calm myself knowing well no marriage is perfect . To cut it short, you must not expect a perfect home, there are some pains you must bear to make the marriage manageable. Try over look your mother in law and always avoid anything that has to involve her talks. By doing this u can probably have a better home. As for your wife, let the past go and forge ahead. Marriage is a scam u can never change.



shocked Marriage is a scam u can never change.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by tradepunter: 10:53pm On Mar 02, 2018
Marriage is always an Avenue for man and woman to exhibit their demons... You should be grateful pekin never come man that one they go use finish you.
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by globatop: 10:53pm On Mar 02, 2018
Except there are other heinous crime committed by ur MIL, otherwise u should be the one to call her and appreciate her sympathy visit to ur family. Pls don't set ur marriage on fire over useless ego. Ur MIL is as good as ur mother, treat her like one and see the difference it will make. Shalom.

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Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by ChiefSweetus: 10:53pm On Mar 02, 2018
Marriage is not do or die.

Divorce is a good thing. Why? Because no good marriage ever ended in divorce. Only bad ones.

If a woman threatens me once with breakup, she will never get the chance to do it again. Heaven forbid I be held to ransom by a recalcitrant jezebel. Anyway I'm not about to sign away my life to any entitled àss aunty in this life!

Baba, if e no favor you, tell her gerrarahia mehn!

(As long as YOU are blameless)
Re: My Mother-In-Law And My Wife Undermine Me by maestroz: 10:54pm On Mar 02, 2018
basingstoke:
Time to stand your ground

Guy, wetin be your own, na your marriage? Make e go resolve him family wahala na...sebi konji bin hold am then, e no no say marriage na for better for worst...

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