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"We don't have children outside of marriage in our village" is a rubbish reason to get married

It's emotional blackmail and manipulation.
If you know your family or village people don't 'use to born outside', then use a contraceptive or stop having unprotected sex!
Because you're pregnant is not enough reason for anyone to marry you. Especially if the fellow doesn't want to.

Get a job, pull yourself together, raise your child or work out an arrangement for shared custody to co-parent and stop manipulating these men into marriages they are not ready for, with pregnancy.


So many people out there have been forced into an unfufil life wrecking marriage because of this norm mainly from our parents because of pregnancy.



Lalasticlala take note

Why are you angry?

Did someone use that line on you?







Just kidding.

But seriously, was it used on you?

LewsTherin:
Did someone use that line on you?







Just kidding.

But seriously, was it used on you?

@topic - you don't want the pregnancy to lead to marriage then avoid the sex that will lead to pregnancy so that no one will say that to you. Life is very simple.

Why not use a condom OP? Or did your boyfriend leave you for a woman he impregnated with that excuse? He simply did not want to marry you. Please move on with your life or marry the woman you impregnated. You sound so bitter and angry.

Lilisticlili:
"We don't have children outside of marriage in our village" is a rubbish reason to get married

It's emotional blackmail and manipulation.
If you know your family or village people don't 'use to born outside', then use a contraceptive or stop having unprotected sex!
Because you're pregnant is not enough reason for anyone to marry you. Especially if the fellow doesn't want to.

Get a job, pull yourself together, raise your child or work out an arrangement for shared custody to co-parent and stop manipulating these men into marriages they are not ready for, with pregnancy.


So many people out there have been forced into an unfufil life wrecking marriage because of this norm mainly from our parents because of pregnancy.



Lalasticlala take note

Mogbe! Why are you saying that Lalasticlala should take note? Did he impregnate someone ni? Or you want him to ban you recklessly. Be kiaful o.

I don't even understand what you wrote up there.

You have a responsibility to the child dammit.

If you give a girl belle, take care of d belle pikin wey comot. It's your duty. It's what makes u a man!


But who cares anyway.