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Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet: 1:03pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
It looks like She dumped the guy.

His name is Michael Ilesanmi.

Y'all should watch it. It is too funny.. grin grin
The show is funny but I believe it’s a scripted show. She is too damn picky and based on her occupation and current responsibility she can not even afford to sponser him .I do believe that things like this definitely happen in real life. I hope people watch this back home.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 1:09pm On Sep 24, 2018
please before I continue watching the video, Please tell me how many minutes is the video. Data is a luxury here in Nigeria unlike in US.
Babyvet:
The show is funny but I believe it’s a scripted show. She is too damn picky and based on her occupation and current responsibility she can not even afford to sponser him .I do believe that things like this definitely happen in real life. I hope people watch this back home.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet:
Dremca:
please before I continue watching the video, Please tell me how many minutes is the video. Data is a luxury here in Nigeria unlike in US.
.

It’s about 20 minutes but the video it’s not the actual show just someone reviewing the show .
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lionlee216(m): 1:58pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
Anyone watching 90day fiancee with the Nigerian guy and the American lady. grin grin grin grin

She took back her "Make American great again hat".. LMAO.


The lady came (probably still is) to Nigeria.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=viLGQwluBTk
Both of them are full of drama.... i love the show
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lionlee216(m): 2:10pm On Sep 24, 2018
I have seen soo many hot single ladies/baby momma and will be cursing in my mind saying "mehn this girl is fucking hot" especially the lady at my former workplace. Shes bleeping beautiful with no boyfriend and i enjoy a good relationship with her.

I have a colleague(american) saying he can never marry. He is a man with ten biitches. He showed me pictures of them. Mehn, they fucking hot and beaitiful and this my colleague no fine at all. No car nothing yet they dieing over him. I used to wonder why this guy n this guy no even send them. These are ladies you will just wish to get a hug or kiss from them. When african guys approach them, they start forming "boss" which has made a friend of mine to be single so long. He's looking for a model to marry
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 2:29pm On Sep 24, 2018
What! The cost of buying data to watch that 20mins video is equivalent to some people monthly salary in Nigeria.
Babyvet:
.

It’s about 20 minutes but the video it’s not the actual show just someone reviewing the show .
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Dremca(m): 2:33pm On Sep 24, 2018
That guy must have certainly mastered the game of seduction. Maybe, he wears lovely cologne, knows how to talk to a lady to make her heart melt and all that. He must be a master at the game of seduction.
lionlee216:
I have seen soo many hot single ladies/baby momma and will be cursing in my mind saying "mehn this girl is fucking hot" especially the lady at my former workplace. Shes bleeping beautiful with no boyfriend and i enjoy a good relationship with her.

I have a colleague(american) saying he can never marry. He is a man with ten biitches. He showed me pictures of them. Mehn, they fucking hot and beaitiful and this my colleague no fine at all. No car nothing yet they dieing over him. I used to wonder why this guy n this guy no even send them. These are ladies you will just wish to get a hug or kiss from them. When african guys approach them, they start forming "boss" which has made a friend of mine to be single so long. He's looking for a model to marry
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 2:42pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
The video was funny.

But seriously speaking I wonder why many of these my African Brothers always end up with unattractive White Woman.

Could it be because of desparation to get green card?

I mean there are ton of Beautiful Ladies including Hot Single Moms both Black women & White women all over America who will be willing to assist them settle down permanently in the United States.

I mean are beautiful ladies all over the place including Atlanta, Miami, Los Angeles, New York City, Boston and Washington DC

Never understood why most African guys would choose the unattractive ones.
You're getting it wrong.
It isn't that African men (and women) decided they want to marry the less attractive ones.

It is all about peace of mind and getting you papers "straight"
Let's all be honest, The easiest straight forward way to get Permanent residency is through family petition.

Most people don't have direct family members in the US willing to file for them, even if they are, it takes years

It isn't an easy task to find someone that genuinely wants to file a petition for you without hidden agenda.

"Fine face" and green card petition isn't always a good mix.

Thankfully, our African brothers (the really smart ones) are learning. Peace of mind, no drama, smooth petition process will help you get on your feet faster.

For someone to file a petition for you, they must show they earn enough to sponsor you.

Most "fine face" is just that, nothing else. You come from Naija on a visit visa and you're chasing "fine face" around, I am sorry for you grin grin grin

Nevertheless, don't bite the hand that feeds you. That "unattractive" lady that helped you out, don't disregard her.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Deyinka007: 2:43pm On Sep 24, 2018
lionlee216:
I have seen soo many hot single ladies/baby momma and will be cursing in my mind saying "mehn this girl is fucking hot" especially the lady at my former workplace. Shes bleeping beautiful with no boyfriend and i enjoy a good relationship with her.

I have a colleague(american) saying he can never marry. He is a man with ten biitches. He showed me pictures of them. Mehn, they fucking hot and beaitiful and this my colleague no fine at all. No car nothing yet they dieing over him. I used to wonder why this guy n this guy no even send them. These are ladies you will just wish to get a hug or kiss from them. When african guys approach them, they start forming "boss" which has made a friend of mine to be single so long. He's looking for a model to marry
I want that hot one boss please what is the total landing cost to Lagos so I can clear with IBL
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 3:01pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
You're getting it wrong.
It isn't that African men (and women) decided they want to marry the less attractive ones.

It is all about peace of mind and getting you papers "straight"
Let's all be honest, The easiest straight forward way to get Permanent residency is through family petition.

Most people don't have direct family members in the US willing to file for them, even if they are, it takes years

It isn't an easy task to find someone that genuinely wants to file a petition for you without hidden agenda.

"Fine face" and green card petition isn't always a good mix.

Thankfully, our African brothers (the really smart ones) are learning. Peace of mind, no drama, smooth petition process will help you get on your feet faster.

For someone to file a petition for you, they must show they earn enough to sponsor you.

Most "fine face" is just that, nothing else. You come from Naija on a visit visa and you're chasing "fine face" around, I am sorry for you grin grin grin

Nevertheless, don't bite the hand that feeds you. That "unattractive" lady that helped you out, don't disregard her.
You right.

I got my blue Passport through my Parents so I didn't really have to struggle for it.

But I can't just imagine being with someone I'm unattracted to for almost 5 years...

But at the end of the day you just gotta do what you gotta do...
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 3:12pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
You're getting it wrong.
It isn't that African men (and women) decided they want to marry the less attractive ones.

It is all about peace of mind and getting you papers "straight"
Let's all be honest, The easiest straight forward way to get Permanent residency is through family petition.

Most people don't have direct family members in the US willing to file for them, even if they are, it takes years

It isn't an easy task to find someone that genuinely wants to file a petition for you without hidden agenda.

"Fine face" and green card petition isn't always a good mix.

Thankfully, our African brothers (the really smart ones) are learning. Peace of mind, no drama, smooth petition process will help you get on your feet faster.

For someone to file a petition for you, they must show they earn enough to sponsor you.

Most "fine face" is just that, nothing else. You come from Naija on a visit visa and you're chasing "fine face" around, I am sorry for you grin grin grin

Nevertheless, don't bite the hand that feeds you. That "unattractive" lady that helped you out, don't disregard her.
I think it depends on the circumstances.

You just have to put yourself in the best position possible.

I have a friend both of us attended High School together but he came into the United States in 2011 while I came into the United States in 2012.

He came on an F-1 Student Visa and was able to find a Girlfriend on campus after 1 year in college.

He dropped out of school & they both moved in together & eventually got married.

It's been almost 7 years now & they're still together.

He even told me he will be filing for his citizenship this year and he is just waiting to save up enough money to pursue the application.

At the end of the day as long as you're sincere & committed with them most are willing to help.

But don't have a wife in Nigeria & start up lying to them inorder to get them to help you because if they eventually find out on their own sorry will be you name...
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 3:12pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
You right.

I got my blue Passport through my Parents so I didn't really have to struggle for it.

But I can't just imagine being with someone I'm unattracted to for almost 5 years...

But at the end of the day you just gotta do what you gotta do...
Lucky you. I wasn't born here. I don't have family here and about bringing my parent and siblings once I'm done with the oath ceremony.

Attraction is subjective. Some of these African men are attracted to patience, not being kicked out of the house they pay rent on, getting a good meal,nnot working like a donkey to loose all the money to your "fine face" madam and sleeping peacefully.

You are looking at the fine face and wowed while an ex somewhere sees the devil in plain flesh.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 3:17pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
Lucky you. I wasn't born here. I don't have family here and about bringing my parent and siblings once I'm done with the oath ceremony.

Attraction is subjective. Some of these African men are attracted to patience, not being kicked out of the house they pay rent on, getting a good meal,nnot working like a donkey to loose all the money to your "fine face" madam and sleeping peacefully.

You are looking at the fine face and wowed while an ex somewhere sees the devil in plain flesh.
True.

My overall aim wasn't to get a greencard maybe that explains why.

Finding someone in college was really easy. You just have to look at the right places & dig a little bit deeper.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet: 3:25pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
I think it depends on the circumstances.

You just have to put yourself in the best position possible.

I have a friend both of us attended High School together but he came into the United States in 2011 while I came into the United States in 2012.

He came on an F-1 Student Visa and was able to find a Girlfriend on campus after 1 year in college.

He dropped out of school & they both moved in together & eventually got married.

It's been almost 7 years now & they're still together.

He even told me he will be filing for his citizenship this year and he is just waiting to save up enough money to pursue the application.

At the end of the day as long as you're sincere & committed with them most are willing to help.

But don't have a wife in Nigeria & start up lying to them inorder to get them to help you because if they eventually find out on their own sorry will be you name...
How did you get it though your parents. Didn’t you come here on visa?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 3:32pm On Sep 24, 2018
Babyvet:
How did you get it though your parents. Didn’t you come here on visa?
I initial came on an F-1 Visa after High School then my Father filed for me while I was still in School.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet: 3:47pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
I initial came on an F-1 Visa after High School then my Father filed for me while I was still in School.
So how long did that take ? Didn’t you get a grrrm card first ?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 3:56pm On Sep 24, 2018
Babyvet:
So how long did that take ? Didn’t you get a grrrm card first ?
No, I didn't.

I bypassed the Green Card Process. I only filed an N-600 { Certificate of Citizenship} & after that I applied for a Passport since I was born a Derivative U.S. Citizen.

Even though I was born in Nigeria, my Dad was already a U.S. Citizen before I was born so I automatically acquired U.S. Citizenship at birth.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet: 3:58pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
No, I didn't.

I bypassed the Green Card Process. I only filed an N-600 { Certificate of Citizenship} & after that I applied for a Passport since I was born a Derivative U.S. Citizen.
How old were you when this happened?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Nobody: 4:01pm On Sep 24, 2018
stonemasonn:
nice one citizen Backfornow tongue

What was the criteria for choosing you?
Completely random to get the summons.
As far as being picked for the jury, we (the other jurors) were trying to figure this out
The only thing we could come up with was that we were not opinionated
Both sides want someone who is open minded and can possibly manipulate to their side.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 4:02pm On Sep 24, 2018
Babyvet:
How old were you when this happened?
Sorry but I didn't understand your question.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Nobody: 4:05pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
The video was funny.

But seriously speaking I wonder why many of these my African Brothers always end up with unattractive White Woman.

Could it be because of desparation to get green card?

I mean there are ton of Beautiful Ladies including Hot Single Moms both Black women & White women all over America who will be willing to assist them settle down permanently in the United States.

I mean are beautiful ladies all over the place including Atlanta, Miami, Los Angeles, New York City, Boston and Washington DC

Never understood why most African guys would choose the unattractive ones.
Beautiful women have options. And the ones who have something going for them in addition to beauty is going to be harder to get.

An attractive African or any immigrant with their papers already shouldn't have a problem getting someone in his league. Now keeping one is another problem all together.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 4:14pm On Sep 24, 2018
Backfornow:
Beautiful women have options. And the ones who have something going for them in addition to beauty is going to be harder to get.

An attractive African or any immigrant with their papers already shouldn't have a problem getting someone in his league. Now keeping one is another problem all together.
True.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by Babyvet: 4:22pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
Sorry but I didn't understand your question.
How are old were you when they filed for you?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 4:30pm On Sep 24, 2018
Babyvet:
How are old were you when they filed for you?
Around 18 years old.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 5:30pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
No, I didn't.

I bypassed the Green Card Process. I only filed an N-600 { Certificate of Citizenship} & after that I applied for a Passport since I was born a Derivative U.S. Citizen.

Even though I was born in Nigeria, my Dad was already a U.S. Citizen before I was born so I automatically acquired U.S. Citizenship at birth.
LUCAS99:
I initial came on an F-1 Visa after High School then my Father filed for me while I was still in School.
Hmmm

That doesn't make any sense to me. They won't even issue you an F1 if they find out you're a derivative and encourage you to apply for citizenship.

Except maybe your parent became a citizen during your F1 while you're still a minor (which doesn't seem to be the case)
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 5:41pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
Hmmm

That doesn't make any sense to me. They won't even issue you an F1 if they find out you're a derivative and encourage you to apply for citizenship.

Except maybe your parent became a citizen during your F1 while you're still a minor (which doesn't seem to be the case)
They embassy has no way to know since my parents never filed for a Report of birth abroad of a U.S. Citizen so the interview was strictly F-1.

If they had obtained the report then it would be a different scenario.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 5:54pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
They embassy has no way to know since my parents never filed for a Report of birth abroad of a U.S. Citizen so the interview was strictly F-1.

If they had obtained the report then it would be a different scenario.
I'm sorry. Not that I am trying to scrutinize your post. But something just weird.

Story sounds like your parent woke up someday and realized they were USC then need to file for you

Or you were lost child (which doesn't seem to be the case) and all of a suddenly renuited with your family

And in both instances, you won't skip green card since you're already 18 and older.

Your immigration history is so weird. Like UNBELIEVABLY weird.

F1 to USC.?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 5:58pm On Sep 24, 2018
View from my window overlooking Boston surrounding areas.

Time to check out soon.
Changed my mind about pic. Removed.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 5:58pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
I'm sorry. Not that I am trying to scrutinize your post. But something just weird.

Story sounds like your parent woke up someday and realized they were USC then need to file for you

Or you were lost child (which doesn't seem to be the case) and all of a suddenly renuited with your family

And in both instances, you won't skip green card since you're already 18 and older.

Your immigration history is so weird. Like UNBELIEVABLY weird.

F1 to USC.?
I just told you that if you were born in Nigeria & your parents were citizens at the time of birth then automatically you become a derivative citizen at birth.

So I went from F-1 to U.S. Citizen.

No Permanent Residency.

What part are you confused about?

OR

Do you need me to post a copy of my U.S. Passport?
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 6:04pm On Sep 24, 2018
LUCAS99:
I just told you that if you were born in Nigeria & your parents were citizens at the time of birth then automatically you become a derivative citizen at birth.

What part are you confused about?

OR

Do you need me to post a copy of my U.S. Passport?
Why would I wannna see your passport? WTF. Why would you even suggest that?

How, let's both sit down and analyze this.

Your parents were citizens, but you were born in Nigeria
First and foremost, they won't wait till you're 18 to apply for you passport or immigration papers

Under F1 Visa applications, it will ask you for your parents information as such, they won't issue you an F1 knowing you're a derivative citizen.

I am not saying you're lying bro but your story just don't make sense. And now you're getting all defensive. Like WTF..
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by lillaowow(m): 6:05pm On Sep 24, 2018
Also once you're over the age of 18, you don't get the derivative status. You however get the option of an I485 application for PR.
Re: American, US Based, And US Aspirant Derailer Thread by LUCAS99: 6:09pm On Sep 24, 2018
lillaowow:
Why would I wannna see your passport? WTF. Why would you even suggest that?

How, let's both sit down and analyze this.

Your parents were citizens, but you were born in Nigeria
First and foremost, they won't wait till you're 18 to apply for you passport or immigration papers

Under F1 Visa applications, it will ask you for your parents information as such, they won't issue you an F1 knowing you're a derivative citizen.

I am not saying you're lying bro but your story just don't make sense. And now you're getting all defensive. Like WTF..
I'm not getting all defensive.

I believe I have answered your question to the best of my ability.

My mum passed away when I was little & I didn't want to start explaining every little details of my life in a public forum.

Go read up on the Citizenship Act of 2001 and then come back and ask your questions.
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