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Yesterday, a new bride started an argument on Twitter after she revealed that she and her husband decided that she will not kneel on her traditional marriage day (read here).

Now, she has revealed more and not everyone is happy.

Eniola said the decision to kneel was reached by her and her husband.

Her husband’s family also didn’t have a problem with it. She especially had the support of her sister-in-law not to kneel.

But Twitter users, mostly men, took up the case and bashed her for not respecting the culture.

Eniola has now revealed that, not only did she not kneel at her trad, she was also not given away by her father during her church wedding, but by her mother.

One Twitter user wrote: “Lol if you have a problem with kneeling on your traditional wedding , you should pretty much be outraged about the idea of your dad walking you down the aisle .

Cos it has a much more “ misogynistic “ meaning.” And the new bride replied: “My mom walked me down the aisle. I know someone who walked herself down the aisle because she said she was GIVING HERSELF to her partner. Stannnnnnn!!!!” As expected, her recent revelation has started another argument.

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Lalasticlala

Little things matter.

If she and her husband agreed with it, then it is okay. But sometimes, it is just sensible to flow with the normal traditional process for a talk-free marriage.

Most traditional marriages I have seen in almost all tribes, requires the woman to just take a kneel,to serve her husband. what is difficult in that?why even do a traditional marriage if you can't honour it properly?

As silly as this may sound. There are families out there,that some members will still throw snide remarks she was not properly married,and will refuse to accept her fully for just refusing to kneel.

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This woman comes from a world where culture ,religion and tradition are not recognized, so she is not a Nigerian ;she is a foreigner. Let her go back to her country so we can have peace here .

She really deserves to be mentioned in the Guineas Book.

She be breaking records upandan. Abi


Nigerian twitter is no yardstick biko. Too much sauce and juice has watered down its......

We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo

HungerBAD:
Little things matter.

If she and her husband agreed with it, then it is okay. But sometimes, it is just sensible to flow with the normal traditional process for a talk-free marriage.

Most traditional marriages I have seen in almost all tribes, requires the woman to just take a kneel,to serve her husband?what is difficult in that?why even do a traditional marriage if you can't honour it properly?

bigtt76:
We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo

Huh?feminists in marriages?I thought that scam was exposed when Chimamanda or whatever that writer's name is got married?

pls some one should tell these lady to restrain a bit cos she is shaking a very dangerous table...in order to gain, cheap popularity.

bigtt76:
We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo

bros I tire oh

Nor mind dem joooor! Their cup of tea ....whatever rocks their boat, their business not mine.

HungerBAD:


Huh?feminists in marriages?I thought that scam was exposed when Chimamanda or whatever that writer's name is got married?

Her marriage... Her choice

I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women!

You people should leave this girl and her uncommon 'traditional'marriage

This babe lives in Canda, the so-called traditional marriage she had, was done in Toronto. Traditional marriage done outside the village is as good as a sham, the only thing traditional about her marriage was the asoebi she wore.

People are probably pissed that she is bragging about it on social media, but they should leave her to her foolishness. She should keep updating us on every stage of the marriage since common sense is a rare gift these days

Na the Nigerian girls living in Nigeria wey dey hail her I dey pity pass. You will tell me which village you will do your wedding and be forming feminist, if village people no go curse your entire family plus the marriage join

LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women!

Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women!

Be supporting rubbish!

I only pity you when you make the mistake of thinking you want to try it when getting married in Nigeria, or to man who is very keen about his culture.

Mtcheew. anoda misguided feminist

Her marriage, her life is none of my business. So long she's happy and her husband is super cool with it then she might as well walk down the aisle on horseback.
Whatever rocks her boat!!
It's high time we stop meddling with SM madness and concentrate on making our lives better.

safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

no truer words ever spoken on nairaland.
this is an award winning post.

LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women!

OK we heard u
Wen will u do urs

Her lyf, her problem

What's this lady blabbing about.You refused to bend a knee for your husband,but will bend in the closet to take his manhood?Im sure you guys do doggie right?You go bend tire


*sips hot tea*

safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

You're so smart, I'm amazed

zicoraads:

Be supporting rubbish!

I only pity you when you make the mistake of thinking you want to try it when getting married in Nigeria, or to man who is very keen about his culture.

What kind of culture gives u a loose tongue, turns u abusive, insensitive nd selfish? Barbaric culture that needs to go

ㄓ

safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

I'm not announcing nothing girl. I know when to strike nd when to hold back, can't speak for all though. Maybe i just want men to be really men since they hv become a sorry case that can be contolled in oblivion.

That last past is just ur opinion that i don't agree to.

LuvU2:
What kind of culture gives u a loose tongue, turns u abusive, insensitive nd selfish? Barbaric culture that needs to go

So kneeling down as a result of traditional and cultural practices automatically turns a man into a loose tongue, an abuser, an insensitive and selfish person?!

Pray tell, who says not kneeling won't get you married to someone who will do all the above and even worst?!

zicoraads:

So kneeling down as a result of traditional and cultural practices automatically turns a man into a loose tongue, an abuser, an insensitive and selfish person?!

Pray tell, who says not kneeling won't get you married to someone who will do all the above and even worst?!

my first post

LuvU2:
my first post

Don't worry. You will grow and look back at these posts you are making.