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Hi Ma'am

I'm a swedish woman, 35 years old. Single.Divorced and no kids. Not in Nigeria yet but plan to come.

I'm looking for work as a housemaid for a couple or family.

Why do I want that? I'm university educated but have lost my job and am divorced. I was never happy in my job, or my life. I have always felt the need to serve more than be served. To follow, not lead. I am ashamed how we in the west abuse the world.

I'd like to see how it is to live at the bottom. Where my life is only about serving you, obeying, working hard.

I know it's hard work. I know much of the time I will hate it.

I also know it will make me a better human.

Is there and couple or family that will take me in as Your live-in maid. That will help me become a better human, and to serve You?

Not looking for single men wanting sex.


Write me and we can talk, or write here. No plans are ready yet.

Respectfully

Anna

Can you carry a bucket of water on your head?

This is interesting.

Oyindidi:
Can you carry a bucket of water on your head?

No Ma'am.

I hope I can learn. I know I'm not as good as a Nigerian woman. But I am ready to work cheap.

anna4fun:
No Ma'am.

I hope I can learn. I know I'm not as good as a Nigerian woman. But I am ready to work cheap.

Are you in Nigeria?

Oyindidi:
Are you in Nigeria?

Not yet Ma'am.

I plan to but think I must find people to meet there before I go.

How many people in Nigeria have maids?

How well have you studied Nigerian culture and the society?

mabea:
How well have you studied Nigerian culture and the society?

Not so well. I mean I now it's a big country, both rich and poor in different parts. SO I figire there got to be all kinds of people too

anna4fun:
Not so well. I mean I now it's a big country, both rich and poor in different parts. SO I figire there got to be all kinds of people too

Yes you are right but i doubt if you will be able to cope because our system here is ways too different from where you are coming from.

I wants to try to cope. I think that is why I want to like dive right in.
If I am back here at home and work gets hard it's so easy to escape.
I need to be commited

If it's going to make you happy, then go for it.

But remember we do not pay by the hour, working hours are limitless.
Our Naira isn't worth anything compared to the Euro, so don't think about sending money home.
You know it's hard work but believe me you don't know it's this hard work.

I think it's mid life crisis (comes early these days).
Like I said, if it's going to make you happy, acquire the experience.