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Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my identity. I am 35 years old with a year old son.
I met my ‘husband’ in 2013 and we started courting in 2014. We got married in 2016 June and got the shock of my life the two months later that my husband was already married with a daughter. I found out I was pregnant, from then on my life has been one long sad story.
The man I loved and trusted deceived me with his family’s conical. They claim he......more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-a-good-girl-but-why-did-god-allow-this-to-happen-to-me/

Life is not a pack of biscuits.... It is more like a fierce battle... Not retreat, no surrender..... Tough time they say, don't last!

Absolutely

Alejoc:
Life is not a pack of biscuits.... It is more like a fierce battle... Not retreat, no surrender..... Tough time they say, don't last!

Bad things do happen to good people. If you understand this you are on your road to recovery

Samuelgr8:
Dear Jzhane,

Please hide my identity. I am 35 years old with a year old son.
I met my ‘husband’ in 2013 and we started courting in 2014. We got married in 2016 June and got the shock of my life the two months later that my husband was already married with a daughter. I found out I was pregnant, from then on my life has been one long sad story.
The man I loved and trusted deceived me with his family’s conical. They claim he......more



https://livelystones.com.ng/i-was-a-good-girl-but-why-did-god-allow-this-to-happen-to-me/

That is not God's fault but yours.

We don't have to blame God for what we did not ask or allow Him to decide for us.

When the servant of Abraham wanted to choose a wife for Isaac he prayed to God to choose the right woman for his master's son. And God did it.
But nowadays , we feel we know it all . We all want to choose beautiful women and handsome men. That is a great problem indeed. The bible tells in :

Jeremiah 17:9 KJV
The heart is deceitful above all things , and desperately wicked: who can know it?

If you had asked God , He would have told you not to marry him. So blame yourself and not God.

Still , it is not the end of life , if you go to God in prayers , He will wipe away your tears. Trust God :

Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
[6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.

On point bro

enilove:
That is not God's fault but yours.

We don't have to blame God for what we did not ask or allow Him to decide for us.

When the servant of Abraham wanted to choose a wife for Isaac he prayed to God to choose the right woman for his master's son. And God did it.
But nowadays , we feel we know it all . We all want to choose beautiful women and handsome men. That is a great problem indeed. The bible tells in :

Jeremiah 17:9 KJV
The heart is deceitful above all things , and desperately wicked: who can know it?

If you had asked God , He would have told you not to marry him. So blame yourself and not God.

Still , it is not the end of life , if you go to God in prayers , He will wipe away your tears. Trust God :

Proverbs 3:5-6 KJV
Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.
[6] In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.