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Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by alfredfrddy(m): 11:07pm On May 31, 2018
What if one's spouse wants anal sex? is MouthAction not a sin as well?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Toks2008(op): 11:07pm On May 31, 2018
alertness:
oral my foot!
God made my mouth for eating,talking and praising Him and not for licking p*ussy which dick is primarily meant for.
Anu e se mi...ko ma gba iyawo mo e lo wo.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Taoreed2001(m): 11:08pm On May 31, 2018
Hmm it's true about this update from nairaland
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by MrHighSea: 11:11pm On May 31, 2018
kristen12:
Bookmarked for future use
The future is NOW. You fight this 'war' cow-gurlly, doggy, missionary etc.
#capisce
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by learner007(m): 11:13pm On May 31, 2018
kristen12:
Bookmarked for future use
Especially when that 'future' is now... tongue
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by baby124: 11:13pm On May 31, 2018
Don’t tell a woman what will pleasure her. You don’t have a vagina do you?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Toks2008(op): 11:14pm On May 31, 2018
alfredfrddy:
What if one's spouse wants anal sex? is MouthAction not a sin as well?
There is no sin in making love anyway you love within the confines of marriage...

This question is becoming increasingly common as young people are told that “MouthAction is not really sex,” and as MouthAction is promoted as a safer (no risk of pregnancy, less risk of sexually transmitted diseases*)

What does the Bible say?
Ephesians 5:3 declares, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity...because these are improper for God's holy people.”

The biblical definition of “immorality” is “any form of sexual contact outside of marriage” (1 Corinthians 7:2).

According to Hebrews 13:4, only the “marriage bed” is pure and undefiled. According to the Bible, sex is to be reserved for marriage. Period.

So, yes, MouthAction is a sin if done before or outside of marriage but within the confines of marriage you can indulge in any form of sexual intercourse,positions and so on.

YOLO so enjoy your marriage biko.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by kelechi50: 11:14pm On May 31, 2018
5minsmadness:
When u lack sexual satisfaction in matrimony

As a man this can be very frustrating. The woman you knew that was very sexually active premaritally suddenly develops cold feet after marriage. She relaxes and loses her sexiness. She talks of being tired all the time and you as the man is turned into a houseboy doing all you can around the house to please madam and make sure she is well rested so you can get down to business in the bedroom later in the day. Most women still don't find this effort by the man enough and use the opportunity to take advantage of their husbands and use sex in blackmailing them (if u can't do so and so then we can't have sex). This is a man that is used to having sex three times a week and suddenly finds himself settling for it once or twice a month.

Men are sexual beings. Sex is a major part of our repertoire. If it wasn't so you wouldn't see so many cases of infidelity on the part of the man. Sex is important, very important to us. Sex is food. And if the wife denies him this meal he gets angry, irritable, commandeering and cold. A religious man will try and keep himself in check by practicing holiness, but you will always notice the bitter undertones in all the things he does. The grumpiness, the sadness, distancing himself away from the wife and choosing to watch TV instead, etc. A carnal man(for want of a better word) will simply take his business elsewhere. He will find sex either in porn.ogra.phy and mast.urb.ation (and the wife catches him one day and starts wondering where he learnt the bad habit from). Or he learns how to frequent prostitutes. Or he has an affair and if he doesn't get caught he goes on to have many other affairs all in a bid to satiate the sexual hunger within him. Even those that get caught if the situation in the house isn't rectified they harden thier hearts and become more daring in thier escapades.

I know women will come here and start screaming self control and how they know "millions" of men who practice such. Let's be honest, that's a lie, you don't know up to 10 men you can bet your life on that are faithful to thier wives, not even pastors. Sexual hunger is hard for us men. We need all the help we can get in controlling it.


So if you are a married woman reading this, don't starve your husband of sex. Satiating your husband is wonderful when done in love but if you can't do it in love at least see it as a duty. It will keep him sane, less prone to outside temptation fron your female gender whom he meets everyday and who by the way smell of roses, less irritable and more compliant to your wishes.

End of part 1.
what a nice write-up
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Ezeamaemmanuel(m): 11:28pm On May 31, 2018
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WORDWORLD:
Another Nice thread Toks 

SO, IS SEX, INHERENTLY EVIL?

The relevance of this question to Christianity  makes it very clear why sexual perversion and carnal culture and oppression of women reigns supreme in the Western world in particular.

About three centuries after Apostle Paul, came a theologian known as St. Augustine. Like his predecessor, he believed that sex was a threat to spiritual uplifitment even in marriage. He believed that sex is INHERENTLY EVIL and taught so to his followers.

In The City of God, St. Augustine says: "Man's trangression (i.e Adam and Eve's sin) did not annual the blessing of fertility bestowed upon him before he sinned, BUT INFECTED IT WITH THE DISEASE OF LUST"

Such a verse as "Behold, I was brought forth in INIQUITY AND IN SIN my mother conceived me" PSALMS 51:5, is mostly quoted to supportting that SEX even in matrimony is inherently a sin.

"I know nothing which brings the manly mind down from the heights more than a woman's caresses and that joining of bodies without which one cannot have a wife". St. Augustine.

Sexual intercourse was transformed from something innocent to something shameful by the original sin of Adam and Eve, which is taught as a doctrine that has passed from generation to generation. Instead of sex to be understood as NATURE which should be harness RESPONSIBLY THROUGH CULTURE, in the institution called marriage without guilt. Sex is made a SIN altogether even in matrimony according to these doctrines of men of 'God'.  So for generations we have been made to living in GUILT while performing what is as natural as the air that we breath. We have been fighting against ourself and the results has been all kinds of sexual attrocities.

Is it a 'SIN' the nocturnal emmission during sleep known as WET DREAMS at such an early INNOCENT age experienced particularly by boys world wide, Africa, Asia, America, Europe.............? Is this nocturnal emission as a result of lust, fantasy at such an early innocent age or pornography in our today's sorry state or its no more than natures programming called PUBERTY? 

The story of Adam and Eve in the Bible is infact 'A' to EVIL. It has succeeded in programing men's SUBCONSCIOUSNESS right from childhood to degrade women through the indoctrination of the FORBIDDEN FRUIT. This view of degradation of women a root from the Bible is firmly supported by a lot of scholars who have cared to explore our FUNDAMENTAL SOCIETAL THOUGHTS. Such a scholar as Amit Kumar, Author of the book Fundamental of Social Thoughts which in a chapter, THE FEMINIST SOCIAL THOUGHT you read as thus: " Feminist social thought traces at least as far back as the 'women controversy' of the 17th century. Caught up in debates over the first two creation stories presented in the Book of Genesis, certain Christian patriarchal interpretations of human nature understood WOMEN to be IMMORAL and DECEPTIVE.

Women are veiwed as accomplice of EVIL, for having being the 'one' according to the Bible responsible for the fall of man. Eve was said to be the one who seduced her husband Adam to eating the forbidden fruit after she had danced to the seductive whispers of the serpent who adviced her to doing so. Hence, women are regared as EVIL themselves for having befriended the serpent to listen to it. They are percieved as no more than a creature for MAN'S OWN PLEASURE, HIS PROPERTY to be used and abused and thrown away like a banana peel. As if punishing women for being responsible for the down fall of man, Adam who also had a mouth he could have used to say NO to Eve but instead used that very same mouth for devouring the forbidden fruit. It wasn't Eve who brought about his being exited from the garden of Eden but his own FOOLISHNESS.

The story is narrated in Genesis 2:4-3:24. God prohibited both of them, Adam and Eve from eating the fruits of the forbidden tree. The serpent seduced Eve to eat from it and Eve, in turn seduced Adam to eat with her. When God rebuked Adam of what he did, he put all the blame on Eve.

"The woman you put here with me she gave me some fruit from the tree and I ate it".

To Adam, God said: "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree........cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life".

The indoctrination from early childhood in Christianity of the concept of Adam blaming Eve for seducing him to eating the forbbiden fruit which resulted his being cursed and both chased out of felicity as been A MAJOR CONTRIBUTING FACTOR TO UNEQUAL TREATMENT OF WOMEN IN CHRISTIAN LANDS,TO THE POINT OF OPPRESSING WOMEN. The Western world being my emphasis because of Christianity and where the stench homosexualism and the right to same sex marriage is very strong.

And what is the out-come today for men's maltreament of women due to this 'EVIL EVE' mentality over centuries gone by?

The most radical movement in recent times is born, further responsible in part for bringing our whole social structure down and bleeding in particular the HOME. This movement is the FEMINIST MOVEMENT popularly known as a drive for women's liberation.

Without derailing, one of the choices the feminist seek to make socially acceptable is LESBIANISM. "Lesbianism is a road to FREEDOM, FREEDOM from oppression by men and for SEXUAL SATISFACTION" says the radical feminist. The daughter of Bilitis the aim which is to promote LESBIANISM. In TRUTH women are not getting their FULL share when it comes to sexual intercourse with a man. Most are just managing!!! Yet is not a reason to becoming a SICKO, lesbian. NOT AN EXCUSE AT ALL.

The problem is quite deep.
This one long pass JAMB English language comprehension passage undecided
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Nobody: 11:30pm On May 31, 2018
Flexherbal:
The OP is right different things work for different women. Discover the one your woman is comfortable with.
If you are having problem giving you wife an orgasm, try our herbal tea.
How much is it sold and what are the main functions?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by enemyofprogress: 11:47pm On May 31, 2018
Na dis kind thread dey sweet biacan, ajepako and rokia2.

We are nothing but virgins in the eyes of our parents.

Good Night.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by frankIzuchukwu(m): 11:53pm On May 31, 2018
this post try me ooooo,i day praise guy way they give there wife head make my future wife no try am
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Appliedmaths(m): 12:00am On Jun 01, 2018
Why do I have a feeling that 80% of the people giving us conc sexual advice here aren't married.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by santopelele(m): 12:05am On Jun 01, 2018
OP, what is the best natural sexual enhancer that can makes me give it to my girl for like 1hour without yhuu?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by MENTORCH(m): 12:06am On Jun 01, 2018
The problem I have with women is that many of them will see what their future husband has or how he performs in bed, which might not be as good as they want it, they will still go ahead and marry him with the mind that it will get better or there is a solution. It’s not money that can still be made in the future.After a few years in the marriage she will start to consider cheating, why did you marry him in the first place. I have met nothing less than 20 women in this situation.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by BeraBera2(f): 12:08am On Jun 01, 2018
petux:
how has this posts help nigerians?
Like seriously? Bikonu what language is this?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by bongolistik(m): 12:22am On Jun 01, 2018
This thread took 2 years to crawl to FP
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by jimcaddy(m): 12:23am On Jun 01, 2018
OP some girl's porch don turn to gaping hole. So the larger the better... Humans have altered the natural process of love making.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by SirBunky85(m): 12:23am On Jun 01, 2018
plendil:
gini bu "flute"?
flutu bu opi ogologo ana-afu n'onu.ighotago?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by HARDDON: 12:24am On Jun 01, 2018
For once, almost there! However, Not.

Why take the fun out of the mind melting, heart splitting,
nerve rendering adventure when you have all the time in the world to explore but rather ask for short cuts?


Why take away the adrenaline drilling thrills of exploring and discovering by some corner cuts?


Almost there, not however
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Obodo999(m): 12:32am On Jun 01, 2018
IRserveMyComent:
Thats if you wish to, its not mandatory. The 'tone' of your write up made me ask and nothing more.
The 'tone' is the wonder of 'copy and paste' plagiarize.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by MPESA(m): 12:46am On Jun 01, 2018
Una don hear am nau!

From what i could gather, the moral of this story is:
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Play all those boring tiki taka wey ars.enal dey play at your own peril.
Strrrriike!
But wetin i sabi nau?
Abeg bro no try my dear club oooo because monkey no fine but him mama like am oooo.
Up Gunner's shocked
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by obowunmi(m): 12:46am On Jun 01, 2018
You leave.
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Hollavick: 1:05am On Jun 01, 2018
Hmm
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by package7(m): 1:15am On Jun 01, 2018
Okay okay shee mo age wa ni?
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Horpsy17(m): 1:17am On Jun 01, 2018
so tb posts are now making fp now......2016?

the post that hit fp last week was 2012.....
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Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by Bruemath(m): 2:14am On Jun 01, 2018
Hmmm cool
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by computerglobal(m): 2:24am On Jun 01, 2018
frankIzuchukwu:
this post try me ooooo,i day praise guy way they give there wife head
make my future wife no try am
Lol
grin
Re: When you lack sexual satisfaction in your marriage. by computerglobal(m): 2:27am On Jun 01, 2018
santopelele:
OP, what is the best natural sexual enhancer that can makes me give it to my girl for like 1hour without yhuu?
Wait for comments

Where is lala ??

Lala come and answer this question
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