₦airaland Forum

djon78:
You can say that again. That's Gods standard, the maker, owner and possessor of heaven and earth and all in it. You cannot argue with Him, you a mere mortal with just breath in your nostrils.
Only what He declares stands.
I just laugh at human beings.

I just laugh at you

dasparrow:
She is British not Nigerian or African. She does not live in a society that treats unmarried women with scorn. Some women don't even want marriage. In 1st world countries, people don't treat women like they have committed a crime due to their single status.

You may not agree with her opinion but the lady has spoken her mind. You are the one that will end up miserable since you come from a 3rd world country where religious terrorism and fulani herdsmen will soon wipe you people out of existence while this lady will keep chilling in England and living her life as she sees fit.

If you like, don't go and make sure Buhari does not remain your country's president for another 4 years. Keep worrying about what some stranger is saying online.

Savage as they come.... *faints*

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Xisnin:
Humans no longer have to fight predators, so raw strength is mostly irrelevant for leadership these days,
that is why huge built men are saying "yes sir" to Tinubu in Lagos.


These are traditions, they prove nothing.


That is the accidental legacy of the stone age, we are now in the 21st century.


If through unexpected circumstance, your wive became the primary provider for some time,
would you abdicate your leadership position?
Would you switch roles with her and start to do the cooking, chores and all the rest?
If your answer to the two questions above is no, then being a primary provider does not make one gender
superior to the other.


Again, this is the result of the stone age legacy, there is no intrinsic reason why an husband shouldn't
be recognised. I am sure you have heard of Tbillz?
Even the unknown fiancee of Linda Ikeji will eventually become a celebrity courtesy of his wife.


The only constant thing in life is change, anything can be changed to some extent, it just requires strong will and a smart campaign.
All families are not equal, there are very few 100% patriarchal family in reality, even husbands that get bullied at home will also
claim that he is the man of the house in public.

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Uncle all your words can be summarized into "rebellion against nature and reality".

It is okay to rebel, even those that practice and advocates homosexuality and other shii are rebels to natural and social order. It is within your right to protest but unfortunately, it doesn't change a thing.

Meanwhile, being "primary" provider doesn't mean being sole provider. If by some arrangement the man is handicapped in any was and the wife earn, it simply means she is acting her role as "helper/support" to the man however it still doesn't make the man not to have the responsibility of being sole provider. If a family starve nobody will blame the wife even if she is an Alakija, all pointer will be to the man. Yes, the MAN!!!

Meanwhile, I don't discuss personality but in case you don't know, TBills (or whatever) brought Tiwa to limelight as her manager but the weakling abdicated his Husband role of provider to Tiwa (perhaps he's one of your kind) and that contributed to collapse of the home.

Whoever isn't in agreement with the natural and social order can keep protesting but it will NEVER change a thing.

I'm done with you Sir on this subject...

AmazonTopaz:
Are you sure you quoted the right person?
To answer what you posted some women ar already doing that so what is your point?
And do you know if she doesn't do that already?

If she is already doing it ...who cares really...no be by ranting on social media...women don de do Tay...I already acknowledged that on my other post.

My point is...if you want to be the head...have what it takes and assume the damn role.

Or do you want the Bible to be rewritten or constitutions amended to that effect?

Like I said...no argument here...

namedonfinish:
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Instead of attacking his, arguing yours intellectually.

Where did you see attack? Do you know the meaning of "intellectual argument"?

wildimagination:
I try to avoid feminist like you....cos u are not usually objective with ur views....

Just say you couldn't counter it no need bringing objectives here because you yourself was not objective in your post.

wristbangle:
It's her view but that doesn't stop the fact that men are the head of the home.

Her type when it comes to financial aspect would leave the man to do all of it but for domestic aspect would expect the same to wash plate, cook meal and wash her underwears.

I hope this will be a pointer that guys should avoid these categories of frustrated ladies. When she clocks 40yrs of age, Humility will knock at her door when no guy approach her

You have beef with this girl? You know her from somewhere? Is 40 like 100 yrs in your language and culture? Don't tarnish people with the same brush... 40 year old single people in the west are lite! 40 is the new 20 over here

UncleJudax:
If she is already doing it ...who cares really...no be by ranting on social media...women don de do Tay...I already acknowledged that on my other post.

My point is...if you want to be the head...have what it takes and assume the damn role.

Or do you want the Bible to be rewritten or constitutions amended to that effect?

Like I said...no argument here...

What does one have to do be the head
This sounds like something from 'Lord of the rings'

UncleJudax:
If she is already doing it ...who cares really...no be by ranting on social media...women don de do Tay...I already acknowledged that on my other post.

My point is...if you want to be the head...have what it takes and assume the damn role.

Or do you want the Bible to be rewritten or constitutions amended to that effect?

Like I said...no argument here...

Women are already doing it even some men shouting headship cannot say a thing at home especially if their wives are the breadwinners.No need bringing in the bible I do not belong to pre historic times so take your confusion out of my mention.

You couldn't counter xisnin logically so no need for stories the man was so on point.

TonyeBarcanista:
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Uncle all your words can be summarized into "rebellion against nature and reality".

It is okay to rebel, even those that practice and advocates homosexuality and other shii are rebels to natural and social order. It is within your right to protest but unfortunately, it doesn't change a thing.

Meanwhile, being "primary" provider doesn't mean being sole provider. If by some arrangement the man is handicapped in any was and the wife earn, it simply means she is acting her role as "helper/support" to the man however it still doesn't make the man not to have the responsibility of being sole provider. If a family starve nobody will blame the wife even if she is an Alakija, all pointer will be to the man. Yes, the MAN!!!

Meanwhile, I don't discuss personality but in case you don't know, TBills (or whatever) brought Tiwa to limelight as her manager but the weakling abdicated his Husband role of provider to Tiwa (perhaps he's one of your kind) and that contributed to collapse of the home.

Whoever isn't in agreement with the natural and social order can keep protesting but it will NEVER change a thing.

I'm done with you Sir on this subject...

AmazonTopaz:
You couldn't counter xisnin logically so no need for stories the man was so on point.

on point ko, off key ni

Who told you I'm interested in convincing you or massaging your emotions? De there aunty

TonyeBarcanista:
on point ko, off key ni

No need to argue in my opinion your reasons were flawed and baseless also times change and humans evolve take note.
I also don't need your convictions.

AmazonTopaz:
Women are already doing it even some men shouting headship cannot say a thing at home especially if their wives are the breadwinners.No need bringing in the bible I do not belong to pre historic times so take your confusion out of my mention.

Na so Una go de para like say Nigeria wahala de una head. You no read where the "complainant" cited the Bible?

You still de repeat same shii in each quote. I said it is common knowledge that women already do it...and any lady can do it ...all she needs is to have what it takes.

Which is why there is no argument...

Are you sure you can understand a thing...or you just want to be right while others wrong?

Una just de vex anyhow for that country..

Do me a favour and take your balderdash out of my mention.

UncleJudax:
Na so Una go de para like say Nigeria wahala de una head. You no read where the "complainant" cited the Bible?

You still de repeat same shii in each quote. I said it is common knowledge that women already do it...and any lady can do it ...all she needs is to have what it takes.

Which is why there is no argument...

Are you sure you can understand a thing...or you just want to be right while others wrong?

Una just de vex anyhow for that country..

LivingFree:
You have beef with this girl? You know her from somewhere? Is 40 like 100 yrs in your language and culture? Don't tarnish people with the same brush... 40 year old single people in the west are lite! 40 is the new 20 over here

Good for her. Long time dear. U keep changing your handles. Is everything okay?

UncleJudax:
Na so Una go de para like say Nigeria wahala de una head. You no read where the "complainant" cited the Bible?

You still de repeat same shii in each quote. I said it is common knowledge that women already do it...and any lady can do it ...all she needs is to have what it takes.

Which is why there is no argument...

Are you sure you can understand a thing...or you just want to be right while others wrong?

Una just de vex anyhow for that country..

U get time dey argue with her.

AmazonTopaz:
Do me a favour and take your balderdash out of my mention.

Hahaha. Now you mad huh.

Mr post historical!

Make Una no de carry frustration like badge of honour.

Schlaf gut Kumpel

wristbangle:
U get time dey argue with her.

I tire gan. Make i switch lane jare

wristbangle:
U get time dey argue with her.

You and the guy are both confused. Unclejudax whatever.

AmazonTopaz:
You and the guy are both confused.
Unclejudax whatever.

Confusion has a new meaning

all this feminist, man and woman are not the same, if you like accept it or leave, men are superior to women

Potential divorcee if at all she'd ever get married.

Whether you agree o or you no agree, there was Adam before Eve, a.k.a MAN before WOMAN!!! If you don't like it, reverse time.

Good then go ahead and pay the sch fees bills put the food on the table and also impregnate yourself !! Then you are a real man

What are you waiting for? Plan coup and takeover headship na!

AmazonTopaz:
Just say you couldn't counter it no need bringing objectives here because you yourself was not objective in your post.

Counter ?? who..?? The lady or you?? Me I no come fight ooooo... e be like say u be lawyer. It's like u are on leave...u are looking for small talk...no worries..I get small time... ...

That lady up there only dropped an opinion that was open....making it easy for any one to conclude anything about her.......because i couldn't even say she was a feminist, or a biblical antogonist..

for starters Christianity is not the only relegion with views of men being head over the home...clearly she is either deluded, lack of knowledge or both...

I suggested she's damaged psychologically because her point sounded to me like something drawn from the premise of long standing bad luck with men maybe father inclusive, boss at the office and so on and just wanted to hide behind religion

For thousands of years before religion, men have been the boss of homes, relegion ddnt force women under men, alot of women just never tried to become anything other baby making factories in the past, the sit in their fathers homes and wait for a man to come buy them off and they are still being bought of in the east..
And when they started trying to become something ..here we are...

If she wants the tables turned in her own home, fine let her lord over her husband and if it's equality she's advocating for..and if shes against the Bible style that says respect ur husbanda...then she should not...let's see how far her marriage will go.

the concept of head in a marriage is for peace and order not to show which gender is better or which gender can provide...and the roles can easily be switched without anyone making a show of it...

To me, I feel this kinda lady is the type that her husband will loose job and the whole Nigeria will know she's the bread winner feeding the home...

As for u, there's nothing to counter.

AmazonTopaz:
What does headship mean to you?

Answer his question, olodo

dasparrow:
She is British not Nigerian or African. She does not live in a society that treats unmarried women with scorn. Some women don't even want marriage. In 1st world countries, people don't treat women like they have committed a crime due to their single status.

You may not agree with her opinion but the lady has spoken her mind. You are the one that will end up miserable since you come from a 3rd world country where religious terrorism and fulani herdsmen will soon wipe you people out of existence while this lady will keep chilling in England and living her life as she sees fit.

If you like, don't go and make sure Buhari does not remain your country's president for another 4 years. Keep worrying about what some stranger is saying online.

England indeed. England where a woman earning 1.2m naira monthly dares not buy a car. She spends 500k on gas, tax, electricity in a month. She can't buy a car because compulsory car insurance is 200k per month. England has no natural resources but bullies other countries to have her needs met. A curse, not a nation.

Lakeside79:
Okay

Freedom of expression

Please let's not be abusive in our comments let's respect others views she stated her opinion and is free to do so

Agree or disagree respectably

I disgaree men being the head has no correlation with men and women being equal

I believe we are both equals men and women

Your wife is your partner and stands beside you not behind you

But you as the man you lead be the rock and shield for your wife and your children

For example your boss is your head in the office but you are both equals as employees of the company in that you both oay tax, you both has tasks yet he or she is your superior you won't go saying because you are both staff he or she should take on the same responsibility as you (that would be career suicide)

So while you are the head she isn't your surbordinate she is your rib , your best friend your sister your mother
Your world not your slave

Nuff said

Very well said sir. We need mature people like this on nairaland.

I agree with her on the condition that she will marry herself. And any man who marries this lady deserve to be castrated. Nansense and radarada.

If men are not the head of the house they must be tail. Smh

Gullah:
It's a free world but there's no need claiming to be a Christian when you don't want to abide by the tenets of the Christian faith. Saying that a lot of biblical concepts do not reconcile with today's reality and that you have to use interpretations to work out which ones you will deem appropriate is just creating your own fantasy. You don't pick and choose which part of God's word you obey according to your own whims and caprices. No one is forcing you to be a Christian or live by the Bible tenets. But when you chose to be a Christian and abide by the Bible, then you must know that you have to be completely obedient to God's instructions in the Bible. A half obedient Christian is just wasting his or her time. Choose ye this day whom you will serve, you can't serve God and Mammon at the same time!

Why then are you not advocating for slavery? isn't it endorsed in the Bible? every Christian I know picks and chooses then criticise other Christians for picking and choosing differently this is why we have 30,000 (Thirty Thousand) different Christian sects

But this is what I love about Christianity; there are so many Christians out there calling other Christians ignorant and heretical. Christianity right now is a cacophony of conflicting messages all of which claim to be representing the truth of God.