How do I convince my mom that my wife is not a slut?
Okay wifey just put to bed and lucky enough paternal grandma is on leave so she had to come help out..!
Normally I don't like the fattening process nursing mothers are subjected to' this is practise mainly in Akwa-Cross'
My mom convinced my wife to succumb to the fattening process...
Now my wife has some tattoos down below, I like it that way, I paid for it,.. My mom saw it and JUMPED into CONCLUSION that I married Ashawo!
How do I erase this negative view of my Darling wife?
Help

Report your mummy to the police or soldier

You'll need to convince your mom beyond any doubts that she isn t a wayward lady especially with the odd location of the tattoo.
BTW how were you feeling seeing or knowing another man was drawing on your woman down below? Very few guys can allow it

Olalan:
You'll need to convince your mom beyond any doubts that she isn t a wayward lady especially with the odd location of the tattoo.
BTW how were you feeling seeing or knowing another man was drawing on your woman down below? Very few guys can allow it

There are women who draws tattoos too.

Uncle i don't know your mother so i can't tell you how to convince her. this cross is what you must carry alone as there is always repercussion ( Good or Bad ) in every decision we implement.

Fahrenhite:


There are women who draws tattoos too.

ok

Olalan:
You'll need to convince your mom beyond any doubts that she isn t a wayward lady especially with the odd location of the tattoo.
BTW how were you feeling seeing or knowing another man was drawing on your woman down below? Very few guys can allow it

OP has answered you, lemme retract my own

Did you tell her you paid for the tattoo

Op, there is nothing you will say that will change her mind o.

Like someone up there asked, I think your mum is not just bothered about the tattoo, but its location and how it was drawn by a man
Just allow her be. She should never have gotten close to that place.

Your mom's mindset is true

Have you told your mum you paid for them?

Olalan:
You'll need to convince your mom beyond any doubts that she isn t a wayward lady especially with the odd location of the tattoo.
BTW how were you feeling seeing or knowing another man was drawing on your woman down below? Very few guys can allow it

Its a lady artiste that inked her

One thing I always hear people say is "my father said this about my wife, my mother said this about my husband.". The parents always forget their job is to watch the marriage, give advice from a distance and allow their child take care of his/her family.
I know of a few marriages where the in-laws scattered the natural order of things then died off, leaving the participants with deep rooted issues hard to take care of. They have lived their marriage, let them leave the offspring to handle theirs.

OP just nod and say "eh, eh" anytime your mother complains about the issue. Until your wife proves otherwise assume your mother is wrong in her accusation.

OneCorner:
Report your mummy to the police or soldier

With African Mom?
She'll cry and might probably remember you sucked her breast I no wan see scene

sinaj:
Did you tell her you paid for the tattoo

She'll thing I'm wayward, though when I got my own tattoos she developed HBP I'm her only son

meobizy:
One thing I always hear people say is "my father said this about my wife, my mother said this about my husband.". The parents always forget their job is to watch the marriage, give advice from a distance and allow their child take care of his/her family.
I know of a few marriages where the in-laws scattered the natural order of things then died off, leaving the participants with deep rooted issue hard to take care of. They have lived their marriage, let them leave the offspring to handle theirs.

OP just nod and say "eh, eh" anytime your mother complains about the issue. Until your wife proves otherwise assume your mother is wrong in her accusation.

She's just making mW feel bad, last time I visited home the reception I got convinced me that she has exposed my secrets

DankemzI:


She's just making mW feel bad, last time I visited home the reception I got convinced me that she has exposed my secrets

You shouldn't. It's your marriage not hers. My mother told me a lot of times my father chased away his mother whenever she made serious trouble in his home. I hope it doesn't get to that point for you but you'll know what to do when the time comes.

Just tell her you paid for it... that's all, you should be able to take responsibility for your actions. Tell her it's your decision

DankemzI:

She'll thing I'm wayward, though when I got my own tattoos she developed HBP I'm her only son

So you will rather your wife take the blame. What a coward! Which unfortunate girl married you? That your mum can even call your wife Ashewo just like that even speaks volumes. You better stand up like a man and tell your mum to focus on what she came to do. If she can’t, let her go to her house because you encouraged your wife to get that tattoo and you paid for it. I am sure you made her get the tattoo Seeing that you have had tattoos probably before you married the unfortunate girl.

DankemzI:


Its a lady artiste that inked her

Then tell your mum you paid for it and stop being a pussy. Why are you allowing your innocent wife take the blame? You encouraged her and probably even made her get it, and now your mum thinks your wife is a harlot but you are too cowardly to own up to your own part.

You pussy!!

After all, your mum my be rite. Only a wide a wide cat bite.

You tell her there and then that you asked your wife to get it! You paid for it! Why wait for the thought to grow in her head? Hian! Anyways, go and tell her.

I like you and your madam though...a tattoo down there . Una jazz no be small

baby124:

So you will rather your wife take the blame. What a coward! Which unfortunate girl married you? That your mum can even call your wife Ashewo just like that even speaks volumes. You better stand up like a man and tell your mum to focus on what she came to do. If she can’t, let her go to her house because you encouraged your wife to get that tattoo and you paid for it. I am sure you made her get the tattoo Seeing that you have had tattoos probably before you married the unfortunate girl.

You Sound so arrogant and manerless

baby124:

So you will rather your wife take the blame. What a coward! Which unfortunate girl married you? That your mum can even call your wife Ashewo just like that even speaks volumes. You better stand up like a man and tell your mum to focus on what she came to do. If she can’t, let her go to her house because you encouraged your wife to get that tattoo and you paid for it. I am sure you made her get the tattoo Seeing that you have had tattoos probably before you married the unfortunate girl.

Abi o! Husband that still fears his mummy enough to hide behind a tree May God help the madam

Mtchew

Help me my mom thinks I married a prostitute . Wa wa

Yet the solution is right in front of you. Tell me exactly what you want from the posters.

The part where you paid for the tattoos makes it extra kinky .. me likey! Anyway tell mama you own your wife, you own her tattoo, make she mind her business!

Na una family problem. My hand no dey.

DankemzI:

She'll thing I'm wayward, though when I got my own tattoos she developed HBP I'm her only son

lol

baby124:

So you will rather your wife take the blame. What a coward! Which unfortunate girl married you? That your mum can even call your wife Ashewo just like that even speaks volumes. You better stand up like a man and tell your mum to focus on what she came to do. If she can’t, let her go to her house because you encouraged your wife to get that tattoo and you paid for it. I am sure you made her get the tattoo Seeing that you have had tattoos probably before you married the unfortunate girl.

Bro e get some family Wey practice Christianity pass Jesus o!

Ishilove:

Then tell your mum you paid for it and stop being a pussy. Why are you allowing your innocent wife take the blame? You encouraged her and probably even made her get it, and now your mum thinks your wife is a harlot but you are too cowardly to own up to your own part.

You pussy!!

My mom is a typical African Mom, if you can imagine....
Its not that easy

sisisioge:
You tell her there and then that you asked your wife to get it! You paid for it! Why wait for the thought to grow in her head? Hian! Anyways, go and tell her.

I like you and your madam though...a tattoo down there . Una jazz no be small

Oga we be 21st century couple o!
No time mbok

DankemzI:
How do I convince my mom that my wife is not a slut?
Okay wifey just put to bed and lucky enough paternal grandma is on leave so she had to come help out..!
Normally I don't like the fattening process nursing mothers are subjected to' this is practise mainly in Akwa-Cross'
My mom convinced my wife to succumb to the fattening process...
Now my wife has some tattoos down below, I like it that way, I paid for it,.. My mom saw it and JUMPED into CONCLUSION that I married Ashawo!
How do I erase this negative view of my Darling wife?
Help

Help me understand.:

Your wife has tattoos you paid for yet you cannot tell your own mother that you paid for them?

Oya send me your mother's number and wife's name with details if the tattoo so I call her.

Na wa!

If you cannot stand up for your wife on something you 'authorised' and paid for? I wonder what will happen when your mother raises a point on something you are not in agreement with.

And it is NOT your mother's place to label your wife. If you were fine with the 'prostitute', married her and had babies with her, your mom is a little too late labeling her.

Again, you don't like fattening process yet you let your mother persuade your wife to do so?

Tomorrow you will tell us 'you don't like polygamy, your mother just brought a second wife to your bed'!

It seems you haven't weaned yourself from your mother.