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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by sanpipita(m): 12:19pm On Aug 23, 2018
'open marriages' are not yet defined in Nigeria but it happens just though we can call it cheating cos other partner didnt consent to it but some cases some couples might even know but keep quiet and not bother about it, some start their own as form of revenge, like if madam finds out oga is sleeping with the maid or anyone, she will go bed the gateman or driver to equal scores.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by concacid: 12:21pm On Aug 23, 2018
grin
Vickygarl:
Your comment just shows how retarded you are. U obviously think with your relaxed shitting area. How on earth does your comment relate to the post?
I expected a female to revoke. And there you are.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Joevics(m): 12:21pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
My dear, You know I became very scared when every girl I met told me about been forced or raped.
Even the my "ordinary" female friends I met.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by OyinO: 12:21pm On Aug 23, 2018
Not in Nigeria, except the man is just spending time with the woman for some reasons. Or, because the woman is the bread winner at the moment. Proper Nigerian man cannot condone a cheating wife.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Joevics(m): 12:21pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
My dear, You know I became very scared when every girl I met told me about been forced or raped.
Even the my "ordinary" female friends I made.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by arrestdarrester: 12:26pm On Aug 23, 2018
Oh my God! So na adultery with reckless abandon na im dem don code as 'open marriage'? Jesus please come quickly...
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by sanpipita(m): 12:26pm On Aug 23, 2018
OyinO:
Not in Nigeria, except the man is just spending time with the woman for some reasons. Or, because the woman is the bread winner at the moment. Proper Nigerian man cannot condone a cheating wife.
They can, some men can love their woman to a fault, others condone it cod they are guilty of same thing too
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 12:34pm On Aug 23, 2018
Colourich:
Nigerian men will not like this this, they prefer to have the open marriage if it only favours them.
*sigh* u just had to make ur pettiness public
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by sarcasticdude(m): 1:07pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
but why this girl hate her kind like this na? Bia this girl take it easy na
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by VULCAN(m): 1:11pm On Aug 23, 2018
You are great!!

Amberon1:
Such reasoning has caused more harm than good to humanity. There is nothing like open marriage here. There is also nothing like sexual preference here. Marriage is only between man and wife.
That someone doesn't subscribe to your satanic belief doesn't mean they don't have a broad horizon.

From open marriage to homosexuality to transgerism to bestiality to gender binary/fluidity to paedophilia and very soon we will be forced to accept incestuous relationships too.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Bigmikedagod(m): 1:16pm On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:
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Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Imagine a marriage that was setup by the parent of both spouse and these couples do not like themselves one bit. So they agree within themselves to see other people but never get anyone pregnant or get pregnant.

Or a scenario where two party knowing their sexual orientation as Gay anf Lesbian agrees to get married to avoid the prying eyes of extremely concerned Nigerians. Now these two persons will never find themselves interested in each other so why is it impossible to see others?

Think beyond your horizon!
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sabi sabi
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Yankee101: 1:29pm On Aug 23, 2018
So this is how naija youth think?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by holluphemydavid(m): 1:39pm On Aug 23, 2018
If u are here to read comments like me,lets gather here for a sefie shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by holluphemydavid(m): 1:40pm On Aug 23, 2018
Yankee101:
So this is how naija youth think?
u mean d lazy Nigeria youths?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Amberon1: 2:38pm On Aug 23, 2018
Don't overestimate your importance.
Pursue you around because you're Bill Gates?? Lmao, I just happened to stumble on your senseless comments.

Yes there are exceptions and it doesn't make it right. The law also says not to kill but you see people killing.. so does that make killing right? Rape is also a crime punishable by law but people get raped everyday...so should rape be legalized then?

Won't even bother replying the rest of your nonsense. Endeavor to comment with your senses intact.
SirMichael1:
[color=magenta]There's nothing like open marriage here but there's something like a cheating spouse right? There's someone like Bobrisky here right? They're forced marriages planned by parents here in Nigeria right? They're gays living amongst y'all rights?

Why don't y'all stop your fūcking hypocrisy and instead of sneaking around to fūck behind your spouse, sit and sign a contract of an open marriage with a time span?

Son, if you keep perusing through my posts and keep giving me needless mentions, I'll give you what you're looking for.

Also, that nonsense isn't the pattern of evolution of relationships or whatever you meant it to be. No one can force you to do something you don't want but only make you see reasons to do them.
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by leofab(f): 2:48pm On Aug 23, 2018
Amberon1:
Such reasoning has caused more harm than good to humanity. There is nothing like open marriage here. There is also nothing like sexual preference here. Marriage is only between man and wife.
That someone doesn't subscribe to your satanic belief doesn't mean they don't have a broad horizon.

From open marriage to homosexuality to transgerism to bestiality to gender binary/fluidity to paedophilia and very soon we will be forced to accept incestuous relationships too.
naivity smells all over you.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by SirMichael1: 2:55pm On Aug 23, 2018
Amberon1:
Don't overestimate your importance.
Pursue you around because you're Bill Gates?? Lmao, I just happened to stumble on your senseless comments.

Yes there are exceptions and it doesn't make it right. The law also says not to kill but you see people killing.. so does that make killing right? Rape is also a crime punishable by law but people get raped everyday...so should rape be legalized then?

Won't even bother replying the rest of your nonsense. Endeavor to comment with your senses intact.
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Son, try string your thought process right enough to convey them 'cause this reads nothing but hogwash. You just entirely jump off the track. That's so lame.

Dunce, it's not pursue but peruse. Try to read and understand before hastily scripting whatever your sick head comes up with.

You're so dumb you don't even have answers to my questions but you felt if you don't reply, I'd think you a coward. Well, you're even less of a coward and more an obtuse being.

When you say there are exceptions, do you contravene your prequel post of 'there are no open marriages in Nigeria'? This question is a chance to redeem yourself and maybe brighten up your level of understanding and comprehension enough to help me get what you intend to communicate.

You know what... Forget it. You're useless.
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by bukatyne(f): 2:58pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
When I read some of your posts, I cringe.

The fact that you and your crew have body count of sixty and go about do nonsense doesn't mean we all do same.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by bukatyne(f): 2:59pm On Aug 23, 2018
IamHeWrites:
Open marriage is the type of marriage where the man and the woman with each other's consent, are allowed to cheat.

is it really being practiced in Nigeria?

https://www.torimill.co/viral/9546/do-people-practice-open-marriage-in-nigeria-lady.html
Men do.

Afterall, some wives with cheating husbands are fine with it/do nothing about it.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by jozee8: 3:09pm On Aug 23, 2018
sarcasticdude:
but why this girl hate her kind like this na? Bia this girl take it easy na
I don't think it is hate like you called it
It's just the obvious truth!
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by mechanics(m): 3:40pm On Aug 23, 2018
Imagine the question she's asking.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by princeemmma(m): 4:02pm On Aug 23, 2018
No, we only practice close marriage grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by ImaIma1(f): 4:08pm On Aug 23, 2018
HeWrites:
undecided

Yes, We do but without each others consent.

But our madams practice it most.
That is what guys tell themselves these days
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 4:25pm On Aug 23, 2018
My over possessive self can't even imagine my husband with another woman talk more of reaching a compromise to include such in our marital agenda!.. Oyinbo people and nonsense
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by DukeNija(m): 4:54pm On Aug 23, 2018
Ytea:
Not this Nigeria, they both may cheat steady but none must find the other out. That's how this works in Nigeria.
Yes Nigerians are becoming that open minded about their sexual interests.

Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by CarlsJaz567(m): 5:47pm On Aug 23, 2018
Wilfredpat22:
Men practice open marriage while we women do it secretly. The most funny thing is that you men think you are marrying marriage material, you are marrying a expired, used lady that her destiny has probably been used by 50 year old men

The truth is if you aren’t marrying a virgin, you are marrying, proposing and saying vows to a lady who has a body count of 60. Forget the lines we use about being raped (how many men rape women this days) how many do we read??

If we women can open our legs before marriage and sleep and our body is now useless and worthless it is better for you men to marry us and do to us as you please (except she has her own money)

All my life I play and grew up with boys, and none of them attempted rape, so I wonder where the accusations are coming from?? huh
How can a young girl like this one be claiming to have had a body count of 60huh Is it possible except if she is a prostitute. Don't exaggerate too wildly I beg!
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Amberon1: 7:54pm On Aug 23, 2018
Dumb fool. stop typing meaningless Nonsense to me. Ain't reading your long thrash.
SirMichael1:
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Son, try string your thought process right enough to convey them 'cause this reads nothing but hogwash. You just entirely jump off the track. That's so lame.

Dunce, it's not pursue but peruse. Try to read and understand before hastily scripting whatever your sick head comes up with.

You're so dumb you don't even have answers to my questions but you felt if you don't reply, I'd think you a coward. Well, you're even less of a coward and more an obtuse being.

When you say there are exceptions, do you contravene your prequel post of 'there are no open marriages in Nigeria'? This question is a chance to redeem yourself and maybe brighten up your level of understanding and comprehension enough to help me get what you intend to communicate.

You know what... Forget it. You're useless.
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Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Amberon1: 7:54pm On Aug 23, 2018
That's your personal problem my dear.
leofab:
naivity smells all over you.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by sweetilicious(f): 9:47pm On Aug 23, 2018
Lapalapa:
Open marriage? Haven't heard of that... But open relationship, sure, sure n very sure
I don't like it.How can you agree to see other people when you have a partner? Its not always easy for women.
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Damseldammie(f): 9:57pm On Aug 23, 2018
Níbo ni ìwo tiwá, to fí ñ béèrè ìbéèrè òpònú níí orílèdè wa nàìjíríà( i.e where did you come from that you were asking foolish question in our country Nigeria)
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by Nobody: 11:00pm On Aug 23, 2018
SirMichael1:
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Don't say it is impossible for two married humans to agree for an open marriage. That's shortsighted of you.

Just as marriages are closed here, there are also open marriages.

Think beyond your horizon!
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Listen up, throw this toxic reasoning into the bin, there is nothing, I mean nothing like open or closed marriage. The Owner and the initiator of marriage never once mentioned sef!

When a polluted mind filled with filth, dead to righteousness, is set on evil, they find names, unfounded reasons to seal their Ill conceived thought and lust.

How about you sleeping with your nuclear family members both (m&f) alike, and then calling it open family relationship?
Re: "Do People Practice Open Marriage In Nigeria?" - Lady by SirMichael1: 12:20am On Aug 24, 2018
Ranks007:
Listen up, throw this toxic reasoning into the bin, there is nothing, I mean nothing like open or closed marriage. The Owner and the initiator of marriage never once mentioned sef!

When a polluted mind filled with filth, dead to righteousness, is set on evil, they find names, unfounded reasons to seal their Ill conceived thought and lust.

How about you sleeping with your nuclear family members both (m&f) alike, and then calling it open family relationship?
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Is there something like a gay marriage? Is it legalized in some part of the world? If you don't accept the fact that there are homosexuals marrying themselves, does it change the fact that it occurs?

There's nothing like open or closed marriage but a spouse could be sneaking around fornicating right? People can still cheat in marriages right?

About your family thingy... There's a difference between sexual relationship and that without. You can't sleep with your siblings and term it open 'whatever'. Marriage is consummated when both party have performed the fundamental right which is coitus. Now if your husband can perform this function, you can divorce him on that basis! Now marriage unconsummated isn't marriage and so, open marriage means external party could interfere and perform the fundamental function of marriage which is coitus.
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Now listen, there's something like an open marriage or if you wouldn't come to term with it, term it whatever you want but it has to hold the same meaning.

Having said that... I'm think I'm done with you.
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