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Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by nigeriapenmedia: 12:50pm On Aug 24, 2018
By NIGERIAPEN.COM.NG

News Source: https://www.nigeriapen.com.ng/my-mom-walked-me-down-the-aisle-woman-who-avoided-kneeling-during-her-traditional-marriage-further-shocks-angry-twitter-users-html/



Yesterday, a new bride started an argument on Twitter after she revealed that she and her husband decided that she will not kneel on her traditional marriage day (read here).

Now, she has revealed more and not everyone is happy.

Eniola said the decision to kneel was reached by her and her husband.

Her husband’s family also didn’t have a problem with it. She especially had the support of her sister-in-law not to kneel.

But Twitter users, mostly men, took up the case and bashed her for not respecting the culture.

Eniola has now revealed that, not only did she not kneel at her trad, she was also not given away by her father during her church wedding, but by her mother.

One Twitter user wrote: “Lol if you have a problem with kneeling on your traditional wedding , you should pretty much be outraged about the idea of your dad walking you down the aisle .

Cos it has a much more “ misogynistic “ meaning.” And the new bride replied: “My mom walked me down the aisle. I know someone who walked herself down the aisle because she said she was GIVING HERSELF to her partner. Stannnnnnn!!!!” As expected, her recent revelation has started another argument.



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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by HungerBAD: 12:52pm On Aug 24, 2018
Little things matter.

If she and her husband agreed with it, then it is okay. But sometimes, it is just sensible to flow with the normal traditional process for a talk-free marriage.

Most traditional marriages I have seen in almost all tribes, requires the woman to just take a kneel,to serve her husband. what is difficult in that?why even do a traditional marriage if you can't honour it properly?

As silly as this may sound. There are families out there,that some members will still throw snide remarks she was not properly married,and will refuse to accept her fully for just refusing to kneel.

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by nigeriapenmedia: 12:53pm On Aug 24, 2018
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News Source: https://www.nigeriapen.com.ng/my-mom-walked-me-down-the-aisle-woman-who-avoided-kneeling-during-her-traditional-marriage-further-shocks-angry-twitter-users-html/
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by Shelumiel: 1:00pm On Aug 24, 2018
This woman comes from a world where culture ,religion and tradition are not recognized, so she is not a Nigerian ;she is a foreigner. Let her go back to her country so we can have peace here .

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by Nobody: 1:01pm On Aug 24, 2018
She really deserves to be mentioned in the Guineas Book.

She be breaking records upandan. Abi


Nigerian twitter is no yardstick biko. Too much sauce and juice has watered down its...... angry
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by bigtt76(f): 1:02pm On Aug 24, 2018
We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo grin


HungerBAD:
Little things matter.

If she and her husband agreed with it, then it is okay. But sometimes, it is just sensible to flow with the normal traditional process for a talk-free marriage.

Most traditional marriages I have seen in almost all tribes, requires the woman to just take a kneel,to serve her husband?what is difficult in that?why even do a traditional marriage if you can't honour it properly?

Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by HungerBAD: 1:05pm On Aug 24, 2018
bigtt76:
We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo grin



Huh?feminists in marriages?I thought that scam was exposed when Chimamanda or whatever that writer's name is got married?

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by TeamDoctor: 1:06pm On Aug 24, 2018
pls some one should tell these lady to restrain a bit cos she is shaking a very dangerous table...in order to gain, cheap popularity.
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by TeamDoctor: 1:07pm On Aug 24, 2018
bigtt76:
We are #Feminists naaaa ......oshi ko shi omo grin


bros I tire oh
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by bigtt76(f): 1:08pm On Aug 24, 2018
Nor mind dem joooor! Their cup of tea ....whatever rocks their boat, their business not mine.


HungerBAD:


Huh?feminists in marriages?I thought that scam was exposed when Chimamanda or whatever that writer's name is got married?
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by ikbnice(m): 1:13pm On Aug 24, 2018
Her marriage... Her choice
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by LuvU2(f): 1:40pm On Aug 24, 2018
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women! smiley

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by safarigirl(f): 2:13pm On Aug 24, 2018
You people should leave this girl and her uncommon 'traditional'marriage

This babe lives in Canda, the so-called traditional marriage she had, was done in Toronto. Traditional marriage done outside the village is as good as a sham, the only thing traditional about her marriage was the asoebi she wore.

People are probably pissed that she is bragging about it on social media, but they should leave her to her foolishness. She should keep updating us on every stage of the marriage since common sense is a rare gift these days

Na the Nigerian girls living in Nigeria wey dey hail her I dey pity pass. You will tell me which village you will do your wedding and be forming feminist, if village people no go curse your entire family plus the marriage join

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by safarigirl(f): 2:17pm On Aug 24, 2018
LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women! smiley
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by zicoraads: 2:26pm On Aug 24, 2018
LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women! smiley
Be supporting rubbish!

I only pity you when you make the mistake of thinking you want to try it when getting married in Nigeria, or to man who is very keen about his culture.
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by ola12(m): 2:55pm On Aug 24, 2018
Mtcheew. anoda misguided feminist undecided
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by Michelle55(f): 5:01pm On Aug 24, 2018
Her marriage, her life is none of my business. So long she's happy and her husband is super cool with it then she might as well walk down the aisle on horseback.
Whatever rocks her boat!!
It's high time we stop meddling with SM madness and concentrate on making our lives better.
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by lamidebaby(f): 5:08pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke
no truer words ever spoken on nairaland.
this is an award winning post.

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Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by tiredoflife(m): 5:49pm On Aug 24, 2018
LuvU2:
I support her. The average Nigerian/nairaland man grew up in a home were his mum prostrated, knelt down before his father, but did that stop him from being the sexist, mysogynist, ego-weak, women basher online? Women set standards for other women. If your subservience could not earn u equal respect maybe its time to wield your own power.

We hv too many men who are criminals,ritualists, corrupt leaders, rapists, wife beaters, fraudsters in all corners of this world yet people still respect men for just being men. While all individual women need to meet certain conditions, do this do that before they re respected. Men enjoy individual privilege while women don't. Nd no the world isnt a man's. It can only be if men were the ones that created it. Wake up women! smiley

OK we heard u
Wen will u do urs
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by loverboys: 6:27pm On Aug 24, 2018
Her lyf, her problem
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by Nobody: 6:56pm On Aug 24, 2018
What's this lady blabbing about.You refused to bend a knee for your husband,but will bend in the closet to take his manhood?Im sure you guys do doggie right?You go bend tire


*sips hot tea*
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by AmuEwu: 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke

You're so smart, I'm amazed
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by LuvU2(f): 8:03pm On Aug 24, 2018
zicoraads:

Be supporting rubbish!

I only pity you when you make the mistake of thinking you want to try it when getting married in Nigeria, or to man who is very keen about his culture.
What kind of culture gives u a loose tongue, turns u abusive, insensitive nd selfish? Barbaric culture that needs to go smiley
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by Badbunny(m): 8:10pm On Aug 24, 2018
I only want to know how her husband proposed to her.. Did he do it the traditional way by kneeling down?? If not she just wants to trend. IMO
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by LuvU2(f): 8:12pm On Aug 24, 2018
safarigirl:
Power is silent. If you have to come and announce to the world that you have power, then you have nothing

Forget all this gragra that men do online, Na the wife dey run things inside house. Real power is one where the person you are wielding it on doesn't even know he is being controlled.

What most feminists in Nigeria make noise about is not power and more than half of them disturbing the internet are busy begging one man for relationship in reality. Social media feminism is a joke
I'm not announcing nothing girl. I know when to strike nd when to hold back, can't speak for all though. Maybe i just want men to be really men since they hv become a sorry case that can be contolled in oblivion. smiley

That last past is just ur opinion that i don't agree to.
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by zicoraads: 8:18pm On Aug 24, 2018
LuvU2:
What kind of culture gives u a loose tongue, turns u abusive, insensitive nd selfish? Barbaric culture that needs to go smiley
So kneeling down as a result of traditional and cultural practices automatically turns a man into a loose tongue, an abuser, an insensitive and selfish person?!

Pray tell, who says not kneeling won't get you married to someone who will do all the above and even worst?!
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by LuvU2(f): 8:19pm On Aug 24, 2018
zicoraads:

So kneeling down as a result of traditional and cultural practices automatically turns a man into a loose tongue, an abuser, an insensitive and selfish person?!

Pray tell, who says not kneeling won't get you married to someone who will do all the above and even worst?!

my first post
Re: Woman Who Avoided Kneeling During Her Traditional Marriage Further Shocks Angry by zicoraads: 8:34pm On Aug 24, 2018
LuvU2:
my first post
Don't worry. You will grow and look back at these posts you are making. grin

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