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Agadsman:
Op you forgot to add ladies....stop chasing after ladies and you will save more.

You are right. Having one partner to take care of won't make you go bankrupt except you want to impress her with presents more than you can afford.

Imagine that i make 10k per day but spends 6k on a lady and the remaining 4k for myself everyday. How could such person save whereas some other colleague who earns the same amount saves 5k and shares the remaining 5k between himself and his babe daily.

Thanks OP for the tips.

Excessive spending is one out of the 20 bad money habits that keep people poor.

See all the 20 habits here:

http://myafribusiness.com/20-money-habits-that-keep-you-poor-and-how-to-avoid-them/

dosage150:
Hahaha
That one na strong village person
u for dey village by now

lol

peacettw:
I was taught this very important tip from my mother... As much as possible, always try to 'under dress' and look local when entering the local market otherwise you will be fleeced off your hard earned cash. Sadly, this happened to me today.

although you have a point there but also remember some people look posh irrespective of what they wear, once u see them, u see ajebutter written all over them.

ReneeNuttall:
Draft a list of commodities you intend to buy,take excuse from work and go to any village market around u.Buy food stuffs in bulk esp on their market days,cook and store in refridgerator or chest freezer.Buy other stuffs in bulk or carton too,such as noodles, toiletries,etc as the price is way cheaper compared to buying one or two at home.This is the best way to conserve money.

do dis as a guy and you are called as stingy

dosage150:
yes bro


going back to my normal say


"few girls are supportive"

"I mean very few"


I once had one
though broken up now

don't let such a girl go (tho u might have your reasons)

chidichuddo:
do dis as a guy and you are called as stingy

depends on the environment u find urelf.I grew up to meet my family with this method,and my fiance does same, there's no biggie about it.Saves time,energy and money.

ReneeNuttall:
depends on the environment u find urelf.I grew up to meet my family with this method,and my fiance does same, there's no biggie about it.Saves time,energy and money.

I agree with you as I do the same thing too.


not everyone especially ladies would agree to this as it denies them the luxury of slaying or showing off

chidichuddo:
I agree with you as I do the same thing too.


not everyone especially ladies would agree to this as it denies them the luxury of slaying or showing off

you r right

chidichuddo:
don't let such a girl go (tho u might have your reasons)

we dated for good 3yrs
very tall,fair,kind,hardworking(even though I have to give her,she love to work herself and get the money,she can do whatever that is legit to survive and support the family,was a time she started a corn business)
Was damn faithful and so much love her,got to a time late last two years,she changed,no longer call,don't pick up my calls either,I was very worried and disorganized, no means to reach her, I stay in another city but same state,I had to get the brothers number,asked him of the girl,said she is very fine,that got me sick,I called her,she picked and give me Serious warning not to call her again,that she don't want again,I did everything humanly possible to know the problem and or if I did anything, she said nothing,I was even hospitalized (lol)after everything, I started regaining, travelled very far to Lagos,started living my life, but yet,I do cry cos of her,got to Oct last year,she started pleading to see me,saw her in Dec, asked for forgiveness, wish I forgave her, but the love is not really as before,she really broke my heart,we are in contact now,we chat,call each other,she is very exceptional and unique,no one have been like her,she still loves me,can't really date her again,I left her as a virgin,she came back being broken already,though we are in good terms,she really tore my heart,and ever since then,I can't love again

dosage150:
we dated for good 3yrs
very tall,fair,kind,hardworking(even though I have to give her,she love to work herself and get the money,she can do whatever that is legit to survive and support the family,was a time she started a corn business)
Was damn faithful and so much love her,got to a time late last two years,she changed,no longer call,don't pick up my calls either,I was very worried and disorganized, no means to reach her, I stay in another city but same state,I had to get the brothers number,asked him of the girl,said she is very fine,that got me sick,I called her,she picked and give me Serious warning not to call her again,that she don't want again,I did everything humanly possible to know the problem and or if I did anything, she said nothing,I was even hospitalized (lol)after everything, I started regaining, travelled very far to Lagos,started living my life, but yet,I do cry cos of her,got to Oct last year,she started pleading to see me,saw her in Dec, asked for forgiveness, wish I forgave her, but the love is not really as before,she really broke my heart,we are in contact now,we chat,call each other,she is very exceptional and unique,no one have been like her,she still loves me,can't really date her again,I left her as a virgin,she came back being broken already,though we are in good terms,she really tore my heart,and ever since then,I can't love again

you really tried (that's if the story is true) how did u get over her?, had the same experience, wasn't easy getting over it

chidichuddo:
you really tried (that's if the story is true) how did u get over her?, had the same experience, wasn't easy getting over it

why should I lie?
I can never
and she did me bad,do u see me saying she is bad?
I still speak good of her good side
I did nothing
people laugh of at me when I say that "I did nothing to her"
they will be like"Oga u de lie"
something must hv happened

Even if you asked her now
what I did
she can't even say anything
I loved her and gave her whatever she needs from a man
what more can I do

first after the breakup on phone,I came back,pretending everything is ok,cs don't want my mum to find out,I eat,discuss with them,but mehn everyday I get thinner,I cry in my closet,my elder brother only knew,I was breaking down each day,she blocked me on WhatsApp and Facebook, if I call her,she will pick and leave my call on the air,sends me disheartening messages(I have deleted them, cos looking at them then,I feel like committing suicide),"she told me we be never dated before"gosh,I nearly died,each time I call her,big guy like me will be crying(lol,its well),I pleaded with her to see first, even if its the last time she will,she came,I was in front of our house,I was crying, kneeling down,I begged her,she looked at me,and drove off without uttering a word(she rides bike)I became sick,was hospitalised for a week+,I picked up myself,told myself since I did nothing to her,she will surely come bk,I started being happy,my inner self was very happy
cos I did everything possible to make the relationship work again,I travelled to Lagos, had a work doing,always engaged, no free time,things were moving smoothly for me,but no matter how hard I assume to be,I still weep secretly, I miss everything about her,even now, I still miss everything about,a rare gem,wife material,there was a time she helped me with 75k,she is good,lovely and nice to be with
I draw to conclusion, a guy deceived her,all these away boys na,lol
am local,she saw ndi obodo oyibo
she betrayed me
I lost many things where am playing my faithfulness to her
but it's well
its not a regret
I really thank her for making me strong in the game, make I hear say any girl can treat me that way
but today we talk,I talk less of past, she is telling me to come back she wanna see me
next month gonna see her again
she is just my friend
cant really forger her memories



Lord u are my witness
I never added anything to the story to favour me
Am above that, took time to write to you
don't really have the time to start creating lies

dosage150:
why should I lie?
I can never
and she did me bad,do u see me saying she is bad?
I still speak good of her good side
I did nothing
people laugh of at me when I say that "I did nothing to her"
they will be like"Oga u de lie"
something must hv happened

Even if you asked her now
what I did
she can't even say anything
I loved her and gave her whatever she needs from a man
what more can I do

first after the breakup on phone,I came back,pretending everything is ok,cs don't want my mum to find out,I eat,discuss with them,but mehn everyday I get thinner,I cry in my closet,my elder brother only knew,I was breaking down each day,she blocked me on WhatsApp and Facebook, if I call her,she will pick and leave my call on the air,sends me disheartening messages(I have deleted them, cos looking at them then,I feel like committing suicide),"she told me we be never dated before"gosh,I nearly died,each time I call her,big guy like me will be crying(lol,its well),I pleaded with her to see first, even if its the last time she will,she came,I was in front of our house,I was crying, kneeling down,I begged her,she looked at me,and drove off without uttering a word(she rides bike)I became sick,was hospitalised for a week+,I picked up myself,told myself since I did nothing to her,she will surely come bk,I started being happy,my inner self was very happy
cos I did everything possible to make the relationship work again,I travelled to Lagos, had a work doing,always engaged, no free time,things were moving smoothly for me,but no matter how hard I assume to be,I still weep secretly, I miss everything about her,even now, I still miss everything about,a rare gem,wife material,there was a time she helped me with 75k,she is good,lovely and nice to be with
I draw to conclusion, a guy deceived her,all these away boys na,lol
am local,she saw ndi obodo oyibo
she betrayed me
I lost many things where am playing my faithfulness to her
but it's well
its not a regret
I really thank her for making me strong in the game, make I hear say any girl can treat me that way
but today we talk,I talk less of past, she is telling me to come back she wanna see me
next month gonna see her again
she is just my friend
cant really forger her memories



Lord u are my witness
I never added anything to the story to favour me
Am above that, took time to write to you
don't really have the time to start creating lies

would love to 've a drink with u one day, if u don't mind , probably on a holiday

chidichuddo:
would love to 've a drink with u one day, if u don't mind , probably on a holiday

oh!that's not a problem at all
would be a nice thing to meet new friends

chidichuddo:
would love to 've a drink with u one day, if u don't mind , probably on a holiday

thats not a problem at all
we can

izzyboi:
Source: https://didyouknowthesefacts./2018/03/12/10-ways-to-avoid-excessive-spending/

thank u so much

CHUKWUNOLOGICAL:
thank u so much

you're welcome

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