rvpbae:


He has checked oo. Nothing wrong.

Nne take a deep breath.Motherhood is not easy.
Continue to put him on the breast or you can visit a pediatrician to rule out any negativity.
It is well.

rvpbae:
Mamas why won't my baby latch? I'm sad and depressed it really hurts. I've tried and tried. I express to feed him but i want him to suck himself.

He is almost one week old. I supplement with nan1. Please everybody should help me. Abeg

my baby was like this o,she was used to been fed with syringe(easy life),when I put her to the breast she will cry and cry,it was so serious o and I was so unhappy my BP went up sef(i was been accused of not wanting to breastfeed sef) one day I made up my mind that she must latch,I hid the syringe and formular sef.when she is hungry I will force the breast in her mouth,she will remove mouth nd cry,I tried not to let the cry get me and continued o,when she saw I meant business she started latching small small,afer the 3rd day she became a pro.my dear don't let him get used to bottle or syringe o,continue trying when he is hungry put him to latch,do it throughout the day he will know you mean business.

nnekaike:
my baby was like this o,she was used to been fed with syringe(easy life),when I put her to the breast she will cry and cry,it was so serious o and I was so unhappy my BP went up sef(i was been accused of not wanting to breastfeed sef) one day I made up my mind that she must latch,I hid the syringe and formular sef.when she is hungry I will force the breast in her mouth,she will remove mouth nd cry,I tried not to let the cry get me and continued o,when she saw I meant business she started latching small small,afer the 3rd day she became a pro.my dear don't let him get used to bottle or syringe o,continue trying when he is hungry put him to latch,do it throughout the day he will know you mean business.

I'll keep trying. When he is hungry, i put the breast in his mouth and squeeze, he will just close mouth nd suck the milk that's coming out but wont latch.

I do this battle every feeding time o, that's like 8-9 times a day oo. I'll try nd try nd try, i just leave him and feed him. Or should i not just give him food and let him go hungry?

Everybody will now be calling me and asking if he is sucking

rvpbae:


I'll keep trying. When he is hungry, i put the breast in his mouth and squeeze, he will just close mouth nd suck the milk that's coming out but wont latch.

I do this battle every feeding time o, that's like 8-9 times a day oo. I'll try nd try nd try, i just leave him and feed him. Or should i not just give him food and let him go hungry?


Everybody will now be calling me and asking if he is sucking

he has to eat na,this is serious.just keep trying dear it's not easy at all.

Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

Could be mastitis.. Try to see a doctor today before it gets bigger.

nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazzyjazz
Zaynie
queensnow
enque
soonest
elmaspeed
liftedhands
alphahandmadien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

No idea ma'am

Maybe you should see a doctor?
Sorry dear

zaynie:


Could be mastitis.. Try to see a doctor today before it gets bigger.

chai,thank you ma.

jazzyjazz:

No idea ma'am
Maybe you should see a doctor? Sorry dear

thank you ma.

nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
cc.
jazz...yjazz
Za..ynie
que...ensnow
en...que
soo...nest
elm ...aspeed
lifted...hands
alphahand....madien
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

R u still breastfeeding?

imurboss:



Sorry dear, i can relate....please don't let inlaws insensitivity get to you at all. Infact, it would have been better they don't come at all than to come and be looking out for one fault or another.Try and ignore them,sleep and pretend you never heard their knock....you can't come & kill yourself for anyone o

Holysteph ,that's your answer. Everyone knows nursing mothers do not get enough sleep during the night. In the morning, switch off your phone or turn down the ring volume and sleep. Pretend not to hear any calls or knocks. If they come back later in the day, you can open door for them. If they ask, tell them you slept off as you didn't get enough sleep at night cos of baby. After doing this for some days, most people will get the message. They may have no idea that they are not helping your cause. You can help them understand indirectly or directly.

Good day!

enque:

R u still breastfeeding?

yes

Good day house, please who knows what type of antibiotic ointment i can use for babies of three months? A mild one to apply on skin.
Thanks in advance.

nnekaike:
Mama's please o come to my aid am in real pain,there is something that looks like boil on my areola, its hard and extremely painful.what could it be please and is there any solution,the pain will not allow my sleep.
All Mama's abeg,the pain is not beans biko.

Mastitis most probably. You may need antibiotics and analgesic. Sorry o!

Mamas, I try?
@11weeks

nahzyla:
Good day house, please who knows what type of antibiotic ointment i can use for babies of three months? A mild one to apply on skin.
Thanks in advance.

I don't know what an antibiotic ointment is but if you mean some for skin irritation or rash I'll advise you use baby tribotan its mild on their but you have to be patient with it

jazzyjazz:


No idea ma'am

Maybe you should see a doctor?
Sorry dear

Jazzyyyyyy, how is you? How is your borri? How is every every? #injenivasvoice

soonest:


Mastitis most probably. You may need antibiotics and analgesic. Sorry o!

thank you ma.

curvilicious:
Mamas, I try? @11weeks

over try,biko what is he eating.weldone mama.

Happy Easter Mothers.

@ curvilicious you over try. The Lord is your strength.

Please Mamas am angry at a particular person, though outside here. I just need to ask if my anger is justified before I attack her next time.

I am going to be brief.

What is the best age to stop wearing your kids diaper? I am a work at home mother and don't have anyone helping, (I have twins of 22 months old), the only woman I employ to help is on part time basis. Basically to help take care of my kids in the morning and I drop them at school, I also pick them up. We pick them up together and feeds them when we get home, she take her leave after that. So most times I am alone with then with some task to deliver to clients so most times I am locked up in my room working while they are in the living room watching tv.

I wear them diaper when alone so they don't mess up the place and get wounded when they fall.

Now the issue - with the situation of things I described above, you will see I hardly have the time to go out, i talk to my friends on phone now, no visit from both sides. There is this mama in my Neigbour hood, I was going to pick my kids one day and she begged me to drop her at the junction, I never knew she was trying to get close to me. In the process we got talking and I asked if she was on leave and she said she had left her work. Bla bla bla.

Oh, madam sorry about it, and then I introduced her to working from home. She started coming to my house to receive training and it's being crazy having her around. She will complain about how my kids are too old to be wearing diaper to me keeping them indoor to this to that, and she will say it so provocatively.

She even said her son who is just 15 months doesn't wee on the bed at night, I asked how she manage it and she said she wakes up every hour to make him wee. I told her it's crazy and that would have had effects on his sleep and she herself. Hear the next thing she talk: do you mean you sleep so deep? You don't have too, you are a mother and this and that....

I don't really know how to talk bad back at people, but am really boiling inside and waiting for her next visit; I train you free and you come to talk me down in my house, I am planning of walking her out when next she comes to me house. As in, I want to embarrass her.

The thing is, her aproko is too much, she is a tenant but knows about the stories of all the landlords around. I am sure she will come speaking next time, so certain, how best do I answer her?

How much are your kids paying? That school I heard it's expensive, haa it's too much for their age, I beg I wan measure am for full cup and give her.

Please advise. Hubby doesn't want me to embarrass her though and want me to stylishly stop the training am giving her, but I think she deserves I lash her.

Am just so angry not that I like shouting or fighting.

nnekaike:
over try,biko what is he eating.weldone mama.

It was bwess but he now takes rest in another month's time it will be est dont allow my enemies(MummyAudrey) hear what I just told you o

curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks

U sef know...
So you don see d meat?

SapphirePRINCEX:
U sef know...
So you don see d meat?

I wee change it for you o mama
How can you be showing that kind meat mai sleep com dey dream

olubankemi:
Happy Easter Mothers.

You get patience o.
I raise all mAh organs for you.

Ontop my free tutorial you carry wahala gum body when you never they craze?

Tell her that since she has all the sense in the world, she should go and handle her joblessness

curvilicious:


I wee change it for you o mama
How can you be showing that kind meat mai sleep com dey dream

SapphirePRINCEX:
You get patience o.
I raise all mAh organs for you.

Ontop my free tutorial you carry wahala gum body when you never they craze?

Tell her that since she has all the sense in the world, she should go and handle her joblessness

Aahahaha. Walahi, this woman is crazy. I will be racking my head and also opening applications to put her through she will be looking around for wetin she go talk. Am really going to throw away courtesy next time and lash her.

No be people dey post their children pictures to showcase their hard work? This woman can't put her kids pictures here; always having running nose and looking frail. I carry the son she is claiming not to be weeing on bed at 15 months and weighs like corn leaf. No weight at alllllll.

I don't just want to insult her with that.

I was able to respond to her when she said I cover my kids too much, I told her am better than her who open her kids up to cold and have running nose continuously which makes them look dirty.

curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks

Over over try o!
God bless him

Loisemm:

Holysteph ,that's your answer. Everyone knows nursing mothers do not get enough sleep during the night. In the morning, switch off your phone or turn down the ring volume and sleep. Pretend not to hear any calls or knocks. If they come back later in the day, you can open door for them. If they ask, tell them you slept off as you didn't get enough sleep at night cos of baby. After doing this for some days, most people will get the message. They may have no idea that they are not helping your cause. You can help them understand indirectly or directly.

Yeah i v thought about that before o lol.. but I saw it as coming rude...but its the best option. Now I no send anybody again. Dem no go help if I fall Ill, Na my pikin go suffer am.

olubankemi:


Aahahaha. Walahi, this woman is crazy. I will be racking my head and also opening applications to put her through she will be looking around for wetin she go talk. Am really going to throw away courtesy next time and lash her.

No be people dey post their children pictures to showcase their hard work? This woman can't put her kids pictures here; always having running nose and looking frail. I carry the son she is claiming not to be weeing on bed at 15 months and weighs like corn leaf. No weight at alllllll.

I don't just want to insult her with that.

I was able to respond to her when she said I cover my kids too much, I told her am better than her who open her kids up to cold and have running nose continuously which makes them look dirty.

I just dey vex as i dey read your rant!

What nonsense? Kai mama u try o!

In the first place,children should nt be compared! Every child has his/her uniqueness!
Na she dey buy the diapers for you or na she dey pay der school fees?
My first ds will be 3years old in Sept and i still wear diaper for him to sleep @ night. I wanted to stop it but hubby said no(afterall naim money).

Wearing diaper for them while you do your work is good o if not they'll keep disturbing you with "i want to poo" "i want to wee". And it cant be easy for you when you are distracted.

When next she comes and spills rubbish,please ask her if theres a prize,millions of dollars or an award for a child at their age who doesnt wear diapers!

Shes just jealous of your standard and good lifestyle and trying to pull you down to her own level!

Please "hush" her away! Nonsense and jagbajantis!

curvilicious:
Mamas, I try?
@11weeks

Chai what are you feeding him?.. Is it just breastmilk? I need to increase my breast milk feeding.