Are we to love the sinner but hate the sin?

Many Christians use the cliché “Love the sinner; hate the sin.” This saying is not found in the Bible in so many words; however, Jude 1:22–23 contains a similar idea: “Be merciful to those who doubt; save others by snatching them from the fire; to others show mercy, mixed with fear—hating even the clothing stained by corrupted flesh.” According to this, our evangelism should be characterized by mercy for the sinner and a healthy hatred of sin and its effects.

We are to have compassion on sinners for whom Christ died, and we are also to keep ourselves “from being polluted by the world”—part of what constitutes “pure and faultless” religion (James 1:27). But we also realize that we are imperfect human beings and that the difference between us and God in regard to loving and hating is vast. Even as Christians, we cannot love perfectly, nor can we hate perfectly (i.e., without malice). But God can do both of these perfectly, because He is God. God can hate without any sinful intent. Therefore, He can hate the sin and the sinner in a perfectly holy way and still lovingly forgive the sinner at the moment of repentance and faith (Malachi 1:3; Revelation 2:6; 2 Peter 3:9).

The Bible clearly teaches that God is love. First John 4:8–9 says, “Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.” Mysterious but true is the fact that God can perfectly love and hate a person at the same time. This means He can love him as someone He created and can redeem, as well as hate him for his unbelief and sinful lifestyle. We, as imperfect human beings, cannot do this; thus, we must remind ourselves to “love the sinner; hate the sin.”

How exactly does that work? We hate sin by recognizing it for what it is, refusing to take part in it, and condemning it as contrary to God’s nature. Sin is to be hated, not excused or taken lightly. We love sinners by showing them respect (1 Peter 2:17), praying for them (1 Timothy 2:1), and witnessing to them of Christ. It is a true act of love to treat someone with respect and kindness even though you do not approve of his or her lifestyle or sinful choices.

It is not loving to allow a person to remain stuck in sin. It is not hateful to tell a person he or she is in sin. In fact, the exact opposites are true. Sin leads to death (James 1:15), and we love the sinner by speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). We hate the sin by refusing to condone, ignore, or excuse it.

REFUSING TO CONDONE OR EXCUSE SIN IS NOT ALSO A WAY OF HELPING.

SIN IS A NATURE AND IN MANY CHRISTIANS HAS BECOME AN HABIT..... If you do not have the higher power to deliver or break the cycle of sin from a person then you have no right to Judge the person.

PEOPLE who are in Christ and still fall into sin actually KNOW THAT THEY ARE DOING WRONG but have no POWER TO STOP. If you truly LOVE THEM, then the POWER OF GOD TO SAVE will flow through you to deliver them from the sin that easily besets them rather than condemning them.

TELLING PEOPLE THAT SOMETHING IS BAD is not of any HELP..... but empowering them to overcome it is actually what Jesus expects of us.
LOVE THE SINNER ENOUGH TO SAVE THEM because JOHN 3:16 shows us that this is exactly what God did by sending Jesus.

when Jesus told the WOMAN CAUGHT RED-HANDED IN ADULTERY TO GO AND SIN NO MORE.... It was not an advice BUT a release of power to empower her not to sin again.... POWER DOES NOT ADVICE it EMPOWERS.

JUDAS was stealing yet Jesus never confronted him..... we should learn to provide solutions and help people through their problems than pointing fingers at their sins like sin-inspectors when we ourselves are not perfect.

REFUSING TO CONDONE OR EXCUSE SIN IS NOT ALSO A WAY OF HELPING.

SIN IS A NATURE AND IN MANY CHRISTIANS HAS BECOME AN HABIT..... If you do not have the higher power to deliver or break the cycle of sin from a person then you have no right to Judge the person.
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PEOPLE who are in Christ and still fall into sin actually KNOW THAT THEY ARE DOING WRONG but have no POWER TO STOP. If you truly LOVE THEM, then the POWER OF GOD TO SAVE will flow through you to deliver them from the sin that easily besets them rather than condemning them.

TELLING PEOPLE THAT SOMETHING IS BAD is not of any HELP..... but empowering them to overcome it is actually what Jesus expects of us.
LOVE THE SINNER ENOUGH TO SAVE THEM because JOHN 3:16 shows us that this is exactly what God did by sending Jesus.

when Jesus told the WOMAN CAUGHT RED-HANDED IN ADULTERY TO GO AND SIN NO MORE.... It was not an advice BUT a release of power to empower her not to sin again.... POWER DOES NOT ADVICE it EMPOWERS.

JUDAS was stealing yet Jesus never confronted him..... we should learn to provide solutions and help people through their problems than pointing fingers at their sins like sin-inspectors when we ourselves are not perfect.

greatnaija01:
REFUSING TO CONDONE OR EXCUSE SIN IS NOT ALSO A WAY OF HELPING.

SIN IS A NATURE AND IN MANY CHRISTIANS HAS BECOME AN HABIT..... If you do not have the higher power to deliver or break the cycle of sin from a person then you have no right to Judge the person.

PEOPLE who are in Christ and still fall into sin actually KNOW THAT THEY ARE DOING WRONG but have no POWER TO STOP. If you truly LOVE THEM, then the POWER OF GOD TO SAVE will flow through you to deliver them from the sin that easily besets them rather than condemning them.

TELLING PEOPLE THAT SOMETHING IS BAD is not of any HELP..... but empowering them to overcome it is actually what Jesus expects of us.
LOVE THE SINNER ENOUGH TO SAVE THEM because JOHN 3:16 shows us that this is exactly what God did by sending Jesus.

when Jesus told the WOMAN CAUGHT RED-HANDED IN ADULTERY TO GO AND SIN NO MORE.... It was not an advice BUT a release of power to empower her not to sin again.... POWER DOES NOT ADVICE it EMPOWERS.

JUDAS was stealing yet Jesus never confronted him..... we should learn to provide solutions and help people through their problems than pointing fingers at their sins like sin-inspectors when we ourselves are not perfect.

Brother,
You wrote some interesting and truthful stuff here.
I like your ultimate message which is that pointing out people's sins is not helpful unless there is a sincere and loving desire to empower them to break free of the sin that so easily besets them.
I love and agree with that.

But "sin" has to rightly be identified as "sin" first..by the sinner don't you think?
Sometimes, people are in denial as to what constitutes "sin"...
However, we do have the Word of God to clearly outline what "sin" is....and examples of it.


Anyhow, I wanted to ask you a question about why you think that Jesus never confronted Judas (although He knew Judas was stealing). In fact, Judas had a spot on the "team" of 12 disciples. Since we already know that Jesus is the Son of God...and knew ALL (Judas' sin problem and his ultimate betrayal of Him)....why would He still allow Judas to be amongst the 12 disciples who closely worked with Jesus?