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otipoju:
No dont go there...his son is not a bastard. He is responsible and did not deny his son and is proud of him.

Marriage is a choice just as not getting married is a choice. As long as you are taking care of your kids and their mother.

Even your bible allows men like David, Jacob, and others to have concubines..

My grouse witb Airforce01 is his childish display of irrelevant things. He needs to man up...he has a good heart nevertheless and is a responsible father.

Let us assume the child is a "bastard"
is it a crime to have a "bastard" or to be a "bastard"

It's only a social construct to stigmatize bastards, it's nothing to be stigmatized for really.

As long as the guy is taking care of his child and being a responsible dad, nothing is wrong.

Airforce, don't mind these people, be a good dad, and a role model too for him/her......

Leave all those people shouting bride price and all, if you want to marry her, fine, but don't feel obligated to marry her because you had a kid together, it will lead to a life of misery


I'm sure this baby will make you mature even faster

otipoju:
No dont go there...his son is not a bastard. He is responsible and did not deny his son and is proud of him.

Marriage is a choice just as not getting married is a choice. As long as you are taking care of your kids and their mother.

Even your bible allows men like David, Jacob, and others to have concubines..

My grouse witb Airforce01 is his childish display of irrelevant things. He needs to man up...he has a good heart nevertheless and is a responsible father.

Let us assume the child is a "bastard"
is it a crime to have a "bastard" or to be a "bastard"

It's only a social construct to stigmatize bastards, it's nothing to be stigmatized for really.

As long as the guy is taking care of his child and being a responsible dad, nothing is wrong.

Airforce01, don't mind these people, be a good dad, and a role model too for him/her......

Leave all those people shouting bride price and all, if you want to marry her, fine, but don't feel obligated to marry her because you had a kid together, it will lead to a life of misery


I'm sure this baby will make you mature even faster

Its only logical that you support a woman who has access to your bank account
The fear of your account manager is the beginning of wisdom

BlackAfrican:
When he was fvcking d girl he had no qualms... Now that she's delivered for him u helping the nigga to justify y he shouldn't do the right thing... I hail o

pls read b4 u comment... I didn't justify anything. I only saud he should stay away from REGISTRY and pre nup

itsmeurLady:
I will not mention names but if you really love your son and you don't want him to be called a bastard tomorrow , please go and pay the mother's bride price , at least for the sake of the son. Wat will it cost you? Don't let your son tomorrow feel depressed abt situation you could have handled. It's not my business but I just felt it's the best thing to do! Baby Mama is a sign of waywardness, stop letting these titles deceive you, pay her bride price ! Our indomie generation has been corrupted by the western world. I don't know why we don't copy the positive innovative sides of the western world , only the dark side is what Nigerians will find attractive and copy , *smh

Marriage is so sweet in the mouth of people, but when that child wakes up every morning to the sound of his parents raising their voices at each other, will you be there to reassure him that all will be well? Guys are advised to control where they insert their dick and using protection if need be but I don't advice two people getting married for the sake of a child but instead support financially and be there for the child.

BlackAfrican:
You have a bastard son and you're proud of it... This world should do and end quick...

common shut up ......all this cho cho cho....people ....what made his son a bastard? Go and help angel Michael blow trumpet since u are jobless.

otipoju:
Tomorrow is pregnant.

The important tbing is tbat he is taking care of his son and did not deny him.

I will rather my sister live with a man who makes her happy and does not guve her wahala than be married to a man who is troubling her every day.

Go to your bible, God said he gave David many wives and concubines .... but was angry that David decided to go and sleep with another mans wife. And killed him to cover his sin.

Having Concubines did not piss God off...stealing another mans property is what God detested.

In as much as I agree with what you said, the Bible reference side doesn't add up. Don't twist the Bible to suit your present situation. In the New Testament, what does Jesus say about marriage?

veykey:
In as much as I agree with what you said, the Bible reference side doesn't add up. Don't twist the Bible to suit your present situation. In the New Testament, what does Jesus say about marriage?

That angels do not marry in heaven.

That moses permitted you to marry out of the hardness of your hearts but it was not so in the beginning.

Meaning that Gods original intent for man was one man one wife...but since the flawed nature of mankind is to want more...we were allowed to be have more than one.

Its not the perfect will of God, but instead the permissive will of God.

otipoju:
That angels do not marry in heaven.

That moses permitted you to marry out of the hardness of your hearts but it was not so in the beginning.

Meaning that Gods original intent for man was one man one wife...but since the flawed nature of mankind is to want more...we were allowed to be have more than one.

Its not the perfect will of God, but instead the permissive will of God.

Thank you

BlackAfrican:
When it suits you you quote old testament scriptures... Oga tell me what Jesus teaches regarding this sort of thing... Nigga has been fornicating and the result is out... Instead of him to do the right thing and marry the lady properly you're here discouraging him and quoting old testament for me... Brother shift abeg

Let him who is without sin cast the first stone....that is what Jesus will have told you right now.

And bro... i dont quote old testament. I quote the bible.
I spent 4 years studying religion in the university.

Your pastors quote the so called Old testament when they want to justify tithes which is not found anywhere in the so called new testament.

Airforce01:
YES!
my son, Jayden, is just 3 months old

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