kapelvej:
Thank you for bringing your experiences in.Sincerely I am really bothered about the kids. I can not force her to Love me,.

Im loosing my sleep to respond, I modified my post to talk about the kids, but network was bad. Brother, God forbid bad thing oo, what if u have died in this 'struggle'? Your kids will survive, and dont be surprised she may have poisoned the minds of the innocent kids against u, one day your kids will look for you, your life is important dont give urself hbp

janefarms2015:


Im loosing my sleep to respond, I modified my post to talk about the kids, but network was bad. Brother, God forbid bad thing oo, what if u have died in this 'struggle'? Your kids will survive, and dont be surprised she may have poisoned the minds of the innocent kids against u, one day your kids will look for you, your life is important dont give urself hbp

Thank you so much. I am really sorry for disrupting your sleep . Thanks for your thoughts on this issue. Good morning!!!.

janefarms2015:


Op, ive been following this thread, ive never made any comment, im over 50 years old with similar experience, wake up the truth is that ur wife has moved onnnnnnnn!!!! You will not be the first person, neither d second nor d third to divorce, forget love, you are a man, I hope you dont commit suicide when the reality dawn on u, stop consoling urself, shes no longer in love with u

sir please how did you carry on? it's very difficult for some of us who our wives left us.

Emvicprints1:
sir please how did you carry on? it's very difficult for some of us who our wives left us.

My brother, first you need to make reconcilatory efforts through many channels, friends, families, church members, etc and if all fails just have these in mind:

1. Check yourself to see if you exhibit some xters that repel her
2. Give her time, stop communications with her till she does.
3. The fact that she is no more with you doesnt mean that thousands if not millions of ladies are looking for men like you.
4. Switch your mind off her completely and start looking for a new relationship.

Best of luck!

janefarms2015:


My brother, first you need to make reconcilatory efforts through many channels, friends, families, church members, etc and if all fails just have these in mind:

1. Check yourself to see if you exhibit some xters that repel her
2. Give her time, stop communications with her till she does.
3. The fact that she is no more with you doesnt mean that thousands if not millions of ladies are looking for men like you.
4. Switch your mind off her completely and start looking for a new relationship.

Best of luck!

sir my case is very pathetic. you could send me an email eusehoghale@gmail.com I would try explain in short she has her family backings they are in support of her the issue is she tried been a control freak but it did not work out

Take time to work with this doc I sent you, it might work. You will call me and testify.

Bass123:
Take time to work with this doc I sent you, it might work. You will call me and testify.

thank you Sir

Bass123:
Take time to work with this doc I sent you, it might work. You will call me and testify.

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kapelvej:
Domestic violence ?, nooooo not me. Sincerely, this is the story the way it is. Well, the Norwegian authourity see the EU as one big country.

I think you should carefully consider your options. Are you ready for the consequences of divorce?. What are the laws governing divorce over there? If you are not ready, then start thinking of a soft landing for yourself. I.I amicable resolution of this issue in a way that least bruises your ego

Gliding:


I think you should carefully consider your options. Are you ready for the consequences of divorce?. What are the laws governing divorce over there? If you are not ready, then start thinking of a soft landing for yourself. I.I amicable resolution of this issue in a way that least bruises your ego

There are no hard and fast rules on divorce. The woman most times gets all the advantages. She comes under government financial care, and if you are working, you most support the kids financially... Concerning amicable resolution, that will be difficult since she is not talking to anybody. This has been going on for years. i think she just want to be by herself. Most women are like that here, the government gives them literally everything

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ezimo777:


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eniolorunfe:


This new information brings another twist to your story.

What are your plans for keeping your family together after relocating? How long do you think you can sustain your marriage while shuttling from one country to another even without this issues you're presently having? Was your wife fully in support of this new move?

I won't be surprised if this is the reason for your present issues. It's possible your wife feels that you value your job more than your family.

I suggest taking a leave and going to Norway to see your family and find out the answers you seek face to face. No be fight o... See your wife as your sister and try to understand her angle to whatever issues you're both having. If possible, plan a family outing before going and after the outing everyone would be more relaxed giving room for talking as husband & wife.

Has it occurred to you that she may be having a tough time adjusting to your relocation? Go get the book on the 5 love languages, find out her love language and show her some love in a language she can understand.

She probably needs some reassurance that your family is still your first priority. Also have a plan in place for keeping you guys together and discuss this with her so, this separation can be for a short while. Try and reach a compromise as a family.

Relocation isn't easy on anyone if you're truthful with yourself!!!

I know you said most of the issues didn't start today, but we didn't see you on nairaland opening a thread and asking questions about your marriage before now. That means you were able to handle your issues before relocating.

I TOTALLY AGREE WITH U.PLS HEED D ADVICE. GOD CAN DO ANYTHING AND EVERY THING TO MAKE U HV PEACE. HDLP HER GET HEALINGS PLS.