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latsy:
Are you a weakling?
How can you not stay alone for 1 week when you are not a woman.

lolz..that guy matter tire me

bigtt76:
A whole professor with wife and children and to think they're also abroad you commit suicide what you want someone without job, wife or children to call his own to do? The man nor try shaaa

I also want to suspect he was poisoned

bro pls dont try the power of loneliness and depression it make you forget who you are,
what you have achieved and where you are going
all it make you remember is your lapses, things you regret doing and things you didnt achieve.
like my former boss he will never stay alone and always what to be happy so most times he his always in shop rite where he sees happy people
or have you not heard of people paying others just to keep them company and chit chatting always

ollah1:
He might have lost the love and trust his children had for him. Perhaps his wife has told the children several negative things about their father which made them evade the country entirely. This thought lead to depression and loneliness and the final straw(suicide).

R.I.P to the man.

You don't know a thing about depression. It's a medical condition associated with hormonal imbalance. Africans, as usual will try to put the blame on the wife. The wife has taught me in Mkar, she's an excellent person., who has suffered with the man beyond what can be imagined. Stop the blame stuff please.

ivolt:
Marriage is just a formality being married is the key.
I know a man who comes home once a year and spends about two weeks before leaving again.
He is married but living a bachelor's life. By the time the kids are grown, they will have no use
for him and will probably dump him.

No children raised together in love will abandon one parent for the other.
Even wife won't abandon a loving husband because of old age.

The lesson in this is that if a "married" man could be dumped, the baby daddies have no chance
at happiness in their old age.

What happens to the Catholic priests?

Or you think without a woman a man has no chance to be happy?

Or you think the woman is a robot who can't wake up one day and walk away?

Guy, you're in for a rude shock in life if you don't grow some balls and learn to enjoy your own company Humans are not like computers whose outcomes can be predicted

Ibegtodiffer:
You don't know a thing about depression. It's a medical condition associated with hormonal imbalance. Africans, as usual will try to put the blame on the wife. The wife has taught me in Mkar, she's an excellent person., who has suffered with the man beyond what can be imagined. Stop the blame stuff please.

Stop lecturing them.
They don't know that midlife crises and depression are 5 and 6.

Read they won't read even now that knowledge is closer to them than their clothes.

It is demonic. It happens when you allow the wrong thoughts into your heart.

bigtt76:
A whole professor with wife and children and to think they're also abroad you commit suicide what you want someone without job, wife or children to call his own to do? The man nor try shaaa

I also want to suspect he was poisoned

Not poisoned, just depressed.

bigtt76:
A whole professor with wife and children and to think they're also abroad you commit suicide what you want someone without job, wife or children to call his own to do? The man nor try shaaa

I also want to suspect he was poisoned

You obviously don't understand how depression works.

Cocao:
It is easy to make decisions today and forget that a time will come when all we will need is family.

That's why after every every, it is good for a man/woman to settle down and create strong family ties...

Because after chasing all the money and making it, you will need someone to spend it on or leave it for.

Don't wait too long.

I've seen many comments here. I've seen stupid comments, I've seen smart comments but, honestly, this is certainly one of the wisest comments I've seen here.

Thank you for not being a waste of my time.

maasoap:
This is not about wife and children working. This is about wife and children discarding and leaving him at that age to starting living on his own. Most Africans can't cope with loneliness, it runs contrary to our culture and practices.
One man one wife is not what it ought to be after all.

Yeaaaaaaa...

There is wisdom in your words.

Cocao:
It is easy to make decisions today and forget that a time will come when all we will need is family.

That's why after every every, it is good for a man/woman to settle down and create strong family ties...

Because after chasing all the money and making it, you will need someone to spend it on or leave it for.

Don't wait too long.

true talk

I only pitied his damned soul if the story is true

bigtt76:
A whole professor with wife and children and to think they're also abroad you commit suicide what you want someone without job, wife or children to call his own to do? The man nor try shaaa

I also want to suspect he was poisoned

I wonder o, professor that makes his cool cash commit suicide just like that.

Ibegtodiffer:
You don't know a thing about depression. It's a medical condition associated with hormonal imbalance. Africans, as usual will try to put the blame on the wife. The wife has taught me in Mkar, she's an excellent person., who has suffered with the man beyond what can be imagined. Stop the blame stuff please.

Don't make comprehension be your problem

OneManLegion:
I've seen many comments here. I've seen stupid comments, I've seen smart comments but, honestly, this is certainly one of the wisest comments I've seen here.

Thank you for not being a waste of my time.

Thank you....I was mostly advising myself too...

bigtt76:
A whole professor with wife and children and to think they're also abroad you commit suicide what you want someone without job, wife or children to call his own to do? The man nor try shaaa

I also want to suspect he was poisoned

hard to believe, they should investigate properly, Nigerian are known to cope with loneliness, am a case study.

nerorex10:
This simply tells one that you must crave for joy in whatever you do and also socialise and have reasonable fun that lifts ones spirit rather than dessociative lifestyle. [color=#990000][/color]

hmm word, u are talking to me.

deliveryboy:
For all those praying never to get married but have baby mama, loneliness at old age is sure bet.

Loneliness comes when the mind is not engaged
Broaden your horizon, explore, pick a skill, learn something, challenge yourself mentally and physically

Then you wouldn't even notice time pass by cause in this life there is so much to know and learn but little time to know and learn them

Cocao:
What am I saying, what are you saying?

..lol

cosmatika:
It only takes a man who live a sedentary lifestyle to be lonely. Men that drink beer in bars, smoke weed with guys in d hood, engage in a sports etc, don't feel lonely cos u ll every have companions from those places

Anthony Bourdain had all these and even more. So?

He was lonely in a world filled with activities. I hope he is no longer lonely, alone in the grace.

Newboss:
What happens to the Catholic priests?

Or you think without a woman a man has no chance to be happy?

Or you think the woman is a robot who can't wake up one day and walk away?

Guy, you're in for a rude shock in life if you don't grow some balls and learn to enjoy your own company Humans are not like computers whose outcomes can be predicted

Catholic priests have the god excuse? Do you have any?
Just like you can't grow balls to stop eating, you cannot grow balls to escape
the biological need of real human connection.
Your old drinking buddy won't come to your aid when you grow old because
they will be too busy with their family, you will be left alone with your bottles.
We can almost predict the risk of depression and suicide by the number of meaningful
connection a man has.

Once again no woman at an advanced age will ever walk away from a loving relationship.

cosmatika:
It only takes a man who live a sedentary lifestyle to be lonely. Men that drink beer in bars, smoke weed with guys in d hood, engage in a sports etc, don't feel lonely cos u ll every have companions from those places

Those are only useful when you are young.
By the time you clock 50, everything will change.