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Should I Distance Myself? by iamsamdeyking(op):
Good day nairalanders.
Had ndmdn x. Fjej
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Graxie(f): 3:57pm On Apr 19, 2018
Move out, go and huzzle for yourself. Break free from their bondage. It will be hard at first but you will be in-charge later. Pray more, Jesus is still alive and He answers prayers.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by iamsamdeyking(op): 3:59pm On Apr 19, 2018
Graxie:
Move out, go and huzzle for yourself. Break free from their bondage. It will be hard at first but you will be in-charge later. Pray more, Jesus is still alive and He answers prayers.
Thanks brother.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by tolugar: 4:00pm On Apr 19, 2018
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Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Mumben(f): 4:50pm On Apr 19, 2018
if u re working and can support urself, pls give them space.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Apr 19, 2018
A unique family setup. Pay undivided attention to your studies and tone down on the distractions of a girl. The spirits said I should tell you FOCUS FOCUS FOCUS.

You shall teach them love with example when your time is right. Stay true to who you are at your core.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by GoldCircle: 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2018
Sorry man, your writing is a bit incoherent. Try again.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Mollyallex(f): 10:19pm On Apr 19, 2018
First, I commend you;

For knowing what is right and sticking to it for this long, notwithstanding the environment in which you grew up; it couldn't have been easy.

The issue at hand;

if you can hustle enough to stay on your own, I suggest you move out and cater for yourself. This doesn't necessarily make you love them less(your family).

It's not healthy staying around toxic people and those who trample on your self esteem ( making you feel unwanted).

Then like someone rightly said; FOCUS, that some of your sibs are averse to relationships with the opposite gender, shouldn't make you run away from it or rush into it. Start off a relationship not because you feel you are old enough to but because you are ready to.

Never lose focus, neither on your studies nor on your principles.

Peace.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by 4lorunsho(m): 5:54am On Apr 20, 2018
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Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Chikelue2000(m): 11:11am On Apr 21, 2018
Mollyallex:
First, I commend you;

For knowing what is right and sticking to it for this long, notwithstanding the environment in which you grew up; it couldn't have been easy.

The issue at hand;

if you can hustle enough to stay on your own, I suggest you move out and cater for yourself. This doesn't necessarily make you love them less(your family).

It's not healthy staying around toxic people and those who trample on your self esteem ( making you feel unwanted).

Then like someone rightly said; FOCUS, that some of your sibs are averse to relationships with the opposite gender, shouldn't make you run away from it or rush into it. Start off a relationship not because you feel you are old enough to but because you are ready to.

Never lose focus, neither on your studies nor on your principles.

Peace.
dear
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Nobody:
I'm more concerned that your Dad beats your mom. She's clearly being abused if your Dad is constantly beating her.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Nobody: 12:55pm On Apr 21, 2018
Distance yourself please.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by Richy4(m): 2:34pm On Apr 21, 2018
You have your own life to live... your siblings have also chosen their own part.. all you need is to define your own and stick to it... I have no respect for anyone that forsakes his or her family.. good or bad..

You might be surprised that those family that you intend to abandon today might be the one to die for you when you least expected it..

All I'm trying to say is that you should be the architects of your own life.. don't let any one define it for you.. And my dear brother, marriage is not and achievement.... It's just when two people decides to be together..If your sisters decides not to be with anyone , don't feel bad about it.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by iamsamdeyking(op): 3:04pm On Jul 06, 2018
you are the best
thanks so much
Mollyallex:
First, I commend you;

For knowing what is right and sticking to it for this long, notwithstanding the environment in which you grew up; it couldn't have been easy.

The issue at hand;

if you can hustle enough to stay on your own, I suggest you move out and cater for yourself. This doesn't necessarily make you love them less(your family).

It's not healthy staying around toxic people and those who trample on your self esteem ( making you feel unwanted).

Then like someone rightly said; FOCUS, that some of your sibs are averse to relationships with the opposite gender, shouldn't make you run away from it or rush into it. Start off a relationship not because you feel you are old enough to but because you are ready to.

Never lose focus, neither on your studies nor on your principles.

Peace.
Re: Should I Distance Myself? by iamsamdeyking(op): 3:05pm On Jul 06, 2018
thank you
Richy4:
You have your own life to live... your siblings have also chosen their own part.. all you need is to define your own and stick to it... I have no respect for anyone that forsakes his or her family.. good or bad..

You might be surprised that those family that you intend to abandon today might be the one to die for you when you least expected it..

All I'm trying to say is that you should be the architects of your own life.. don't let any one define it for you.. And my dear brother, marriage is not and achievement.... It's just when two people decides to be together..If your sisters decides not to be with anyone , don't feel bad about it.
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