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Hello LS,

Please help me post my story. You can use any name but not my name please.

I am married to a man from Middle belt in Nigeria. We met at work,we work in the same company. Its almost three years of marriage now and I am pregnant with my second baby. My husband’s elder brother came to stay with us when he was briefly deployed to Lagos. He is in the police force,I dont want to mention his rank but he is a senior officer.

This my husband’s brother began to display certain behavior that I am not comfortable with. He will just come inside my bedroom without knocking. He does anything he likes without asking. He said,in their culture ,that men are free to see any woman in the family as their wife. So if he chose to sleep with me,he has a right to do so. I thought he was joking but my husband confirmed it. I told him that can never happen with me. My husband said something unbelievable,that he has ..........

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-family-and-their-twisted-culture-of-adultery/

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Samuelgr8:
Hello LS,

Please help me post my story. You can use any name but not my name please.

I am married to a man from Middle belt in Nigeria. We met at work,we work in the same company. Its almost three years of marriage now and I am pregnant with my second baby. My husband’s elder brother came to stay with us when he was briefly deployed to Lagos. He is in the police force,I dont want to mention his rank but he is a senior officer.

This my husband’s brother began to display certain behavior that I am not comfortable with. He will just come inside my bedroom without knocking. He does anything he likes without asking. He said,in their culture ,that men are free to see any woman in the family as their wife. So if he chose to sleep with me,he has a right to do so. I thought he was joking but my husband confirmed it. I told him that can never happen with me. My husband said something unbelievable,that he has ..........

https://livelystones.com.ng/my-husbands-family-and-their-twisted-culture-of-adultery/

A culture is nothing but a way of behaviour or ways of life of a particular set of people or society.
If their beliefs or traditions contradicts the commandments of God , you have the right to reject it .

You will account for how you use your body , which is the temple of the Holy Spirit , before God. Your husband will not stand to defend you.

This is what the Bible says as per your case :

Leviticus 18:1-6,16 KJV
And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying,
[2] Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the Lord your God.
[3] After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances.
[4] Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the Lord your God.
[5] Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the Lord .
[6] None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the Lord .
[16] Thou shalt not uncover the unclothedness of thy brother's wife: it is thy brother's unclothedness.

Jesus said :

Matthew 5:16-20 KJV
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
[17] Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.
[18] For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.
[19] Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them , the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
[20] For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

The Pharisees don't sleep with their brother's wife and Jesus told us that OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS SHOULD EVEN BE HIGHER THAN THOSE OF THE PHARISEES.

God is able to fight your battles for you, just commit your family into the hands of God and don't agree with their HELL culture .
Let your husband know that you are not going to do it. Then go on fasting and prayers.

May God help you to overcome, in Jesus name.

Waoh! Awesome contribution

enilove:
A culture is nothing but a way of behaviour or ways of life of a particular set of people or society.
If their beliefs or traditions contradicts the commandments of God , you have the right to reject it .

You will account for how you use your body , which is the temple of the Holy Spirit , before God. Your husband will not stand to defend you.

This is what the Bible says as per your case :

Leviticus 18:1-6,16 KJV
And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying,
[2] Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the Lord your God.
[3] After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances.
[4] Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the Lord your God.
[5] Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the Lord .
[6] None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the Lord .
[16] Thou shalt not uncover the unclothedness of thy brother's wife: it is thy brother's unclothedness.

Jesus said :

Matthew 5:16-20 KJV
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
[17] Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.
[18] For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.
[19] Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them , the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
[20] For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

The Pharisees don't sleep with their brother's wife and Jesus told us that OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS SHOULD EVEN BE HIGHER THAN THOSE OF THE PHARISEES.

God is able to fight your battles for you, just commit your family into the hands of God and don't agree with their HELL culture .
Let your husband know that you are not going to do it. Then go on fasting and prayers.

May God help you to overcome, in Jesus name.

Nice one

enilove:
A culture is nothing but a way of behaviour or ways of life of a particular set of people or society.
If their beliefs or traditions contradicts the commandments of God , you have the right to reject it .

You will account for how you use your body , which is the temple of the Holy Spirit , before God. Your husband will not stand to defend you.

This is what the Bible says as per your case :

Leviticus 18:1-6,16 KJV
And the Lord spake unto Moses, saying,
[2] Speak unto the children of Israel, and say unto them, I am the Lord your God.
[3] After the doings of the land of Egypt, wherein ye dwelt, shall ye not do: and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances.
[4] Ye shall do my judgments, and keep mine ordinances, to walk therein: I am the Lord your God.
[5] Ye shall therefore keep my statutes, and my judgments: which if a man do, he shall live in them: I am the Lord .
[6] None of you shall approach to any that is near of kin to him, to uncover their unclothedness: I am the Lord .
[16] Thou shalt not uncover the unclothedness of thy brother's wife: it is thy brother's unclothedness.

Jesus said :

Matthew 5:16-20 KJV
Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
[17] Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfil.
[18] For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled.
[19] Whosoever therefore shall break one of these least commandments, and shall teach men so, he shall be called the least in the kingdom of heaven: but whosoever shall do and teach them , the same shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.
[20] For I say unto you, That except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.

The Pharisees don't sleep with their brother's wife and Jesus told us that OUR RIGHTEOUSNESS SHOULD EVEN BE HIGHER THAN THOSE OF THE PHARISEES.

God is able to fight your battles for you, just commit your family into the hands of God and don't agree with their HELL culture .
Let your husband know that you are not going to do it. Then go on fasting and prayers.

May God help you to overcome, in Jesus name.