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what u expect
an advice from who
you
Bleep off
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naija laides are greedy gluttons who are foreva insatiable with sharp mouth who believe since dey posses a pekus we must keep remitting money to them.
im sick of naija ladies
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Giddymoney:
Coming from someone who ran away from her husband

or maybe she ran away because the ex-husband didn't treat her right? You didn't think of that huh?

You wanted her to stay with a man who slept raw with another woman and had a side baby? I see!

nonjebose:
Submission is a wise woman's act of drawing out the best in a wiseman

I don't think you got my question.
My question wasn't directed nor is it about the woman who is or chooses to be submissive for whatever reason she deems right.
It focuses solely and is asked/directed to people who want and/or expect submission from women,

I'm asking those people. Why are you looking for submission from women?

Any thoughts?

Daeylar:
I don't think you got my question.
My question wasn't directed nor is it about the woman who is or chooses to be submissive for whatever reason she deems right.
It focuses solely and is asked/directed to people who want and/or expect submission from women,

I'm asking those people. Why are you looking for submission from women?

Any thoughts?

A man ego is bruised if his wife doesn't submit (I'm talking of married couples here not f**king relationship)

Infact its scriptural ephisians 5:22-25

The fact that you stake something to be submissive makes you arrogant and rebellous as a wife. Eph5:22

dammy13:
Actress Lilian Esoro had some relationship tips on her mind which he gave as an advice to her followers.

Lilian Esoro thinks a woman submitting to her husband is dependent on the man and how he treats her.

The mother-of-one wrote: “When a woman is treated right, submission comes naturally. Am I communicating?”

http://kikiotolu.com/how-to-make-a-a-woman-submissive-lilian-esoro-shares-hot-relationship-tip/

A MUST READ FOR ALL WOMEN OR ASPIRING WIVES

Feminism have become the watchword of many instead of simply being a 'FEMALE' OR 'WIFE' of valour. Its a sad state of mind, because, (what is work without labour? what is family without head & children? what is flock without a shepherd? what is money without value(value for self esteem & exchange in return)? what is life without 'TRUE' love(love endures suffering, dont keep malice, gives in a relationship, helps the neighbour/needy, don't bow to pressure or circumstances and love dont quit)? Even when things are tough, say to yourself, i won't bow to pressure. In the Holy Bible & Holy Quran, no women are chasing shadows by comparing themselves with the statute of men (Standing shoulder to shoulder with men). Sometimes, I think what you know too much often conflicts with things you've worked for and can destroy such as family & friends - the strong relationship which you've sweat to built over the years with all your might, body, soul, spirit, resources, hands, time and even your knowledge(brain) as well. WOMEN BE WISE, there is no perfect marriage or relationship. The Holy Bible says, ''A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish one uses her hand to destroy it.'' That is why you see that all successful companies have MANAGEMENT BOARD. And every management board has a CHAIRMAN (Though he's not the only decision maker, but the head of the board). This they do, in order to secure the future of the company to success and the present day-to-day activities of staffs for profitability. And all key/preference shareholders are part of the management to make decision for others to abide with. and most decision comes with technical advice and cumulative funding, with an eagle eye to get their dividends at the end of the year of that particular business. you need a partner to succeed in life. Success is not only on monetary values, our cultural values, human dignity, self esteem, emotional help, love & care, intimacy talk, the promise and the assurance. these things and more are very key and must be taken serious before considering any divorce or racing a child/children as a single mother. Remember, 'A tree can not do alone in a forest'.

My message is simple: please go back to the drawing board with your husband and discuss the issue, the pains you've endured but never forget the gains you've enjoyed, accept faults, resolve issues and settle down together again. He belongs to you. ''all men are like dog, but if you can create time, you can train him to become your pet" & do as you like without any charm/spell. Remember, if the gains you've enjoyed is more than the pains you've endured, forgive quickly & go back to him and if there are more pains in the relationship, go back and talk about how you can make it work. divorce is not an option at all, its the Devil plan to lead us astray...God knows a woman can't be alone and 'God also hate divorce'. Do all things possible to manage your partner to succeed together, even if there are no child yet, believe it soon, reconciliation & agreement will bring you the fruit of marriage (Children). Again remember, there is nothing called perfect marriage or human being. Don't even compare your marriage to anybody's own, accept responsibilities and pray hard for your husband & vise versa. A family that prays together stays together & enjoys together.

NOTE: THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE OR PERFECT RELATIONSHIP
FIGHT FOR YOUR HOME & MARRIAGE TO WORK AND LAST

alterswerve:
Every woman (and man) has their own peculiar behavior. I wonder why we try to put them in a box tho

Poco a poco llegaremos.... CIERTO AMIGO.

hi3:
When a woman is treated right, she ll turn you to her boy boy

hehehehhe......u nor get choice but to do am.

Right advise from the wrong person....

well the message sabi person wey get am...

Just like the duty of the man is to love his wife, it is also incumbent on the wife to be submissive to her husband. Personally, any woman who can't submit to me cannot pass through my first-screening. Do you think God is stupid by mandating women to be submissive to their husbands?

Divay22:
Right!
You don't even have to force anything, just looking at her she'll understand.

I agree..

Daeylar:
I don't think you got my question.
My question wasn't directed nor is it about the woman who is or chooses to be submissive for whatever reason she deems right.
It focuses solely and is asked/directed to people who want and/or expect submission from women,

I'm asking those people. Why are you looking for submission from women?

Any thoughts?

The answer to that question is quite simple. It is inherent in most men that whoever they are in relationship with should respect their views and authority. They don't look for submission from every other women

Says someone who was once married

victorian:
Uncle, for a woman to become lesbian? That means she must have had some nasty experiences from a guy or guys in her past. Women don't just decide to become lesbians overnight. Something went wrong in the lady's teenage years.
For her to run away from her rich husband, also shows the husband is no saint after all. No woman in her right senses will leave a rich amiable man after talk of the town wedding. The man himself has deep issues, no one is seeing.

Inbetween am not a lesbian and I don't pray or even dream to be one, cos thats the deep end of no return.

And what she said its true, but it's better framed this way. Treat a wise woman right and she will be submissive all through.

Make she tell me wetin her hubby do wey make her run leave am

Mryacks:
I agree..

Nice!
I hope you're treating your woman right?

frowland:
Strange example you used there buddy.

Women submit to the wrongest guys. Do you grasp now or still slow?

tinubuUGLYwella:
Women submit to the wrongest guys. Do you grasp now or still slow?

Hmm

Divay22:
Nice!
I hope you're treating your woman right?

I am absolutely amazing with respect to that...

nonjebose:
The answer to that question is quite simple. It is inherent in most men that whoever they are in relationship with should respect their views and authority. They don't look for submission from every other women

So to you submission = respecting their views and authority?
Respecting their views is cool, this applies to both husband and wife.

Authority got me confused though. What does authority entail.

siegfried99:
A man ego is bruised if his wife doesn't submit (I'm talking of married couples here not f**king relationship)

Infact its scriptural ephisians 5:22-25

Lol

So the reason is to avoid a bruised ego? thanks for the honest answer,
Wondering what submission means to you though,


Atheist here, so I'll pass on the biblical references and rules.

Even � no solve am