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Every man hopes that when the right time comes he will get the best wife that will take care of him, his children and the family at large.

Most men prefer getting married to shy ladies since they believe such ladies make the best wives.

Below are reasons why shy ladies makes best wives:

1. They are respectful

Shy ladies in most cases do not engage in any kind of arguments with their men.

In an African society, a woman should not argue with her husband before their kids.

Every man wants a woman who respects him.

2. They seem motherly

A shy lady has the best motherly traits, this is one of the things men want from a woman.

Every man wants a woman who would be able to take care of the kids in the best manner.

3. They are loving and caring

A man needs a lady who would have a long-term love for him and who is ready to take care of him and the entire family.

Shy ladies are known for their unending love and care for the family.

4. They are smart

Shy ladies are known for their smartness in most fields.

They are all round from academics to practical work.

Every man wants a smart woman in his house, a woman who is able to help him make critical decisions.

https://www.nigerialog.com/family/4-reasons-why-shy-ladies-make-best-wives/msg45785/#msg45785

Shyness is one of the desired qualities of a wife material in Islam.

You ppl are just looking for the ones you can control...




But be warned, the quiet ones are the most dangerous.

theunnamed:
You ppl are just looking for the ones you can control...




But be warned, the quiet ones are the most dangerous.

I know one around my house, very quiet, extremely shy and respectful outside, but only her husband can tell you the fire that she is.

The woman be like Lion for her husband. Dude can't try nonsense with her.

Yes, they are Muslims.

Op you go dey very easy to deceive for women o. So shyness, respectful and all those stuffs na him u dey look

You never know women true colour. Those gentle and shy ones sometimes are stone-minded, don't open up and have feminine cunning deception. They're d Delilah kind of women.

Make woman dey open, e pay me like dat. My present gf can talk for Africa, na just one shout I go give am, she go shut up dey shake. Lol na so I like am

The writeup is true in a way if the woman is gentle, God fearing and well brought up.
It is however not true for all shy women.

ladies who are shy are the greatest hypocrite on earth they tend to hide their true self until you bring them to your abode that is when they will show you the difference between Aba and Ibadan

Shy for my husband ke. Yeye dey smell.

Op you're not talking about shyness, you're talking about subservience.all those are the characteristics of subservience and it's not difficult to see women with exactly all these characteristics,the problem is when you wife them, you begin to take them for granted because they're your wives. Disrespect them, ignore their feelings and show lack of consideration

Most women are like plants , the better you treat them, the more useful they become to you

Your statement is flawed. I use to think that way but since I came close to a girl I thought would be very difficult to handle, she happens to be the best girl I have ever seen. What matters is being loved by the girl in question.

kennygee:
I know one around my house, very quiet, extremely shy and respectful outside, but only her husband can tell you the fire that she is.

The woman be like Lion for her husband. Dude can't try nonsense with her.

Yes, they are Muslims.

I know....

Anytime one poor soul is crying about what one gentle girl did to him I'm always laughing at them...they never learn

@OP

It's obvious that you don't know what shyness is - shyness isn't the same thing as reservedness. There's nothing good about it, because it's a product of timidity. Show me a shy person and I'll point to you a local champion - oppressor personified, dove-like outside but lion-like at home. Shy people tends to be hypocritically disingenuous, don't mistake their open servile attitudes for goodness, because they're full of vices.

The traits you highlighted are hallmarks of reserved women. Reserved women (people) and goodness are inseparable. . . but take their goodness for granted at your own peril.

Being shy doesn't mean you will be good . The deadliest people are those that hardly talk or argue. If they start dealing with people, they are worse than the loud ones. I know of one.
Just look for their trouble

Lies

Hmmmmmmm.

Uranus1:
Every man hopes that when the right time comes he will get the best wife that will take care of him, his children and the family at large.

Most men prefer getting married to shy ladies since they believe such ladies make the best wives.

Below are reasons why shy ladies makes best wives:

1. They are respectful

Shy ladies in most cases do not engage in any kind of arguments with their men.

In an African society, a woman should not argue with her husband before their kids.

Every man wants a woman who respects him.

2. They seem motherly

A shy lady has the best motherly traits, this is one of the things men want from a woman.

Every man wants a woman who would be able to take care of the kids in the best manner.

3. They are loving and caring

A man needs a lady who would have a long-term love for him and who is ready to take care of him and the entire family.

Shy ladies are known for their unending love and care for the family.

4. They are smart

Shy ladies are known for their smartness in most fields.

They are all round from academics to practical work.

Every man wants a smart woman in his house, a woman who is able to help him make critical decisions.

https://www.nigerialog.com/family/4-reasons-why-shy-ladies-make-best-wives/msg45785/#msg45785

shyness has nothing to do with being a good wife not to talk of being d best wife.

Character is the key.

ODeva:
Being shy doesn't mean you will be good . The deadliest people are those that hardly talk or argue. If they start dealing with people, they are worse than the loud ones. I know of one.
Just look for their trouble

Yikes

theunnamed:
I know....

Anytime one poor soul is crying about what one gentle girl did to him I'm always laughing at them...they never learn

Maybe that's because you think because a girl is 'gentle' she will give it up easily. And when you get surprised because she doesn't....

you feel like she's commited some kind of treachery.

As a 'gentle' girl you aren't like the louder girls who kind of ward guys off with their strong personalities.

Because of this you get guys approaching you who would never try what they say or do with the louder girls. And they just expect you to take it