₦airaland Forum

Divay22:
Lol
Alright.. Mr civilized.. Have a good day.

prechbills1:
your status. nobody should date a broke guy.

broke ladies and broke guys aren't supposed to be in relationships...


my2cents

Jochabed:
May the Lord BLESS YOU A BILLION TIMES!!!!!!!!! No one is saying temptations will not come,infact tempations are there to test your faith.

It's either you fall for it or not. No matter what the world says.Purity Is Like Precious stones you hardly find. Bye

demelza:
What a mediocre life that lady is living.
So after passing out with good grades, her reward is "a financially-okay husband who provides everything for her and a child?"

And you think this is the kind of life you will wish your girl child to aspire to in a world of Angela Merkel?

Ladies,
Your worth in life is not determined by the hymen in between your legs. God's blessings do not come because of a hymen or not.
Work smart,
Be smart
Love yourself
Ignore trash
Stock up on knowledge

And you will have all these blessings and more.


@OP, Eku patriarchy o!

Offpoint:
Simple no sex during your school days no matter the pressure.... na him you decide to write epistle and expect me to read...


sey dem don scrap summary for schools curriculum ni?

for a million time.... I was not born to read

prechbills1:
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I miss the good old days back then in 2016 when there where matured and sensible people on nairaland..

demelza:
What a mediocre life that lady is living.
So after passing out with good grades, her reward is "a financially-okay husband who provides everything for her and a child?"

And you think this is the kind of life you will wish your girl child to aspire to in a world of Angela Merkel?

Ladies,
Your worth in life is not determined by the hymen in between your legs. God's blessings do not come because of a hymen or not.
Work smart,
Be smart
Love yourself
Ignore trash
Stock up on knowledge

And you will have all these blessings and more.


@OP, Eku patriarchy o!

Luukasz:
Well, I believe matured and sensible people are reasonable enough to know that anyone, man, woman, young or old can air his/her views or opinions online as they please

Michael781:
your future WIFE just left my bed too this morning already late for work

demelza:
What a mediocre life that lady is living.
So after passing out with good grades, her reward is "a financially-okay husband who provides everything for her and a child?"

And you think this is the kind of life you will wish your girl child to aspire to in a world of Angela Merkel?

Ladies,
Your worth in life is not determined by the hymen in between your legs. God's blessings do not come because of a hymen or not.
Work smart,
Be smart
Love yourself
Ignore trash
Stock up on knowledge

And you will have all these blessings and more.


@OP, Eku patriarchy o!

mikebrown92:
Your right but the world doesn't recognise a woman who is successful without a husband, its like an incomplete success without a husband to ladies.

Its an open door of fornication to a successful unmarried woman...

mikebrown92:
[s]Your right but the world doesn't recognise a woman who is successful without a husband, its like an incomplete success without a husband to ladies.

Its an open door of fornication to a successful unmarried woman...[/s]

demelza:
Thank God I no longer live in that world.
I pray you have the means to move to civilization before you pass away.

prechbills1:
have a nice day nigga,I don't have time for clowns.. goodbye

skarlett:
I wish I can like your post more than once, what a stupid and mediocre write-up

ndcide:
When we talk about sexual purity. Don't reduce it to "Hymen " for your information, God blesses sexual purity. With sexual purity, you can be smart and knowledgeable also.

Those who can't keep themselves, are not the smartest or most knowledgeable.

I repeat, God Almighty, blesses those who are determined to be sexualy pure.

Luukasz:
Huh you just sum it up kiddo, next time think sensibly & maturedly before spouting. Goodday

skarlett:
Corrected [s][/s]

prechbills1:
it baffles me that some Nigerians still think this way
..smh

demelza:
For your sanity, just ignore.

prechbills1:
nairaland is not a church

prechbills1:
dude stop qouting me abeg
all these kids on nairaland that are still in uni, some can't even eat well but they won't allow people to hear word.... dude don't ever quote me again

Luukasz:
Look at your reply then look at yourself, you'll discover youre a toddler possessing an 18yr old body

prechbills1:
okay.

sammyscholar:
Olatayo Samuel writes:

THE ORDEAL AND TRIUMPH OF A FEMALE COLLEAGUE ON CAMPUS

She did everything she had seen every successful student did to get excellent results. She read for long hours, attended every tutorial, yet, she always got average scores. She wanted distinction, or upper credit, at the very least, but she always wallowed in the deep of lower credit. She wanted 80s, 70s as scores, but 40s and 50s would not stop welcoming her whenever she visited the score board.

She is beautiful. Aye! She is naturally endowed! She does not need make up because she is naturally made up. She was cynosure of every lecturer's eyes. They wanted her: they wanted her body to satisfy their lustful desires.

Everyone knew she was not the kind of student who messed around or wanted any dirty affair with the lecturers even though she's sociable and respectful to everyone.

But these corrupt men would stop at nothing to get what they wanted. They knew she craved good grades and she was doing all that she could to get it. But, just like every other average student like her, the biggest of her effort could not get her more than average results.

So, they felt they could toss her some baits, using her strong desire for good grades.

"We would help her get the good grades she wants. We would tell other lecturers to accord her good grades, too. However, she should be ready to be in our good books. She should be ready to do our bids, just like some of her colleagues do".

"That is a bait too big to miss the hit," they assured themselves. "It is what almost every female student who struggles with academics like her wants," they said, with evil grin.

She resisted their advances and ingenuine help altogether. Even though she badly wanted good grades, and that her hardest effort could not get her more than average scores, she was strongly determined not to mess herself up on any lecturer's bed.

They discovered she would not budge an inch, no matter how hard, or what trick, they tried. Then, they resorted to threat. They shouted at her at every opportunity. They orally harassed her. They made her look stupid and dumb in the eyes of other students. They knew she was emotional and could barely form words whenever her emotion ran high. She always stuttered, although mildly, whenever she was worked up or put under stress. Even when she had ostensibly done nothing wrong, they would call her in public and begin to lambaste her.

They were the predators that ruled the jungle. And she was only a little vulnerable mouse, struggling for life in the midst of cruel devourers.

"You cannot be this beautiful and go like that without any of us having a taste of you," they always said, albeit covertly.

All this they did to a point that she started crying out. She had been battling this herself but she seemed not to have the strength to do it alone again. She needed whom she could pour her heart to so the weight would be light on her.

It is not even that she had not been crying before this day. She had but had always fought the tears from escaping her eyes lest people begin to inquire into the tale she was not ready to tell. I am also sure that she had, at one time or two, left herself to shed all the tears her body could produce when she was alone in her room.

I can never forget those words she muttered to us while tears cascaded down her beautiful face one fateful afternoon.

Heavily sobbing, she said, "This my womanhood en! It belongs to my husband and only him will see and touch it! No lecturer will! God will not make their evil wish come to pass on me!"

"Most of my colleagues are doing it but I never will. I will never do it. I never, ever will," she resolved.

Months and years have passed after we graduated. Today, she has a handsome, financially-okay, caring husband who respects and cares very much for her. God has also blessed her with beautiful child and her family has always known good days. Things are okay and peaceful with her today.

You wonder why God is making things sweet for her today? It is because she did not mess up her yesterday! Things are working pretty good for her today because she was not reckless about her yesterday.

She did not disobey her conscience while on campus. She did not mess herself up on the bed of a lecturer. She was determined but wasn't desperate to do any silly thing for grades. She respected her hubby yet unknown and made sure she kept herself clean and sealed for him.

So what can be said about you? Are you allowing your desires to make you desperate? If that is the case with you, please change today. Do not lose your dignity on the altar of desperation.

Always respect and protect your tomorrow!

sammyscholar:
Olatayo Samuel writes:

THE ORDEAL AND TRIUMPH OF A FEMALE COLLEAGUE ON CAMPUS

She did everything she had seen every successful student did to get excellent results. She read for long hours, attended every tutorial, yet, she always got average scores. She wanted distinction, or upper credit, at the very least, but she always wallowed in the deep of lower credit. She wanted 80s, 70s as scores, but 40s and 50s would not stop welcoming her whenever she visited the score board.

She is beautiful. Aye! She is naturally endowed! She does not need make up because she is naturally made up. She was cynosure of every lecturer's eyes. They wanted her: they wanted her body to satisfy their lustful desires.

Everyone knew she was not the kind of student who messed around or wanted any dirty affair with the lecturers even though she's sociable and respectful to everyone.

But these corrupt men would stop at nothing to get what they wanted. They knew she craved good grades and she was doing all that she could to get it. But, just like every other average student like her, the biggest of her effort could not get her more than average results.

So, they felt they could toss her some baits, using her strong desire for good grades.

"We would help her get the good grades she wants. We would tell other lecturers to accord her good grades, too. However, she should be ready to be in our good books. She should be ready to do our bids, just like some of her colleagues do".

"That is a bait too big to miss the hit," they assured themselves. "It is what almost every female student who struggles with academics like her wants," they said, with evil grin.

She resisted their advances and ingenuine help altogether. Even though she badly wanted good grades, and that her hardest effort could not get her more than average scores, she was strongly determined not to mess herself up on any lecturer's bed.

They discovered she would not budge an inch, no matter how hard, or what trick, they tried. Then, they resorted to threat. They shouted at her at every opportunity. They orally harassed her. They made her look stupid and dumb in the eyes of other students. They knew she was emotional and could barely form words whenever her emotion ran high. She always stuttered, although mildly, whenever she was worked up or put under stress. Even when she had ostensibly done nothing wrong, they would call her in public and begin to lambaste her.

They were the predators that ruled the jungle. And she was only a little vulnerable mouse, struggling for life in the midst of cruel devourers.

"You cannot be this beautiful and go like that without any of us having a taste of you," they always said, albeit covertly.

All this they did to a point that she started crying out. She had been battling this herself but she seemed not to have the strength to do it alone again. She needed whom she could pour her heart to so the weight would be light on her.

It is not even that she had not been crying before this day. She had but had always fought the tears from escaping her eyes lest people begin to inquire into the tale she was not ready to tell. I am also sure that she had, at one time or two, left herself to shed all the tears her body could produce when she was alone in her room.

I can never forget those words she muttered to us while tears cascaded down her beautiful face one fateful afternoon.

Heavily sobbing, she said, "This my womanhood en! It belongs to my husband and only him will see and touch it! No lecturer will! God will not make their evil wish come to pass on me!"

"Most of my colleagues are doing it but I never will. I will never do it. I never, ever will," she resolved.

Months and years have passed after we graduated. Today, she has a handsome, financially-okay, caring husband who respects and cares very much for her. God has also blessed her with beautiful child and her family has always known good days. Things are okay and peaceful with her today.

You wonder why God is making things sweet for her today? It is because she did not mess up her yesterday! Things are working pretty good for her today because she was not reckless about her yesterday.

She did not disobey her conscience while on campus. She did not mess herself up on the bed of a lecturer. She was determined but wasn't desperate to do any silly thing for grades. She respected her hubby yet unknown and made sure she kept herself clean and sealed for him.

So what can be said about you? Are you allowing your desires to make you desperate? If that is the case with you, please change today. Do not lose your dignity on the altar of desperation.

Always respect and protect your tomorrow!

mikebrown92:
Just as ur moniker read
Yu are offpoint

Euouae:
How do we read this long epistle now?


Next time, please add "Viewers Discretion"


The length irritates.

sammyscholar:
Yea