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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 5:30pm On Jun 05, 2018
Lisaflex:


Ermm..Sorry,ascuz(grammarians pardon me abeg) me? I thought the fact that she works means she contributes to the upkeep of the family in one way or the other. If this is true,then she's also providing.

Anyway,I am not going to argue with you, neither am I going to try to get you to change that mentality of yours... If your wife is okay with that, then who am I to complain? I only feel sorry for the lady who who doesn't agree with you on that and still marries you...Ahh!!! Gnashing my teeth and crying in yoruba language on her behalf.
lol. well i thought a womans money is her money and husbands money belong to both of them. that aside, women are just becoming lazy and thier laziness is rewarded with the treat of feminism and thats why you see topics like this because it wont kill you to go to work and at the same time figure out how to put food on the table. remember the food is for you, your husband and you children so you are not doing anybody any favour by handling your responsibilities. if its too much for you, tell me and i will add another wife to ease the burden on you. thier is nothing like division of labour.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jun 05, 2018
akinszz:
haha! that's too much. where did you go learn all these... e b like say you get Msc for abusecology. grin

Hahahaha grin , walahi, assuming i actually decided to insult her, she will just deactivated and start facing mental problems.

But bros, yourself like the insults, grin

Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by GiantParrot(m): 5:35pm On Jun 05, 2018
Elder001:


Gratitude. . men who still have that kind of mindset are not supposed to be in the society they're suppose to be locked up in prisons.

Elder001. You had better been a perfect person. Else, going by your extreme position, you should be locked up in prison for any character weakness you may have.

I'd advise women to not get involved with men who do not care about their wellbeing. It may also be best for traditional minded men to avoid progressive women. There is no need for compulsion on either side.

I'm tempted to believe you could be having delusions of grandeur if you think traditional minded men would watch idly as you attempt by you to lock them in prisons for their personal preferences. If you want to influence social change, to win people over to your side, you stand a far better chance of doing so by offering compelling rational arguments to support your position, rather than making boastful threats that will piss the other side off.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by defolman(m): 5:40pm On Jun 05, 2018
Olalan:
Rants of a lazy girl, no doubt I feel so much for working class women coping with work stress and having to come back home to face the home front but i strongly belief nature has equipped women for such roles. What excuse would she give to women who despite their very busy schedule make it a point of duty to cook their family meals even in the availability of a maid.
Also it's not fair for a husband not to support the wife in domestic chores.
Modified: Don't know if some people don't have the ethics to respect other people's opinion on issues, if as a lady you want to always get home with your husband doing the cooking fine and if also has a man you wouldn't mind getting home to do the cooking for your woman it's equally fine.
If She can wash the car no problem
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by akinszz: 5:46pm On Jun 05, 2018
Maldek666:
There was a time on this planet and many other planets when men were more important in completing task due to masculine body. It was the hunter-gatherer age. But now you do not need muscles to earn a living, you need brain.

So, women and men have brain, and now women can earn as much as men. But our religions, customs, traditions as barbaric as they are, have not outgrown the neanderthal ages and we still keep expecting women to do everything.

I am personally going to learn to make dishes, not because I am helping my wife out, but because a human being must prepare what he/she wants to eat by him/herself and help out.

Women are not slaves, they are not sex machines. We must therefore provide even ground for our women to grow physiologically.

Women have the right to have sex partners if men have that right. Men have right to have group sex if women must have. Women have the right to breast feed babies and be pregnant and men do not and can not handle 9 months of pregnancy, but women do all these things.

Any woman out there that allows men to ride on them, because they can not use their brain to make money and survive without a man is a fool and deserves being trampled on.

Women, learn skills and thrive without men, and men, please learn cooking and strive without women. Stop being foolish.

Times don change, make una grow up. This is not your fore-father's generation. Women, stop begging men for money and spreading your pusssy to collect our money. Work for your own money too.
but who pay the bills
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Maldek666: 5:48pm On Jun 05, 2018
akinszz:
but who pay the bills


Bills must be shared.
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by mu2sa2: 5:50pm On Jun 05, 2018
Elder001:


Bullshít... Your cultures are outdated
cooking is not her duty.
cooking is the responsibility of both husband and wife.

The earlier y'all awaken from your drunken patriarchal privileges the better for y'all.
Must You marry?

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by akinszz: 5:51pm On Jun 05, 2018
Maldek666:

Bills must be shared.
50/50 I guess
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Maldek666: 5:58pm On Jun 05, 2018
akinszz:
50/50 I guess

50/50

60/40

Is fair, if the woman earns more, she pays more. If the husband earns more he pays more. Then they must set up savings account with 50/50 contribution to the Future Trust account and Children Education Fund account.

In my home I pay all the bills and handle all expenses but I must learn to cook. Today I cleaned my bedroom toilet without waiting for a maid. It was cool to do it.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by mu2sa2: 6:01pm On Jun 05, 2018
DJHANDSOME:
what if the husband is not working? You still expect the working class wife to come back to do domestic and bedroom chores no matter how tired?
How is that fair?
So the husband should be cooking and doing all the household chores because oga madam is the boss!
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by tartarus(m): 6:06pm On Jun 05, 2018
Nigerian men are very selfish creatures! I'm a Nigerian man and I'm saying this!. You all want a woman to do all the chores, take care of the kids and also contribute to the finances!! Kuku kill her all in the name of marriage, I really don't see how marriage favors Nigerian women except when there are kids.

What most Nairaland guys bring to the table is d*CK and a meagre salary grin

I always advise my sister's to please marry a foreign man, I'm glad they're not even based in Nigeria. The lady I eventually get married to is going to know my mom raised me right cool

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:24pm On Jun 05, 2018
I can cook quite well but won't do so when my wife is available... cool

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:25pm On Jun 05, 2018
Cuteamigo1:
you got it wrong gal. wont be siting on my hands but mashing a ps4 pad instead while she cooks for me. if it pains her lets switch roles and let her do the marying and providing.

If she's not providing, she won't be working
Do you guys deliberately want to be blind to the truth abi am I missing something here?

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:25pm On Jun 05, 2018
tartarus:
Nigerian men are very selfish creatures! I'm a Nigerian man and I'm saying this!. You all want a woman to do all the chores, take care of the kids and also contribute to the finances!! Kuku kill her all in the name of marriage, I really don't see how marriage favors Nigerian women except when there are kids.

What most Nairaland guys bring to the table is d*CK and a meagre salary grin

I always advise my sister's to please marry a foreign man, I'm glad they're not even based in Nigeria. The lady I eventually get married to is going to know my mom raised me right cool

Woman wrapper.
Remember, women hate 'nice' men.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jun 05, 2018
mu2sa2:
Must You marry?

I'm a married man.
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Viergeachar: 6:27pm On Jun 05, 2018
Elder001:


Bullshít... Your cultures are outdated
cooking is not her duty.
cooking is the responsibility of both husband and wife.

The earlier y'all awaken from your drunken patriarchal privileges the better for y'all.

Another sissy man!

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jun 05, 2018
drewxx88:
My assertion is still valid in case you are confused name one continent where by in the family setting the man cooks ,and yeah iv travelled don't get mixed up in all this feminist and their bruhaha look around its not an African thing for a woman to be a home maker whose duties include cooking the said meal provided by the man and its if he chooses to help out as a result of love and nothing else ...


Young man, you've never left the shores of Africa . don't think me for a small boy.

Travel to Europe and America ,you'll see men cooking, cleaning the home and doing laundry on daily basis even when their wives are doing nothing.
This is a civilized world.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:30pm On Jun 05, 2018
lekonso:
Honestly, house chores no dey easy at all.There is nothing wrong if a man pays his wife a reasonable monthly salary for house chores. Do all those things a woman does in the house then you will know that no be small work woman dey do in the house.

I don't even want to get paid for it. Just collaborate with me.
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Demure1: 6:33pm On Jun 05, 2018
tartarus:
Nigerian men are very selfish creatures! I'm a Nigerian man and I'm saying this!. You all want a woman to do all the chores, take care of the kids and also contribute to the finances!! Kuku kill her all in the name of marriage, I really don't see how marriage favors Nigerian women except when there are kids.

What most Nairaland guys bring to the table is d*CK and a meagre salary grin

I always advise my sister's to please marry a foreign man, I'm glad they're not even based in Nigeria. The lady I eventually get married to is going to know my mom raised me right cool

Thank you oo, I laugh when I hear women age faster than men, please what do most men expect?, she goes to work same as you comes back home while you relax with football, she is in the kitchen cooking till God knows when, you devour the meal by this time you already in bed waiting to pound her life out, then she goes to the kitchen to clean up, wakes up before you to prepare the meal and the children for school and its an ongoing cycle.
To crown it all you still expect her to look like a Barbie doll.

Before you come for me I wash cars, change the bulb, take out the trash and what not.
There's nothing like helping her out since you eat out of the meal so you doing no one a favour.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:35pm On Jun 05, 2018
Harrynight:
cry

Responsible women out there has been balancing their job and their house work for years without complaining...

And this lazy bone who jus got a job already complaining doing house chores after the Day's job.


Abi u wan mek we knw sey u get job




BTW congratulations! U jus got the cheap attention u seeking tongue

Because our mothers never complained doesn't mean they had it easy. It was just unnatural to complain in their time. You know "suffering and smiling". Thank God I have a mum who is open and honest. Hers is a path I don't wish to toll and thank God she doesn't want that for me either. Work, contribute "even more" financially, and still hold the home front solely. All for what? God for bid. It's not grace, it is stupidity and exploitation.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2018
The number of misogynistic men on this forum is alarming.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Nobody: 6:38pm On Jun 05, 2018
Demure1:


Thank you oo, I laugh when I hear women age faster than men, please what do most men expect?, she goes to work same as you comes back home while you relax with football, she is in the kitchen cooking till God knows when, you devour the meal by this time you already in bed waiting to pound her life out, then she goes to the kitchen to clean up, wakes up before you to prepare the meal and the children for school and its an ongoing cycle.
To crown it all you still expect her to look like a Barbie doll.

Before you come for me I wash cars, change the bulb, take out the trash and what not.
There's nothing like helping her out since you eat out of the meal so you doing no one a favour.

That word "help " is really disgusting.
There's nothing like help ..by cooking, he's not doing anybody a favour because he'll also eat from the food.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 6:43pm On Jun 05, 2018
Izen:


If she's not providing, she won't be working
Do you guys deliberately want to be blind to the truth abi am I missing something here?
and automatically it puts her at a disadvantage because she is cooking the food she will eat, her children and husband too. what am i missing here? infact why stop there? why shouldn't you demand i pay for impregnating you or in another twist we hire a surrogate and contribute 50/50 for her to carry our child since it will be unfair for you to carry it alone. lets continue like this and by the time we are done thier will be no reason for anybody to get married because most of what married couples do out of love and sacrifice would of been measured in monetary terms. gender equality is cool but a line must be drawn or it should be explored fully to the last items so that people can make better choices

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 6:51pm On Jun 05, 2018
Cuteamigo1:
and automatically it puts her at a disadvantage because she is cooking the food she will eat, her children and husband too. what am i missing here? infact why stop there? why shouldn't you demand i pay for impregnating you or in another twist we hire a surrogate and contribute 50/50 for her to carry our child since it will be unfair for you to carry it alone. lets continue like this and by the time we are done thier will be no reason for anybody to get married because most of what married couples do out of love and sacrifice would of been measured in monetary terms. gender equality is cool but a line must be drawn or it should be explored fully to the last items so that people can make better choices

Because you have no comeback for my question, you decided to derail. I asked a simple question, your woman is also providing so why is she still expected to be solely responsible for the home front? You think paying her for the chores is more important than actually collaborating with her? Even the big corporations you all work for understand the importance of collaboration and team work, but I guess our men enjoy the bliss of being blind to the truth.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Stevenson1(m): 7:00pm On Jun 05, 2018
I'm not trying to rubbish anybody or clam down anybody's thought but men and women can never be equal in this world. they can make all the noise they want but IT IS IMPOSSIBLE!!! Talk about equality, a lady after gotten an interview date, still got the job just cos she's bleeping someone while a dude without bleep or help struggles his way to up both in the interview and promotions only to be compared by some I wanna be youngies. without men in this world, this world will be empty and full of shits. that's how most if them destroys marriages with their outspoken rubbish as we can see with the likes of Linda Ikeji. my aunty has been to all type of church in Nigeria simply because she listened to the advice of a nitwit she called a friend and a mentor. She's lonely, sad, depressed and suicidal while her useless adviser of a friend is still much intact in her marriage. I mean she would give everything she has now just to get back at her ex hubby. Talk about world Technologies, talk about innovations, talk about ideas even talk about the make-up women use are all from men. This issue of equality started during the wars, as young men and fathers were getting prepared and moved into wars, women on the other hand were recruited and offered the already gone soldiers job. coming to the end of wars, they became fully stablised with the likes of their already occupied job of their dead heroes. Young men here, please respect, adore, cherish, and love women but don't you dare believe that rubbish they are spinning. This is our world and we are the Alphas. Women will spoil this world in no time to come. Believe me... If the olden days war was at about 100%, women caused 30%, religion caused 30%, Ego, Hate, Pride and wickedness shared the remaining 40%.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:07pm On Jun 05, 2018
pedrilo:
bros, i do not have a problem cooking ok, carry ur oversabi comot from my mention.

Dont mind that Cow, he thinks by pandering to all these senseless demands of some women, he is going to win some votes! grin grin

Any woman that can not do her woman-chores without complaining, should either resign her job or get the feck out of the marriage.
It is not by force to be called "Mrs" Xyz.


- Mrs Alakija is a Billionaire and she still cooks her husband's food.
- Late Dora Akinyilu of blessed memory tells us about her she serves her husband's food to him everyday, despite fighting all the Drug fakers in Nigeria.
Many more 'women of substance' know where to draw the line and dont joke with their house duties.

All you see are these under-accomplished mofos on Nairaland whinning about how their peanut-paying job has turned them to the 'husband of the house'. shocked

Metchew

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by drewxx88(m): 7:10pm On Jun 05, 2018
Elder001:



Young man, you've never left the shores of Africa . don't think me for a small boy.

Travel to Europe and America ,you'll see men cooking, cleaning the home and doing laundry on daily basis even when their wives are doing nothing.
This is a civilized world.
I won't trade words over where iv been to for vacations or not ,you sound like a sissy whose only aim is to come here and win likes try that shit you just typed and watch your wife walk all over you PS its a free world to each his own .

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:21pm On Jun 05, 2018
Izen:


Because you have no comeback for my question, you decided to derail. I asked a simple question, your woman is also providing so why is she still expected to be solely responsible for the home front? You think paying her for the chores is more important than actually collaborating with her? Even the big corporations you all work for understand the importance of collaboration and team work, but I guess our men enjoy the bliss of being blind to the truth.

Let us stop this fallacy that women do ALL the "home Chore/work" whether they work or not.

There is division of labour. Cooking the meal is for women. End of story.

If for example (just an example here so dont start farting), the roof starts leaking after a rain or the Generator breaks down in the middle of the night when there is no public power supply, is it the wife or the husband that takes responsibility for such, even if he has just returned from a grueling day's work? Does he start moaning like a cow about how his office work is preventing him from doing the repair?

That is when you hear tales like: 'Is he not a man'? or 'That is why he is a man'.
Fair enough, it is his responsiblity/chore in the home front and he does it without whinning.

Women should do theirs, like cooking, without whinning as well.
Any wife/woman that feels she cant cook the family meal is USELESS to the family and should move out or be kicked out.
End of story.

BTW: I can cook like mad because l am one of those men that believe that no woman should ever blackmail me with good food!.
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 7:31pm On Jun 05, 2018
Daboomb:


Let us stop this fallacy that women do ALL the "home Chore/work" whether they work or not.

There is division of labour. Cooking the meal is for women. End of story.

If for example (just an example here so dont start farting), the roof starts leaking after a rain or the Generator breaks down in the middle of the night when there is no public power supply, is it the wife or the husband that takes responsibility for such, even if he has just returned from a grueling day's work? Does he start moaning like a cow about how his office work is preventing him from doing the repair?


That is when you hear tales like: 'Is he not a man'? or 'That is why he is a man'.
Fair enough, it is his responsiblity/chore in the home front and he does it without whinning.

Women should do theirs, like cooking, without whinning as well.
Any wife/woman that feels she cant cook the family meal is USELESS to the family and should move out or be kicked out.
End of story.

BTW: I can cook like mad because l am one of those men that believe that no woman should ever blackmail me with good food!.

When you people want to argue, you don't even make it believable. One of your colleagues too was saying changing light bulb, taking waste out and washing car up there..... LMAO. Anyone that compares a once in a week chore to a 3 times a day job, or a chore that would take all of 3mins to one that would take nothing less than an hour; such fellow is too dumb to argue with in the first place LMAO.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Daboomb: 7:32pm On Jun 05, 2018
Demure1:


Thank you oo, I laugh when I hear women age faster than men, please what do most men expect?, she goes to work same as you comes back home while you relax with football, she is in the kitchen cooking till God knows when, you devour the meal by this time you already in bed waiting to pound her life out, then she goes to the kitchen to clean up, wakes up before you to prepare the meal and the children for school and its an ongoing cycle.
To crown it all you still expect her to look like a Barbie doll.

Before you come for me I wash cars, change the bulb, take out the trash and what not.
There's nothing like helping her out since you eat out of the meal so you doing no one a favour.


I hope you also laugh when you hear that "men die younger than women" or that 'women live longer than men'?

I dont even want to go into details of how men work themselves to death, over their family and then die when its time to start enjoying it, only for the woman to enjoy the sweat of the man and probably doing so with a new husband/lover.

As men, we dont whine. We do our bit and get on with it

All the things you listed up there, from the food to the 'pounding' to the children, are all SHARED BENEFITS BETWEEN BOTH OF THEM.
No one is doing the other a favor.

Like in any organisation, their are ROLES each person plays, for the success of the organisation.
You play yours, l play mine and things work.
No one should start whinning about how their role is giving them headache, except they are just plain lazy.

Same in the family/home.
The husband has his role and the wife has her role (which includes cooking for the family).

If you dont like the heat, get the feck out of the kitchen.
Marriage is not by force.

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Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Izen: 7:33pm On Jun 05, 2018
drewxx88:
I won't trade words over where iv been to for vacations or not ,you sound like a sissy whose only aim is to come here and win likes try that shit you just typed and watch your wife walk all over you PS its a free world to each his own .

....why you lying, stop f.u.c.king lying, hmm o my g...
Re: Lady Who Just Got A Job Reveals What Happens To Her Each Time She Gets Home by Cuteamigo1(m): 7:35pm On Jun 05, 2018
Izen:


Because you have no comeback for my question, you decided to derail. I asked a simple question, your woman is also providing so why is she still expected to be solely responsible for the home front? You think paying her for the chores is more important than actually collaborating with her? Even the big corporations you all work for understand the importance of collaboration and team work, but I guess our men enjoy the bliss of being blind to the truth.
because thats what women do. the are better at taking care of the home while the men support them. its the same case when it comes to the providing. men are better at it and the women support in anyway they can. agree to it or not, with this mentality of yours marriage will become utterly useless because couples would be sizing each on the basis of who is cheating who and it isnt supposed to be so. my previous post explains it better although you choose to be blind on the effect such mentality has on marriage. cheers. with the way you are putting it, is it not unfair for her to carry you child for 9 month since it will affect her career? explore the 50 50 thing to the last or let us be abeg.

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