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Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Andrez123(m): 3:35pm On May 18, 2018 |
highqueen:97% of men probably don't love their wives after a couple of years into marriage, women who don't love their husbands in Nigeria are probably more than 60%, a majority of nigerian women got married to the men who they are not attracted to physically and wait for the love to grow which actually doesn't, they got married to improve their financial status, match up to their mates who are already married or do it because of societal and family pressure, if you ask most women publicly they will say that they love their husbands but we know that most of them are lying, majority of the men on the other hand pick women who they love initially but fall out of love after a while. 10 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by aorseer: 3:37pm On May 18, 2018 |
60% of married women are doing the wrong thing. They are suppose to submit to their husbands. It is the duty of the husband to love their wives. Ephesians 5:22. If we stick to what God says we will not have any issues. God bless you all 2 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by terzurum(m): 3:38pm On May 18, 2018 |
donstan18:Well said. This is the conclusion of the whole matter. no further reading 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Nobody: 3:38pm On May 18, 2018 |
lefulefu: wow thanks for this, now I know once i get married. I will take 3 weeks sick leave. Just to assassinate all my Wife's exes. I think I will just kill them, then make it look like they all committed suicide with a well written note and their hand writing. |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Nobody: 3:42pm On May 18, 2018 |
cruchenutii:hmm Jason bourne of the bourne identity..i must greet u. 7 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by engrelvis(m): 3:43pm On May 18, 2018 |
pocohantas:true talk.alot of our expect too much( emotionally n financially)In marriage .when dat is nt met dey become bitter n unhappy.but if u really look deep dey r d problem.no man can make u happy except yrsef.besides marriage is nt a bed of roses.both partner v make sacrifices for sake of d marriage n nt their own selfish gains. family upbringing n orientation is another big problem.d typical advice a Nigerian mother gives her daughter is when yr husband fucking u up concentrate on yr kids n ignore man. 2 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by engrelvis(m): 3:44pm On May 18, 2018 |
pocohantas:true talk.alot of our women expect too much( emotionally n financially)In marriage .when dat is nt met dey become bitter n unhappy.but if u really look deep dey r d problem.no man can make u happy except yrsef.besides marriage is nt a bed of roses.both partner v make sacrifices for sake of d marriage n nt their own selfish gains. family upbringing n orientation is another big problem.d typical advice a Nigerian mother gives her daughter is when yr husband fucking u up concentrate on yr kids n ignore man. 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by kenechi072: 3:45pm On May 18, 2018 |
Did you noticed it was only men that tried to argue against what she tweeted. Her tweet is very very true. Most women are just in marriage for security and their children. I think there are more married men that do love their wives than vice versa. A survey done in the US found out that most men will marry their present partner in another life, but most women wont. Also, if you observe, once a man gives up on a relationship, it might still go on. But once a woman gives up on the relationship. It's dead 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Nobody: 3:45pm On May 18, 2018 |
highqueen: Looooooooool... |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by jFrankNorfleet: 3:47pm On May 18, 2018 |
donstan18: I hate it when people put down Africa to make a point about something that's the same the world over There's NO such thing as UNCONDITIONAL LOVE anywhere in the world. people can only lie to themselves that they have unconditional love for someone else but some basic conditions have been met by proxy like a mother's love for a child would appear unconditional unconditional but she couldn't have loved the child the same way if the child belonged to another person. even Christians that scream Jesus loves them unconditionally still says you need to draw closer to Jesus to activate that love which is actually a "condition" Unconditional love is simply empty words 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Dotng: 3:52pm On May 18, 2018 |
izzou:you are bad O! |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Angelfrost(m): 3:55pm On May 18, 2018 |
60%??! Fat Lie! People will just be tempering down figures to please the majority involved. In truth, we are talking over 70% in loveless unions. Marriage these days is just to fulfill all righteousness, and belong/acquire a silly status. That's why there is a mind-blowing rise in infidelity among married women. 10 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by GuntersChain(m): 3:55pm On May 18, 2018 |
what do expect when they befriend their husband/wife and finally get married to their boyfriend/girlfriend. 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by talk2percy(m): 3:56pm On May 18, 2018 |
Ironically she didn't exclude herself. Men are in trouble in the hands of these daughters of Eve. That's why 60% of men aren't the biological father of the kids they take care of and know as there children. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Lalas247(f): 3:58pm On May 18, 2018 |
Beosten:Haha .... her loss ... you never know the next guy she gets with might not even treat her right There is always someone out there who will accept you for who you are |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Nobody: 4:01pm On May 18, 2018 |
jFrankNorfleet: There is Bro. And he is right about Africa 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by AreaFada2: 4:01pm On May 18, 2018 |
highqueen: Actually men approach women and do the toasting. Therefore most men likely choose to pursue a girl they love, are fond of, like or at least think they do. Some girls hold out for that tall, dark & handsome guy but that guy may never even know they exist in the office, neighborhood, etc. ONLY very tiny number of women get to choose the man they truly desire or love. In the end a woman can only choose from among the men who approach her. Her ideal one might never be among them. So she chooses one of them anyway. Because biological clock is ticking, family/society expects it or she foresees economic security with one of the guys. I guess probably even 75 to 85% of women do not love their hubby. It does not mean they cannot be caring, dedicated, dutiful wife & mum. They can be. But that is not love. That is role play. It is just that the society is not set up in a way that girls can take control of picking a partner solely on her own terms. Around 50% of guys probably do not love their wives either. They might just love her beauty, shape, etc. When they later discover that the sweet looking lady has nothing else sweet about her, too late. 9 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by madridguy(m): 4:01pm On May 18, 2018 |
This is so painful. I think first, I will blame the man in this regards, how on earth after making money in Germany will you come back home and pick a poor girl? Every Nigeria want to marry an abroad base even if there is no chemistry between them both. Once you arranged their papers and they join you then ready for war. Since the man met her through the Internet, he would have settled the lady here first and maybe after like 3 or 4 kids after marriage then he can relocate her. As for me, if I travel out of Nigeria today, I can only come back home to relocate any woman if we have been dating when am still here otherwise, I will settle with any tribe I meet there because 8 out of 10 people that come home to pick their lady/woman always regret of their action. Back to the main story, had same experience opposite our house. This happened almost a decade ago. There is this gentleman with his wife, the man has managing his life until there's turn around in his life. We just got the news that this man traveled to the US. Within the space of 6 months, he returned with many cars loaded with other goods. This man is very nice to everyone and never look down on anyone. Within a short period, he traveled again, his wife is at home selling what he brought from his first trip. This man land again with another collection of cars and other goods worth good money. A week after his arrival, this man drove himself out and only for police to bring the news of his death to his wife. He died in the traffic resting his head of the steering. The funny thing is that, his wife completely moved out almost 70% of goods away from their compound before alerting their neighbors and moved everything before the arrival of the man's family next day. The man aged parent and brothers came to meet nothing and this woman left area a week after she returned from the burial. The irony of the story is the fact that the said woman did not born for this man. lefulefu: 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 4:03pm On May 18, 2018 |
aorseer:It actually means the same thing in a different principle. Also not everybody is a christian and couples do have what works for them for some it is mutual and egalitarian etc.So terming it wrong is going too far,One rule cannot work for everybody. 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by NIKVES00: 4:05pm On May 18, 2018 |
marriage is not all about love, imagine you saying Man of my dream nah lie there is nothing like that it take commitment which so many ladies does not have the patient. 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by karpentar: 4:07pm On May 18, 2018 |
donstan18: On point. 100% 3 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by tragergeorge(m): 4:07pm On May 18, 2018 |
izzou:it makes it 90% brov |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by cohug: 4:08pm On May 18, 2018 |
The % is too high I think. |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by tunjilana: 4:11pm On May 18, 2018 |
Andrez123:You admitted that the men loved initially at least they married out of love then fell out much later when they discovered the true motives behind why their women married them. 2 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Uchefame(m): 4:12pm On May 18, 2018 |
post=67656102:D-discipline, E-excellence, E-equity, P-principle 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by jFrankNorfleet: 4:17pm On May 18, 2018 |
cruchenutii:Give me a single example of a love that's unconditional 3 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by jFrankNorfleet: 4:17pm On May 18, 2018 |
cruchenutii:Give me a single example of a love that's unconditional 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by dasparrow: 4:19pm On May 18, 2018 |
I guess she didn't get the memo that most Nigerians marry for other reasons and not love. 2 Likes |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Nobody: 4:21pm On May 18, 2018 |
Twoclans: okay my love |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by Diso60090(m): 4:22pm On May 18, 2018 |
Who love don epp abeg Come out here lets see your face 1 Like |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by fluffylarose: 4:23pm On May 18, 2018 |
it is your personal opinion and you shouldn't speak for every other women. MArriage becomes what you make of it. |
Re: 60% Of Married Women Don’t Love Their Husbands- Lady Says, See Response by JandyJ(m): 4:24pm On May 18, 2018 |
pocohantas: You deserve an accolade. Brilliant woman 1 Like |
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