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scondy:
Did he really worship her or projected an image of worshipping her? Dis we ever hear cee-c state categorically tobi sexually harassed her? What she said when they were talking with Teddy was the fact they are cozy on the bed doesn't mean she wants him to go too far...but really does this statement imply sexual harassment or rather trying to set limits with their cuddling . It was from tobi's narrative to biggie and the housemates that we got to hear sexual harassment...he blew it up and told the whole house she held his dick.

I also felt the way everyone feels towards cee-c but lately I have decided to take a step back and look at things from a varied angle. Why was tobi so quick to tell everyone and biggie cee-c played a sexual harassment card when it was a private convo between them and even cee-c didn't say same to biggie or the housemates. When you go immediately over board to defend yourself, something is fishy. I feel like they cuddled and touched each other but cee-c may not have wanted to be touched down there. Maybe after she touched him , he proceeded to touch her down there and she stopped him. Then the convo about her cuddling not meaning she wants to go that far would be necessary.

We have all been young before, and when are a certain level of relationship with a guy where u guys cuddle but u don't want him to touch u down there just yet. If he tries to, I know we would usually go into length to clear the guy. This i believe is what cee-c did. Tobi blew the whole situation out of proportion cos of his desperation about the game and over thinking things too much. Whatever anyone does, tobi is the first person to relate it to strategy...it means he does things out of strategy too which he is why he is too suspicious.

scondy:
Did he really worship her or projected an image of worshipping her? Dis we ever hear cee-c state categorically tobi sexually harassed her? What she said when they were talking with Teddy was the fact they are cozy on the bed doesn't mean she wants him to go too far...but really does this statement imply sexual harassment or rather trying to set limits with their cuddling . It was from tobi's narrative to biggie and the housemates that we got to hear sexual harassment...he blew it up and told the whole house she held his dick.

I also felt the way everyone feels towards cee-c but lately I have decided to take a step back and look at things from a varied angle. Why was tobi so quick to tell everyone and biggie cee-c played a sexual harassment card when it was a private convo between them and even cee-c didn't say same to biggie or the housemates. When you go immediately over board to defend yourself, something is fishy. I feel like they cuddled and touched each other but cee-c may not have wanted to be touched down there. Maybe after she touched him , he proceeded to touch her down there and she stopped him. Then the convo about her cuddling not meaning she wants to go that far would be necessary.

We have all been young before, and when are a certain level of relationship with a guy where u guys cuddle but u don't want him to touch u down there just yet. If he tries to, I know we would usually go into length to clear the guy. This i believe is what cee-c did. Tobi blew the whole situation out of proportion cos of his desperation about the game and over thinking things too much. Whatever anyone does, tobi is the first person to relate it to strategy...it means he does things out of strategy too which he is why he is too suspicious.

scondy:
Did he really worship her or projected an image of worshipping her? Dis we ever hear cee-c state categorically tobi sexually harassed her? What she said when they were talking with Teddy was the fact they are cozy on the bed doesn't mean she wants him to go too far...but really does this statement imply sexual harassment or rather trying to set limits with their cuddling . It was from tobi's narrative to biggie and the housemates that we got to hear sexual harassment...he blew it up and told the whole house she held his dick.

I also felt the way everyone feels towards cee-c but lately I have decided to take a step back and look at things from a varied angle. Why was tobi so quick to tell everyone and biggie cee-c played a sexual harassment card when it was a private convo between them and even cee-c didn't say same to biggie or the housemates. When you go immediately over board to defend yourself, something is fishy. I feel like they cuddled and touched each other but cee-c may not have wanted to be touched down there. Maybe after she touched him , he proceeded to touch her down there and she stopped him. Then the convo about her cuddling not meaning she wants to go that far would be necessary.

We have all been young before, and when are a certain level of relationship with a guy where u guys cuddle but u don't want him to touch u down there just yet. If he tries to, I know we would usually go into length to clear the guy. This i believe is what cee-c did. Tobi blew the whole situation out of proportion cos of his desperation about the game and over thinking things too much. Whatever anyone does, tobi is the first person to relate it to strategy...it means he does things out of strategy too which he is why he is too suspicious.

stephleena:
Alex, and Tobi giving us another PDA.. hahahaha someone might faint!!!!!

Frankdammy:
choi, who could this be.?

stephleena:
Alex, and Tobi giving us another PDA.. hahahaha someone might faint!!!!!

eneabu83:
How do you guys know Tobi's fan base has increased?given that he has not been up for eviction in a while. The only true test of a house mate's popularity is from the percentage of their votes. This is exactly how Nina's fans thought they were more than Miracle's until the last result.

CookieLaVee:
LMAO...I know we all want to understand the bitter and vile character of CeeC but we shouldn't do it at the expense of others. She grabbed Tobi's dick and expected him to keep his hands on her face? When he didn't she accused him of sexual assault? C'mon now, let's call a spade a spade, I do not like Tobi for his childish ways but there is a limit to what anyone can take. Anybody who watched the first three weeks of this show would know that Ceec spoilt everything by herself.
Tobi remains the Victim of CeeC''s overbearing, bitter, vile, narcist and scornful attitude. She played herself, Let her bear the brunt.

CookieLaVee:
LMAO...I know we all want to understand the bitter and vile character of CeeC but we shouldn't do it at the expense of others. She grabbed Tobi's dick and expected him to keep his hands on her face? When he didn't she accused him of sexual assault? C'mon now, let's call a spade a spade, I do not like Tobi for his childish ways but there is a limit to what anyone can take. Anybody who watched the first three weeks of this show would know that Ceec spoilt everything by herself.
Tobi remains the Victim of CeeC''s overbearing, bitter, vile, narcist and scornful attitude. She played herself, Let her bear the brunt.

CookieLaVee:
LMAO...I know we all want to understand the bitter and vile character of CeeC but we shouldn't do it at the expense of others. She grabbed Tobi's dick and expected him to keep his hands on her face? When he didn't she accused him of sexual assault? C'mon now, let's call a spade a spade, I do not like Tobi for his childish ways but there is a limit to what anyone can take. Anybody who watched the first three weeks of this show would know that Ceec spoilt everything by herself.
Tobi remains the Victim of CeeC''s overbearing, bitter, vile, narcist and scornful attitude. She played herself, Let her bear the brunt.

scondy:
My take on the ceebi issue is this..

While ceec obviously has her issues and lacks human relation skills , tobi is an extremely childish person and Alex is a highly insensitive person and does too much eye service.

Tobi's major problem was presenting a fake version of himself just to get cee-c and that is very wrong of him. From the word go, he should have just cleared her that I am this lively person that jokes around and love flirting with girls (I remember miracle told Nina something of this sort, even bambam told teddy and teddy did same too). The girl at the beginning told him she is very jealous and possessive and that if this flirty nature is who he is then they should pause the whole thing and play the game. If they get outside they would see how far. Tobi insisted that No, he was so serious about the whole thing, wants them to be steady for now ....bla...bla...bla..

I agree that cee-c 's problem was pushing things too far and her shakara was too much but she had thought tobi was extremely into her and couldn't switch..

Now, if we are to be honest with ourselves, Tobi's switch was unusual. If he really did like cee-c as much as he proclaimed, even if he wanted to avoid being in her space too much , he didn't ve to do it in such away that he broadcasted their issue to the whole house while painting her as the demon and absorbing himself of any guilt. My guess is Tobi wanted to play a romantic script and he saw cee-c as the perfect fit. Unfortunately cee-c is not the PDA kinda girl and is very conscious of her actions especially on TV(solid and excellent attribute). And when he saw he can't get that full romance he needed for the game, he switched to a totally different person within just a day. He kept being insensitive to the fact that he had gotten the girl to develop feelings for him and kept throwing things at her. First he swapped her when he had an option , then he would throw jabs her way at any opportuinity. this was what brought out the full bitterness in cee-c. She was hurting and had no one to pour her heart to and had to result to lashing out at everyone around. Like they say, hell hath no fury like a scorned woman.


On Alex's part, you don't form besties with a guy that is/was romantically involved with another lady in the same space. This is so insensitive of her. I ve Seen Alex to be one who thrives on male attention. She wants to be the centre of attention for every guy in the house. This is why she would play extremely with teddy even though she detested him. Same way she would form besties with dee-one & bitto at one point. Now she is also forming bestie with Miracle. The guy has a babe in that house, the sane thing to do is respect that space. This is what she refused to do with ceebi. We all saw how she couldn't stand khloe when she did the same with her Leo. How would she have felt if she had a scuffle with Leo and then another lady sweeps in and starts forming bestie and even discussing her. This is someone that was wailing when Leo left, u would have thought she would keep a reasonable distance from every guy in the house to respect what she had with Leo. Now she and tobi are already caressing each other's faces. My major issue with her is even how she lacks comportment. She has no carriage. She can lay on whoever, get physically loose with her body with any guy all in the name of dance or friendship.

Cee-c needs to learn when and how to limit being strong and independent as a woman, sometimes you succumb to a man just because. She also has to learn to be less possessive and not just assume every guy that wants to be with her should accept her that way.

As for Tobi, he is just all those type of guys that form like you are the next best thing to slice bread just to get with you and then switch on you once they get what they want.

stephleena:
Alex, and Tobi giving us another PDA.. hahahaha someone might faint!!!!!

stephleena:
sisterly, just tell me wat makes u think Cece is strong..lol, guess Nigerians have another meaning of the word, which most if us ain't familiar with yet.
now cee-c's, strength in the eyes of"strong", Nigerian women like her self,is being "obsessive, she sees tobi as her own space..
troublesome, both present and past housemates, had their fair share of CeCe's trouble pie..
pride, stupidly proud..always asking" who are u""...??
also being hateful, hating on Alex, coz Alex is giving peace of mind to a man, she despises.. she told tobi last night,I can never break the walls I have with Alex..
why, should a"strong woman ", be that hateful??..
am not a fan of Nina but I put it to u that Nina, is far way stronger to CeCe's, Nina admits her wrong even wen she had issues with miracle, she swore never to go back to him,but wen she couldn't control it she sorted the whole stuff,right now they are happy.. it takes strength, to humble ur pride ...

senatordave1:
You see,you dont know the whole gist.your basis and premises are false.what happened was that on a particular night,he woke up and found ceec half unclad.he used his jacket to cover her.this isnt the first time oh.she woke up and started asking tobi funny and accusatory questions if he touched her/molested her in a conclusive manner.that was the trigger.i stand to be corrected.

CookieLaVee:
LMAO...I know we all want to understand the bitter and vile character of CeeC but we shouldn't do it at the expense of others. She grabbed Tobi's dick and expected him to keep his hands on her face? When he didn't she accused him of sexual assault? C'mon now, let's call a spade a spade, I do not like Tobi for his childish ways but there is a limit to what anyone can take. Anybody who watched the first three weeks of this show would know that Ceec spoilt everything by herself.
Tobi remains the Victim of CeeC''s overbearing, bitter, vile, narcist and scornful attitude. She played herself, Let her bear the brunt.

senatordave1:
You see,you dont know the whole gist.your basis and premises are false.what happened was that on a particular night,he woke up and found ceec half unclad.he used his jacket to cover her.this isnt the first time oh.she woke up and started asking tobi funny and accusatory questions if he touched her/molested her in a conclusive manner.that was the trigger.i stand to be corrected.

genius43:
Thank you for this.

They all see past her flaws and indiscretions and want us to like and accept her like that.

But they find joy in bringing down someone who was a victim.

The only crime Tobi committed in the first week was using his balls and not using his head in making a life changing decision.

senatordave1:
Ceec is right now sitting lonely and isolated.another emotional breakdown looms.it seems she didnt build any wall between just her and alex but with other housemates.

oshe11:
Guess

Misswang001:
Tobi will never leave Alex for Cee C. How can you leave happiness for nagging and quarrels? Tobi should know he is even getting fatter and happier with Alex around him, than when he was loosing weight and drying up when he was close to Cee C.

stephleena:
Alex, and Tobi giving us another PDA.. hahahaha someone might faint!!!!!

Ritaze12:
I'm surprised people are actually supporting Cee-c's behavior let alone campaigning for her to win. Well different strokes for different strokes.
Cee-c and I can't last a day as friends. Her character is flawed in many ways. Her parents did a bad job raising her.

YumMinaYum:
No go face Tobi ooooo, stay here dey drag Nina fans wey no send una. I pray it's never too late before una eyes go clear...

Threebear: