Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How should i politely reject it?

Money that you pocket .... Only to come here to start seeking advice...



She sees you as broke.... Up your game....



You prolly look like you need that 1k that's why the poor lady keeps giving you...


Urgent 2k piller


Tueh god forbid


And this one too go call himself man...


MANure that's what you are

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How shpuld i politely reject it?

For every 1k she gives you, buy her something worth 3k in return... That is the tradition in some places

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How shpuld i politely reject it?

Oga, collect am na! In Tegwolo's voice: Are u rejecting a friendly gift?

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How shpuld i politely reject it?

If you want to stop it, very simple….next time you see her, be the first to give her some money and make it a very good sum of money.

Or better still, take time out to visit her and buy stuff to take with you and some money to thank her for her years of generosity towards you.

If you no want collect money from her, when next when comes give her money tell her to buy something for herself and trust me she'll stop giving you.....ode na pride go kill you, your problem no be say she dey give you money na the amount she dey give you dey worry you....if she increase am to 20k you go dey talk shii.

The Truth be say you are broke and she dey help your life if you get better work dey drive better car dey live for your own apartment dem no born am well give you that money, she dey give you cos she know say you need am.

Your own better
Most of the aunties around think it's time you started giving back to them...even when Dem know aw the country be

Buy her female bag,wristwatch,wrapper and give her money..she will still give u.cos she sees u as her own little boy.

Buy her an expensive gift,by that she will know you are earning now.

Simple... Always give her first. Like "aunty use this one drink mineral" no matter small it is.

She give you, you dey complain, if she no give you anything you go complain

Human being are just full of mystery

Just visit her with a surprise package and some money. I think she would definitely appreciate that and by then, she knows you are already a man that could take care of your own self

Na because she still dey see you as broke guy.....
it simply means that your condition is not positively outstanding.

Pray guy...

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How shpuld i politely reject it?

You don't hate her for her generosity, what you hate is yourself for still living in your parent house and still not financially bouyant.

Just tell her to increase it that the 1k is too small for you..

As she give you 1k, add another 1k to the money & send her a recharge card.
If you visit her at home, if she has children, call the children & dash them money before she even think of giving you money, or better still dash her 1st before she dash you.
Since she's your Aunty, she see you as son to her.
You nor happy say you get generous person like her, it's not really about the little amount she gives you, it's a pure gift from her heart ❤️.

Hustle more,she feel you need money and just want to assist you.who wan give me money when everybody dey call me big man upandan.dem no know say owu still dey touch me sometimes..lol

linearity:


If you want to stop it, very simple….next time you see her, be the first to give her some money and make a good sum of money.

Or better still, take time out to visit her and buy stuff to take with you and money to thank her for her years of generosity towards you.

She is a rich woman, she has everything. If i see her and give her 2k it will look very weird.
I think maybe because i havent married or i dont have car yet

donbachi:
Buy her female bag,wristwatch,wrapper and give her money..she will still give u.cos she sees u as her own little boy.

Very very good point. Thanks i will consider this

stixxy:
Simple... Always give her first. Like "aunty use this one drink mineral" no matter small it is.

Person wey all her children dey Liverpool england dey send her big money. She get money so giving her 2k will look funny

ChizzyBuna:
Im 35 years old and i have one aunty who is a generous lady. Anytime she visits and im around. She is always in the habit of giving us money from 1k to 5k.
Since 2015 she does this
Back then it was cool cuz i was young guy
But now as a man, it makes me feel uncomfortable.

Recently i meet her she gave me 1k as i was about to leave. I thought she wanted me to buy something for her. So i asked her what is the 1k for she said its for me.
I kinda felt sad, like why is this woman always giving me money anytime we meet.
One side of me hates this because as a man i feel weird to collect money from women. I feel i should be the one giving not recieving.

I almost didnt want to take the 1k, i just felt like does this woman think im homeless or a hungry broke guy that everytime we meet she give me like 1k oe 2k. Im confused

How do i react next time i see her and she wants to give me money. How shpuld i politely reject it?

Pride will never allow some people succeed in Life

soundOsonic:


You don't hate her for your generosity, what you hate is yourself for still living in your parent house and still not financially bouyant.

Hmmmm looks like youve been in this kind of situation before.. what do you advice i do?

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Truvelisback:
Oga, collect am na! In Tegwolo's voice: Are u rejecting a friendly gift?

Brooklyn bridge ambassador spotted

Poor people with there myopic mind eerhh



If you help them,,,, problem
If you don't,, wahala

Dash me na

Just collet am

Ok
Aby na destiny collecting things ni

Chinedu, Chinedu, Chinedu. How many times did I call you? Is it a crime that I'm trying to be a good aunt?

InTheCloudySky:
That you ask if this giving woman gives because she thinks you're hungry and broke indicates that 1) you're an ingrate and 2) perhaps you're indirectly insinuating that the money she gives is too small, which again goes back to you being an ingrate. I bet if she's giving you 100k or more you wouldn't ask such.

If you don't want her to be giving you money, just kuku tell her to add yours to your siblings so yours goes to them. Or better yet, before she gives you, you give her and since you're neither hungry nor broke be giving her 20k each time. That way, she will definitely get the hint to stop giving you.

Im not an ingrate, you sef read before opeing your mouth like open gutter.
with 456 million in my account i will give this woman 20 million
I should be the one giving her not the other way round.
Till i get there for now i still gats maintian
It just pains me that i should be the one giving her whether big or small. It really makes me uncomfortable

She's just been nice as an aunt and sees you as the boy you are at least to her.