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Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by bukatyne(f): 12:35pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Ishilove: Please another brain resetting slap on me. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by milemimi93(m): 2:42pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Olalan:we have female tattoo artists |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Shugarlord213: 5:54pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
DankemzI: Even if your m.m.u mama na virgin mary You are a Poosie niggha 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by cococandy(f): 5:58pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
Exactly bukatyne: |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 8:42pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
cococandy:Don't take it that way! View it from my perspective..... We agreed as a family for her not to fatten up! I no wan cheat on her, I no like fat! Only for my mom to show up, she dumped our initial agreement not to fatten up.... Now I have a reputation to protect |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by cococandy(f): 8:53pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
DankemzI:so it’s her fault? What if she agreed because she didn’t want to disagree your mom? I’m almost sure that’s the reason. Otherwise she would have told your mama that you are the one who paid for the tattoos. I sense a typical african girl who wants to get along with the mama in law but you’re not standing up for her. 4 Likes |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by els0nm0rali(m): 8:57pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
DankemzI: Best for her think that you're the wayward one than your wife. She'll forgive you easily, but not your wife. That's how you protect your wifey. 7 Likes |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by baby124: 8:57pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
DankemzI:Your mother practice Christianity yet believes in traditional fattening of women even against their will. Your mother practices Christianity, yet she judges your wife so harshly. Your mother practices Christianity yet she calls your wife Ashewo, when you are guilty of the same thing your wife is guilty of. You both have tattoos. If someone branded you a criminal or armed robber, will she be pleased? You better step out of your parents shadow and be the man that you are supposed to be. Stop letting your mum come to your house and take over. It’s not her husband’s house, I doubt she will take that from anyone in her own husband’s house considering she has a domineering attitude towards her own family. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by bukatyne(f): 10:22pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
cococandy: As in Infact, he must be trolling. His wife agreed to fattening house against their joint decision? So when his mother said 'Oya let's pump you', wifey would say, no o, my husband and I have agreed not to fatten me up. When said husband is there saying nothing. 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by cococandy(f): 10:29pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
If the wife decides to stand up to the mom and say no, I doubt this dude will admit to his mom that they agreed not to do it together He will let her take the fall. bukatyne: 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
What is fattening??.. Why is it done to new mums? Can someone please explain? |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by baby124: 11:20pm On Jul 07, 2018 |
yettymuse:I personally thought fattening is done to women who are about to marry. Not new mother’s. It’s a common practice of Akwa Ibom and Cross River people. They fatten up the bride, so that she is fleshy for her husband before marriage. And I think they teach the woman how to please the husband and maintain the home. 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by stepo707: 6:57am On Jul 08, 2018 |
Some ladies here are funny ooo.like y'all don't know how powerful Nigeria mothers are on the life of their sons |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 7:58am On Jul 08, 2018 |
stepo707: My brother e weak me o! She's over intruding, since wedding na her first time of visiting.... See what she's done |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Nobody: 11:46am On Jul 08, 2018 |
baby124:Thank you for the clarification. |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by TiffanyJ(f): 12:25pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
DankemzI:Oga, to be candid, you're being selfish. So you've got your reputation to protect? What about your wife? Doesn't she also have a reputation to protect? 3 Likes |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 7:56pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
TiffanyJ: I'm not selfish, that's why I'm here. Looking for suggestions to correct the false perception |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by TiffanyJ(f): 8:41pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
DankemzI:If that is the case, man up sir and do the right thing. You have been advised by both males and females to tell your mother the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Rosebloom: 11:24pm On Jul 08, 2018 |
When everything have been said, no point repeating them. @Op huncle e joor grow some balls 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by armyofone(m): 8:27pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
You are one kin guy your wifey should man up. DankemzI: |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Prognose: 9:22pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
It's stupid and irresponsible getting a tatoo.at least that's what I was taught when I was little. I wish I had a tattoo of a bleeding cross on my back. Fear no go let me do am |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 11:19pm On Jul 09, 2018 |
armyofone: How wifey go take man up when I'm still the head of my family |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by LewsTherin: 6:55am On Jul 10, 2018 |
DankemzI: Dude, from your comments, your mother is the head of your family. Yes, mothers have a great amount of influence and power on their sons. Especially only sons. But only weak men allow other people run their lives and families. I have one of the strongest mothers you can think of. She began running her family from her teenage years even before she married my dad. She had a lot of power in her marriage. But my dad never ever let her take the wheel. She has a lot of power and influence over her kids. Heck I used to work for her. But I asserted myself and got her retired from the business. I take care of her well but she cannot walk in my house and run my family for me. She tried once and I put her gently and calmly in her place. She's my mother. Not my ruler. Grow a pair and defend your wife. Else you would loose both wife and mother. Your wife will resent you and you will resent your mother. If you think letting your mother's interfere in your home is the way to keep your reputation and be on good terms with your mother, you will realise and realise very late that when someone has influence over another where they shouldn't, they ALWAYS abuse it to the total deteiment of the relationship between both of them. In time it becomes a slave-master relationship that both eventually hate, poisoning their relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 8:21am On Jul 10, 2018 |
LewsTherin: Thanks for the input..... This weekend Grandma is going back to her husband's, According to what people have suggested here |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Nobody: 9:38am On Jul 10, 2018 |
Rosebloom: So you mean He should grow Extra more balls when he already has Two swinging under him? Habba |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Rosebloom: 9:42am On Jul 10, 2018 |
cruchenutii: Lol... he should grow functioning ones 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by enabledgoddess(f): 12:45pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
DankemzI: Educate me, please what's is fattening? I understand is means capable to make one fat. But is seem it means something else from your write up |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by armyofone(m): 3:58pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
Apart from cooking and help caring for the baby, mama has to "press" her body with hot water and some herbs kinda. Maybe in the process of "pressing and remode" the body, mama saw the tattoo. Maybe I'm wrong though. enabledgoddess: @LewTherin, thumb up! 1 Like |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 4:57pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
enabledgoddess: Umugwo... I don't know if the spelling is ok |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by DankemzI(m): 4:59pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
armyofone: You have said it all |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by GoodFaith: 5:21pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
DankemzI:Dude, why did u marry Ashawo!? Having tattoo make her Ashawo!? Go explain it to ur mom Good luck |
Re: Tattoos; "Help" My Mom Thinks I Married A Prostitute by Nobody: 10:22pm On Jul 10, 2018 |
DankemzI: Smh you'd rather throw your wide under the bus |
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