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Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by dominique(mod): 4:09am On Apr 21, 2018
ReinaFarine:
I don't know where NL guys get the idea that feminism is a movement geared to support or protect the female gender. But I'll love to read that documentary. Feminism believes criminals should be punished irrespective of gender.

No feminist will codedly support abuse from any gender and mete on any gender. Case in point Cee-c vs. Tobi verbal abuse debacle two days ago.


But it seems you're getting something twisted.

What the commissioner meant was the number of female domestic abusers is on the rise. Not that there are more female abusers than male abusers. If out of 1,771 domestic violence cases, 138 have women as the perpetrators then the ration of male to female abusers is easily 11 : 1.
It's 38 out of 1171 cases so the ratio is approx 31:1
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by dominique(mod): 4:32am On Apr 21, 2018
JasonScolari:
First of all, i totally got the statistic the commissioner rolled out, secondly, i don't have time for the big brother bullshit, and i understand perfectly what/who feminist stands for But the infamous, small-mindedness, one sided and useless sets of foolish nairaland feminist are the worst peddlers of feminism. It's either they're in one thread in a hot-blooded manner discriminating the male folks or look for a way to attack any severe criticism coming from the opposite gender.


So my dear, NL guys knows what a true and unbiased feminist stands for, not these group of NL morons.
You seem to me like a frustrated person cos I don't understand what this bitter rant is all about. You saw a report that 38 cases of DV out of 1,171 cases are men and the best you can do is call out feminists? What concerns feminism or feminists here? The 1,133 female domestic violence victims are of no concern to you, they should go and die since they can't watch their tongues to avoid being battered. The poor male vicims however are victims of what feminism is doing to the society bla bla bla.

Violence must be shunned in all entirety regardless the gender of the victim or the oppressor. No sane person should ever justify it.

Mind you, I don't subscribe to most of these feminism ideologies but I totally identify with the oppression some women go through in this country and I have a right to speak against it without being labelled a feminist.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by charain: 5:08am On Apr 21, 2018
Weak men should start watching their mouth when addressing their wives.
Bad husbands can provoke the most gentle wives with verbal assault.
In fact verbal abuse is worse than physical abuse.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 5:46am On Apr 21, 2018
Very good
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by cr7lomo: 6:00am On Apr 21, 2018
dominique:
You seem to me like a frustrated person cos I don't understand what this bitter rant is all about. You saw a report that 38 cases of DV out of 1,171 cases are men and the best you can do is call out feminists? What concerns feminism or feminists here? The 1,133 female domestic violence victims are of no concern to you, they should go and die since they can't watch their tongues to avoid being battered. The poor male vicims however are victims of what feminism is doing to the society bla bla bla.

Violence must be shunned in all entirety regardless the gender of the victim or the oppressor. No sane person should ever justify it.

Mind you, I don't subscribe to most of these feminism ideologies but I totally identify with the oppression some women go through in this country and I have a right to speak against it without being labelled a feminist.
Speak about the one that is on ground now... U are a brain.less woman thinking u are a feminist...fake woman that don't even understand the meaning of feminism
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by babapressy(m): 6:24am On Apr 21, 2018
Too bad
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 6:26am On Apr 21, 2018
dominique:
[s]You seem to me like a frustrated person cos I don't understand what this bitter rant is all about. You saw a report that 38 cases of DV out of 1,171 cases are men and the best you can do is call out feminists? What concerns feminism or feminists here? The 1,133 female domestic violence victims are of no concern to you, they should go and die since they can't watch their tongues to avoid being battered. The poor male vicims however are victims of what feminism is doing to the society bla bla bla.

Violence must be shunned in all entirety regardless the gender of the victim or the oppressor. No sane person should ever justify it.

Mind you, I don't subscribe to most of these feminism ideologies but I totally identify with the oppression some women go through in this country and I have a right to speak against it without being labelled a feminist.[/s]
Lol, If you're not one of the hot-blooded ignorant and pained leader of the dumb nairaland feminist association, then you must be their errand girl who goes about dishing out useless ban, that's by the way. Read my first comment again and try to do it slowly and stop squirting warm blood on my mentions.

Disgrace of a mod. cheesy
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 6:27am On Apr 21, 2018
cr7lomo:
Speak about the one that is on ground now... U are a brain.less woman thinking u are a feminist...fake woman that don't even understand the meaning of feminism
Lol, leave that frustrated hag... Seun never pay. grin
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by kmaster007: 6:37am On Apr 21, 2018
wat is d law goin to say abt dis as since nah wife beat husband no b husband beat wife.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by TechAddiction: 6:41am On Apr 21, 2018
JasonScolari:
So funny how the hypocritical hippo seeks safety in lightness, weightless and undulating flight, but when it's the other way round, you turn into a bald headed ugly vulture. You already know that you are a coward, a big one at that. Break yourself free from the feminism slavery. Go out and engage in meaningful discussions and never you swim deep into stupidity again. I never intimidate but i don't tolerate stupidity.

Bros easy na, before dem hear say person don commit suicide for mushin... grin grin




Adios!
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by godofuck231: 6:41am On Apr 21, 2018
JasonScolari:
Shut tha furck up Hippo, you've been morally bankrupt by this bullshit feminism. Allow me to redeem you of this slavery.
Ooooooo world star s#it shocked
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by TechAddiction: 6:43am On Apr 21, 2018
[quote author=JasonScolari post=66879297]So funny how the hypocritical hippo seeks safety in lightness, weightless and undulating flight, but when it's the other way round, you turn into a bald headed ugly vulture. You already know that you are a coward, a big one at that. Break yourself free from the feminism slavery. Go out and engage in meaningful discussions and never you swim deep into stupidity again. I never intimidate but i don't tolerate stupidity.






Adios!

Bros easy na, before dem hear say person don commit suicide for mushin.. grin grin
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 6:43am On Apr 21, 2018
JasonScolari:
[color=red][b]The commissioner said that a total number of 1,771 cases were reported during the period under review while violence against men had increased to 38. He said: “Ministry has noted an increase in report of domestic abuse against men.[/color


And some foolish sets of confused ladies under the umbrella of feminism are already viewing this thread without saying anything but when it's the other way round, you'll see them masturbating uncontrollably in this thread till it gets to page 69 e.g Ladyhippolyta88...
. Mumu of you!!!!!!!!!!
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 6:44am On Apr 21, 2018
[quote author=TechAddiction post=66893744][/quote]I mean no harm bro smiley
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by godofuck231: 6:50am On Apr 21, 2018
Just like any normal man guys just de persevere, even when the wife de misbehave
Or over react we stay cool like miracle and let the woman calm down, we men are built though, some women get cranked up easily especially on their monthly circle, no need to call police for our case all we handle things like bosses and eat our apples and water mellons, just like I do eat mine.

Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by MissWrite(f): 7:18am On Apr 21, 2018
The positive thing I see here is that cases of domestic violence against men get reported to the police. This shows that a reasonable number of men are no longer ashamed to report incidences of battery meted out on them by their wives. They no longer feel pressure to bear it in silence just because it is expected of them to be macho. Every man should liberate himself of such expectations. It's encouraging to note that the boxes are already disappearing in this regard: domestic violence is a felony charge (or at least a misdemeanor) and should be reported whether it's being perpetrated by a man or woman. That's equality. That's feminism. The police should simply do its job.

To the men in abusive relationships, kindly see the note that has been given to women for a while: if she beats you, leave her. The relationship is unhealthy for you. And you don't want to model that kind of behavior (of allowing yourself be abused) for your sons: a human being deserves respect.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 7:24am On Apr 21, 2018
MissWrite:
The positive thing I see here is that cases of domestic violence against men get reported to the police. This shows that a reasonable number of men are no longer ashamed to report incidences of battery meted out on them by their wives. They no longer feel pressure to bear it in silence just because it is expected of them to be macho. Every man should liberate himself of such expectations. It's encouraging to note that the boxes are already disappearing in this regard: domestic violence is a felony charge (or at least a misdemeanor) and should be reported whether it's being perpetrated by a man or woman. That's equality. That's feminism. The police should simply do its job.

To the men in abusive relationships, kindly see the note that has been given to women for a while: if she beats you, leave her. The relationship is unhealthy for you. And you don't want to model that kind of behavior (of allowing yourself be abused) for your sons: a human being deserves respect.
Brilliant.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:27am On Apr 21, 2018
Nairarealman:
You mentioned above you won't reply him or quote him lolz I guess he has your attention locked and tight if not ignore this thread go somewhere else you already read the content. It still boils down to the topic I bet if he is face to face with you the next action would be a slap... Just here to observe goodluck wasting your precious ::::
And I didn't. sad
I replied theupsetgirl.It seems you didn't understand .Yes its true if I come face to face with him I would really want to slap him.You got that right. cool
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by babasolution: 7:29am On Apr 21, 2018
AntiBrutus:
Oh well, when a man batters a woman, 'menist' tell women to watch their mouths. I expect them to say same when the table turns, rather they start calling on feminist.

Till people start seeing domestic violence from a non-gender based perspective...the blame game will continue.
there is nothing like menists,men have never identified as menists,women should stop putting female type labels on men,we didnt ask for it,we are not like women
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:42am On Apr 21, 2018
neezar:
that girl no be feminist
Better mind your business neezar cool

I don't think you know Hippolyta outside here so you should do well to be sure of what you say and besides who are you to define a feminist? huh
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by zinaunreal(m): 8:05am On Apr 21, 2018
Chai! Women are wicked in all branches
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 8:08am On Apr 21, 2018
Westbestside:
You don finish the talk my brother. Make money and turn these hoes to slave.
That's the new way of life.. When the money is there, they would fall cheaply like pure water nylon.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by dominique(mod): 8:56am On Apr 21, 2018
JasonScolari:
Lol, If you're not one of the hot-blooded ignorant and pained leader of the dumb nairaland feminist association, then you must be their errand girl who goes about dishing out useless ban, that's by the way. Read my first comment again and try to do it slowly and stop squirting warm blood on my mentions.

Disgrace of a mod. cheesy
I don't have to read your comment again to know that you're nothing but a frustrated misogynist. Your online ranting will never solve any of your numerous problems, you'll just keep giving yourself high BP. Why not channel all your frustrations on whoever made you this bitter?

Disgrace of a human being.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Charly68: 10:02am On Apr 21, 2018
It is tramadol disaster oo! Women beating husbands..Eko for show
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 10:34am On Apr 21, 2018
dominique:
I don't have to read your comment again to know that you're nothing but a frustrated misogynist. Your online ranting will never solve any of your numerous problems, you'll just keep giving yourself high BP. Why not channel all your frustrations on whoever made you this bitter?

Disgrace of a human being.
Lol, I still marvel at how wholeheartedly you and your cronies embraced stupidity but of course, you have fallen into disrepair. Need I remind the viewers of this thread that you're a shameless mod and only good at dishing at ban to your foes.

I am overtaken by a sense of excitement and trepidation seeing the pains I am making you go through.

Now dumbnique, sped off my mentions. wink
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by neezar: 10:40am On Apr 21, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Better mind your business neezar cool

I don't think you know Hippolyta outside here so you should do well to be sure of what you say and besides who are you to define a feminist? huh
there are no feminists on nairalanders....u guys are just noisemakers

Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by MrMoney007: 10:45am On Apr 21, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
I don't have time to exchange words with you but I would advise you to try and have sense.
Quoting me would not give you the attention you are looking for just try to ignore me and let me do same.
Respect yourself.
You can quote me again and I promise never to reply any of your mentions from now on and if I do you are free to call me a coward.
I could careless about your opinions.
what makes you feel that anyone that mentions you seeks for attention? attention from who exactly?
Don't be a maggot that sounds mentally underfed by rotted corpse baby girl.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Nobody: 10:47am On Apr 21, 2018
MrMoney007:
what makes you feel that anyone that mentions you seeks for attention? attention from who exactly?
Don't be a maggot that sounds mentally underfed by rotted corpse baby girl.
Wow, that was brutal. cheesy
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by zinaunreal(m):
My girlfriend beats me up. Women are so abusive
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:55am On Apr 21, 2018
MrMoney007:
what makes you feel that anyone that mentions you seeks for attention? attention from who exactly?
Don't be a maggot that sounds mentally underfed by rotted corpse baby girl.
Don't put words in my mouth boy,The last time I checked I was not referring to you.If you do not know that the guy has been mentioning me since then keep quiet and forever hold your peace.I don't like insults or are you the one so that I would ignore your mentions?
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 11:00am On Apr 21, 2018
neezar:
there are no feminists on nairalanders....u guys are just noisemakers
Then keep your opinion to yourself neezar and don't tag me with your illusions.When we say we are not christians they would say they have not seen atheists or agnostic outside this forum.Your view and opinion about what I identify with is very inconsequential to me.Learn to mind your business.
Re: More Lagos Wives Beat Husbands, Says Commissioner by neezar: 11:07am On Apr 21, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Then keep your opinion to yourself neezar and don't tag me with your illusions.When we say we are not christians they would say they have not seen atheists or agnostic outside this forum.Your view and opinion about what I identify with is very inconsequential to me.Learn to mind your business.
oh too much talk

go and read ur books ahbeg

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