By Sunday Akanni Moshood

Many young people are always wondering if it's actually possible to successfully tame their sexual urges until they get into their lawfully-recognised marriage. In fact, many youngsters (especially unbelievers) have been wrongly made to believe that it is sorely impossible to remain chaste till marriage.

I will keep saying something anywhere. I'm a practical and living example. I'm also, like you, with healthy sexual hormones and urges, and I'm telling you truthfully that it's possible to live your life devoid of premarital sex, masturbation, pornography viewing and other dirty things.

This write-up is meant for those who beforehand, never believed it is actually possible to shun sexual pleasures outside marriage, as well as those who, despite their previous resolve not to commit sexual immoralities, keeps finding themselves in sexual sins.

Saying "No" to sexual immorality is not merely hinged on verbal expressions, but by practical actions. In the Bible, Joseph the son of Jacob said an actual 'No' to the sin of sexual immorality with Potiphar's wife by his actions. He fled the scene! (Genesis 39:12)

Saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality majorly involves two things. First, you must acknowledge that sexual immorality is something to be avoided primarily to honour God (your Creator) with your body.

You won't be saying an Actual 'No' to sexual immorality if the reason for your decision to remain a virgin is because you haven't seen 'a worthy guy' to give your virginity; or if you are simply scared of getting pregnant or picking an STD. This means you already committed these things in your heart. And additionally, if the only and major reason is that you desire your future husband to regard you as a 'chaste' person by presenting him your virginity on your wedding night, you are not saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality.

If your reason for not engaging in illicit sexual activities is not to honour God and His words, then it's still dangerous. First, you can as well be regarded as an immoral person in God's sight, because your motives are neither 'wholly holy' nor 'truly right'. Secondly, you are bound to eventually fall into sexual sins along the line, as you won't be able to key into God's Grace that will provide strength for you when temptation comes (because temptations must come)

So, the point is, to say an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immoralities, your major reason/purpose should be to honour God with your body, while other reasons should be secondary. When you choose to honour God, God will rise to provide for you all necessary help to remain in an honourable state.

Secondly, saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality mean you must always be alert to recognize and flee all manner of tempting appearances.

You don't just say "I don't want to engage in sexual immoralities" and then you relaxedly lower your guards, interacting and bonding with all manner of persons, attending all manner of social activities, functions and parties, surfing all manner of websites, watching all manner of movies, etc

So many people who initially made the decision to be sexually chaste eventually fell into sexual sins because they failed to become extremely wary of agents of sexual temptations.

Agents of sexual temptation are persons, things, places, circumstances, etc which satan has strategically put in place to lure you into sexual sins. To then say an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immoralities, don't get too close to everyone you meet. Choose your circle wisely and steer clear persons that can persuade/lure you into sexual sins.

Steer clear things that can powerfully ignite 'illicit' sexual urges and desire - those movies, songs, books, websites, etc. Additionally, don't get into places where you can be lured into sexual immorality - you shouldn't be found at night clubs, brothels and other places where sexual chastity isn't valued. Don't lose your guard when you are alone - especially in a closed place - with a member of the opposite sex.

God bless you

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God help me

ogajaki:
God help me

Amen. And us all

"She Promised To Share Her HIV With Over 50 Men Before She Die"

by Sunday Akanni Moshood

It's a natural and core characteristics of many humans to be selfish and self-centered. Many people out there have ruined their lives through their reckless lifestyles. However, they have sworn they won't go down alone, but that they will spread their misfortunes to various other lives too.

I cringed when I witnessed a case where a young lady made known her mischievous plans. According to her, her boyfriend had given her HIV. She then promised not to go down alone. She promised not to be the only youngster whose bright future would be cut short. She promised to share her HIV with over 50 men before she die!

How is she going to achieve this aim? Through sex of course! To achieve this aim, she definitely won't make sex difficult to get. Instead, she will go about luring men for sex, offering her body freely and easily to men!

Take Note: There are hundreds of ladies like that. Their lives have been ruined by STDs, and they've got an evil mission: I won't go down alone, I will share the virus with many others!

So, What Will A Wise Guy Do?

A wise guy will discipline himself and have sex only with his married wife till he die. By so doing, he isn't only obeying God's commandment about sex (which in itself brings a lot of blessings), but he is also saving himself from the risk of cutting short his life via few minutes pleasure.

Hey, you are not mere animals that can't control their urges. It is possible to put your body under control (I'm a living witness). There is more to life than sexual pleasures. Concentrate on various productive things/activities. Focus on activities that will propel you to invent something breathtaking. Write a bestseller, float a successful business, etc.

What Will A Wise Lady/Woman Do?

Ladies too are not left out. A wise lady won't spread her legs for just any man, except her married husband. At least, before wedding your husband, medical tests would have been conducted, and you know his statues.

Don't allow any guy not your husband have sex with you! What if that guy, or your so called boyfriend, had contracted HIV from one of those ladies bent on sharing their misfortunes through sex? What if that guy is even part of the "I must not go down alone" crew? Will you allow few minutes pleasure to ruin your bright future? Should STDs (and other negative stuffs associated with premarital and extra-marital sex) snatch your glorious life and future away from you? Think about your parents who suffered to nuture you so you take care of them latter in life. Think about the countless destinies attached to your life.

Please, don't trade your glorious future on the altar of sexual immorality

c

even those preaching are involved

B

Thanks for this wonderful message

Easier typed than done. The sin of the flesh is age long.

Some school of thought even say it is what made Lilith the first woman fall...

No act of immortality

God bless you.

Ie no easy oo

nymphomaniac:
Easier typed than done. The sin of the flesh is age long.

Some school of thought even say it is what made Lilith the first woman fall...

The message is not for people like you. It is for people that have genuinely in their hearts wish to stop fornication and adultery.

God help us

K

God have mercy on us all.

c

Good write up op, God bless you for this.

The system has been so orchestrated that it's almost impossible to escape the traps the devil's plans but with the help of the Holy Spirit and you being intentional, it's very possible.

Another useless post, who says NO to fucckk biko

Sheunma:
silver and gold i dont have but i give u what i do have, in the name of jesus christ, remove that iv line attached to your arm, leave the hospital and go home.

If u think you have seen it all, another issue will come up. Your own make me laugh almost with wu for body.

Amen! Its not by power nor by might but by the Spirit says the Lord. Make help up all.

Interesting15:
By Sunday Akanni Moshood

Many young people are always wondering if it's actually possible to successfully tame their sexual urges until they get into their lawfully-recognised marriage. In fact, many youngsters (especially unbelievers) have been wrongly made to believe that it is sorely impossible to remain chaste till marriage.

I will keep saying something anywhere. I'm a practical and living example. I'm also, like you, with healthy sexual hormones and urges, and I'm telling you truthfully that it's possible to live your life devoid of premarital sex, masturbation, pornography viewing and other dirty things.

This write-up is meant for those who beforehand, never believed it is actually possible to shun sexual pleasures outside marriage, as well as those who, despite their previous resolve not to commit sexual immoralities, keeps finding themselves in sexual sins.

Saying "No" to sexual immorality is not merely hinged on verbal expressions, but by practical actions. In the Bible, Joseph the son of Jacob said an actual 'No' to the sin of sexual immorality with Potiphar's wife by his actions. He fled the scene! (Genesis 39:12)

Saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality majorly involves two things. First, you must acknowledge that sexual immorality is something to be avoided primarily to honour God (your Creator) with your body.

You won't be saying an Actual 'No' to sexual immorality if the reason for your decision to remain a virgin is because you haven't seen 'a worthy guy' to give your virginity; or if you are simply scared of getting pregnant or picking an STD. This means you already committed these things in your heart. And additionally, if the only and major reason is that you desire your future husband to regard you as a 'chaste' person by presenting him your virginity on your wedding night, you are not saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality.

If your reason for not engaging in illicit sexual activities is not to honour God and His words, then it's still dangerous. First, you can as well be regarded as an immoral person in God's sight, because your motives are neither 'wholly holy' nor 'truly right'. Secondly, you are bound to eventually fall into sexual sins along the line, as you won't be able to key into God's Grace that will provide strength for you when temptation comes (because temptations must come)

So, the point is, to say an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immoralities, your major reason/purpose should be to honour God with your body, while other reasons should be secondary. When you choose to honour God, God will rise to provide for you all necessary help to remain in an honourable state.

Secondly, saying an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immorality mean you must always be alert to recognize and flee all manner of tempting appearances.

You don't just say "I don't want to engage in sexual immoralities" and then you relaxedly lower your guards, interacting and bonding with all manner of persons, attending all manner of social activities, functions and parties, surfing all manner of websites, watching all manner of movies, etc

So many people who initially made the decision to be sexually chaste eventually fell into sexual sins because they failed to become extremely wary of agents of sexual temptations.

Agents of sexual temptation are persons, things, places, circumstances, etc which satan has strategically put in place to lure you into sexual sins. To then say an ACTUAL 'No' to sexual immoralities, don't get too close to everyone you meet. Choose your circle wisely and steer clear persons that can persuade/lure you into sexual sins.

Steer clear things that can powerfully ignite 'illicit' sexual urges and desire - those movies, songs, books, websites, etc. Additionally, don't get into places where you can be lured into sexual immorality - you shouldn't be found at night clubs, brothels and other places where sexual chastity isn't valued. Don't lose your guard when you are alone - especially in a closed place - with a member of the opposite sex.

God bless you

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Thanks for sharing. The fact is, it has become extremely difficult to run away from the sources of the sexual temptations judging from the latest evolution in technology. Every kid has an access to smartphone. Even television programme display sexual contents in adverts.

I think the church should make concrete efforts in saving their followers from all manner of media.
The idiot above us is already displaying a sugar mummy with a tempting backyard.
Its a difficult world we found ourselves but God will surely save us.

even me de struggle to control it...God help me shaa

millomaniac:


The message is not for people like you. It is for people that have genuinely in their hearts wish to stop fornication and adultery.

bro... don't talk like this...I know most people that are willing... infact... they've already gone for baptism...but yet they still fall into sin...I know of a guy who's willing..loves God...like anytime he masturbates...he weeps bitterly...funny enough..he's a vocalist that whenever he sings... people fall under the anointing...so bks you've overcame through route A...it doesn't mean I'll also overcame through same route...we all just need the help of the Holy Spirit
have a blessed weekend bro...God bless



#spreadLoveAndPeace_NotWar

marshalcarter:

bro... don't talk like this...I know most people that are willing... infact... they've already gone for baptism...but yet they still fall into sin...I know of a guy who's willing..loves God...like anytime he masturbates...he weeps bitterly...funny enough..he's a vocalist that whenever he sings... people fall under the anointing...so bks you've overcame through route A...it doesn't mean I'll also overcame through same route...we all just need the help of the Holy Spirit
have a blessed weekend bro...God bless



#spreadLoveAndPeace_NotWar

There are Some folks here that are being used by the powers of darkness to sow seeds of doubt to people that are making a conscious effort to come to the light. Discouraging comments like that does not add any value or contribute to overcoming the stronghold of fornication therefore it and the author has no place in the message. I don't know if you are saying its OK to keep slipping back to that which you have promised not to do. If you are sir, its wrong. There are strong people as well whom have resolved as well to stop it and succeeded. People that want to be like those people are whom this message is for. And by the Grace of God they will overcome it.

nymphomaniac:
Easier typed than done. The sin of the flesh is age long.

Some school of thought even say it is what made Lilith the first woman fall...

The ear that listen's to the reproves of life, abides among the wise.
for waywardness of the inexperienced will kill them and the complacency of fools will destroy them.