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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by omooba969(m): 5:29pm On Sep 20, 2018
gypsey:
the same one that informed my decision to go for the first one. grin

Sup Boss-man, how ya side? grin
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Nobody: 5:31pm On Sep 20, 2018
omooba969:


Sup Boss-man, how ya side? grin
cool, my side dey okay grin how's yours?
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by King44(m): 5:33pm On Sep 20, 2018
Tamarapetty:
Slay queens won't listen, they want to have kids for celebrities. . . They want to feel AMONG
even non celebrities olohun its not worth it, it end up in emotional torture of a kid who does not have any fault in the mistakes of both parents
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Aarenaija: 5:34pm On Sep 20, 2018
Hope they listen.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Nobody: 5:57pm On Sep 20, 2018
Yambee:
Them go hear?
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Nobody: 6:06pm On Sep 20, 2018
WotzupNG:

Celebrity police woman, Dolapo Badmus has advised ladies to stay away from the idea of being a man’s baby mama because it’s not worth it.

According to her, having a baby for a man is no guarantee of a place in his heart.

The police public relations officer also spoke of the tough time she had settling an issue between a baby mama and her baby daddy.

Dolapo Badmus shared on Instagram:



https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/09/dolapo-badmus-baby-mama-worth/
So some LADIES still get SENSE like this....??
This is unimaginably unimaginable
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Daeylar(f): 7:15pm On Sep 20, 2018
Doracle2:


Indeed men have responsibilities in pregnancies but the first level of exposure/risk is on the woman. This record has been played over and over again and the expectation should be since men don't own up to their responsibilities she wont be the vessel that brings a fatherless child to this world.

Personally, in my dealing with anyone i evaluate where the risk lies and ensure i mitigate it especially where it weighs heavily on my side. I think her advice is meant to inspire younger ladies. I guess someone needs to ask the young men to understand the implication of their actions.

The child is only fatherless if the baby daddy is dead though, as long as he is alive. He has no excuse. He must, MUST take care of that child, however, if people feel that the baby daddy can do whatever he likes. Then they need to know that the baby mama can also do however she likes and keep their advice to themselves.
Yeah, I agree with you on that, someone needs to warn the younger men also. Don't impregnate a lady you don't care about. Don't go raw when you know damn well that if a baby should result you have no intentions of taking care of the child
Putting all the responsibilities on women makes it seem as though men can go wild and it doesn't matter. When actually it does. It's quite unfair on the child.

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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by richiepolymer(m): 7:25pm On Sep 20, 2018
May heaven bless you for this advice to hungry girls who think they can be feminists and babymamas without first being self sufficient and capable of paying bills.

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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by shekauvsbuhari: 7:38pm On Sep 20, 2018
chriskosherbal:
This is a real advice from an experienced matured woman to other women but some will put cotton wool in their ears.

Those who have ears let them hear.
Greed and laziness will not let them hear. Its easier to open legs for preeq than to hustle.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by omooba969(m): 9:28pm On Sep 20, 2018
gypsey:
cool, my side dey okay grin how's yours?

Still keeping it together bro...10xsmiley
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Mryacks: 9:34pm On Sep 20, 2018
kennygee:
This menace is going to be a cancer to us all.


You can say that again...
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Brightgem(f): 9:36pm On Sep 20, 2018
dafemnet:
Pls tell the girls ma.
who was she telling before? Girls should have some dignity and Men too shd be more disciplined and principled, cuz the baby mamas are not getting themselves pregnant.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Brightgem(f): 9:42pm On Sep 20, 2018
Metuh:
Will they ever listen? Someone is already pregnant for a C list artiste already just for fame and peanuts.


Some girls are planning on how to trap a boy with pregnancy as we speak presently. They will never use their senses.


Girls with no future plans for themselves who think a man's job is to marry them and take care of them. I pity such fish brains.

I just dey vex. Mtcheew
sorry, no vex! Oya take cold Milo! U made sense. If only girls can learn that dreams and goals are often time bound while love is ageless. I am tired of the insults on girls, I dey shame on our behalf. Because some us have standards that seem too high to our own.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by mechanics(m): 9:45pm On Sep 20, 2018
A very vital advice, She who have eyes to see, should see.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Brightgem(f): 9:46pm On Sep 20, 2018
flyca:
I will never bring into this world a child that I cannot solely take care of, even when I love the my husband (the child's father) to pieces! It's a promise to God, to myself and to my child.

Anything can happen which I have no control of. Death? He could fall into the hands of another woman, he could get a bad dealbon business or work. Anything can or you cannot imagine!, even though that's not what I pray for. But I don't need all these dramas so I have to prepare myself to take full responsiblity of my offspring.

Raising a family is good. But money makes a happier home! Immediately you bring a child into this world, see that child as your personal responsibility. Build yourself up and stop hoping to be another adult's for sustainance. Same warning goes to stay-at-home mums!
Be wise!

My message to the baby-mama-of the moment, Shola, is to forget about WizKid and take up the full responsibility of Bolu. Stop the drama already, stop the pity-party, stop the screnshoting, stop tweeting. Leave everything behind you, pick yourself up and move ahead. WizKid has disrespecting enough and he has no regard for you. Stop going deeper into the mess, babe!

God's got us kiss
standing ovation for you biko! And I think u just taught me a new lesson, have a child u can take care of urself because life happens. That's deep.

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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by dafemnet: 10:13pm On Sep 20, 2018
Brightgem:
who was she telling before? Girls should have some dignity and Men too shd be more disciplined and principled, cuz the baby mamas are not getting themselves pregnant.
Men will always look for fun but girls should be smart not to get pregnant before marriage so they don't end up being baby mamas.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by sweetilicious(f): 10:53pm On Sep 20, 2018
True talk.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Brightgem(f): 11:04pm On Sep 20, 2018
dafemnet:
Men will always look for fun but girls should be smart not to get pregnant before marriage so they don't end up being baby mamas.
what do u mean men will always look for fun? What are u justifying here? I definitely wnt raise my sons to look for fun. Men too should not look for fun, women are not play things. There are some ladies who dn't understand these things, they dn't understand the concept of build urself up, some grew up without much guidance, hence some of them do end up baby mamas because they were clueless. It is the ones who are educated, who know what self esteem mean that can relate with these messages. Men who are suppossed to be leaders of society, homes and their kids are busy looking for fun. Tueh!
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by godquality: 4:41am On Sep 21, 2018
And who's advising the guys to use condoms?.

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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by dafemnet: 6:04am On Sep 21, 2018
Brightgem:
what do u mean men will always look for fun? What are u justifying here? I definitely wnt raise my sons to look for fun. Men too should not look for fun, women are not play things. There are some ladies who dn't understand these things, they dn't understand the concept of build urself up, some grew up without much guidance, hence some of them do end up baby mamas because they were clueless. It is the ones who are educated, who know what self esteem mean that can relate with these messages. Men who are suppossed to be leaders of society, homes and their kids are busy looking for fun. Tueh!
Women are leaders too and they should start acting like it. Are you saying Sophie, Shola and Co are not educated. Please think before you say things.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by sdindan: 7:52am On Sep 21, 2018
[quote author=lindsay post=71371073]

Bia I called ur name?

Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Dshocker(m): 8:06am On Sep 21, 2018
Rosay15:
E go better u oh.
Who babymama EPP!


It might help you.Just try it,cos you never can tell.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Rosay15(f): 8:12am On Sep 21, 2018
Dshocker:



It might help you.Just try it,cos you never can tell.
.. Okay but it would ve better if your siblings try it first so that u can knw how it goes cus u never can tell.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Dshocker(m): 8:14am On Sep 21, 2018
Rosay15:
.. Okay but it would ve better if your siblings try it first so that u can knw how it goes cus u never can tell.

Loòol,they are all married
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Brightgem(f): 9:07am On Sep 21, 2018
dafemnet:
Women are leaders too and they should start acting like it. Are you saying Sophie, Shola and Co are not educated. Please think before you say things.
You didn't even get the core of the message! So it's u who should think after you re-read!
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Jeezuzpick(m): 3:08pm On Sep 21, 2018
VULCAN:
How silly to compare Linda (who earns millions each month) to the average girl on the street who is waiting for a guy to recharge her data.

Rubbish


Of course Linda is different!

Yet, in their dumb hope, these girls look to find a "rich, caring, Godfearing, young, handsome guy" and end up in the clutches of yahoo+ boys.

I believe I made my point. How many "Linda's" are there? Yet even Linda made her money long before she became a baby mama, so, a wise person ought to read between the lines of what I wrote.

Maybe I made a mistake in assuming a lot if people are wise though.....
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by ikezuora4689(m): 3:55pm On Sep 21, 2018
WotzupNG:

Celebrity police woman, Dolapo Badmus has advised ladies to stay away from the idea of being a man’s baby mama because it’s not worth it.

According to her, having a baby for a man is no guarantee of a place in his heart.

The police public relations officer also spoke of the tough time she had settling an issue between a baby mama and her baby daddy.

Dolapo Badmus shared on Instagram:



https://www.wotzup.ng/2018/09/dolapo-badmus-baby-mama-worth/
mama no wast yr time...them no go hear..I don talk since say...if u no get handwork I no fit marry u as wife...most of this girls think say na ur duty as a guy to Carter for them...abeg babe last time I check no be me born u
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by lindsay(f): 6:06pm On Sep 21, 2018
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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by sdindan: 9:49pm On Sep 21, 2018

Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by lindsay(f): 7:00pm On Sep 22, 2018
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Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Trustworthiness: 3:04pm On Sep 23, 2018
May the Lord Almighty make you to continue to prosper in your work for sharing that good advice.

I hope these girls will learn. From experience, girls most times learn from their person experience instead of learning from others. They only learn wrong things from other girls and not the good things.

Moreover, they will see someone who wants to truly marry them, but be running after guys with deceptive cars and apartment.

A word is enough for a wise.
Re: Dolapo Badmus Advises Young Girls, Says Being A Baby Mama Is Not Worth It by Trustworthiness: 3:16pm On Sep 23, 2018
Brightgem:
who was she telling before? Girls should have some dignity and Men too shd be more disciplined and principled, cuz the baby mamas are not getting themselves pregnant.

Sorry for quoting you.

The issue is who will be carrying the problem for head. Who is it going to affect most.

Last time I read on Nairaland about a 17 year old lady caught in pain state that threw one of her twins that is sick in the bush because she couldn't find the guy that impregnated her to take care of the sick child. She travelled from Ekiti state to ogun state.

One evil is likely to result into another. So, it better if girls are more of concern and be advised from not getting themselves into the mess.

Trustworthiness

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