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Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Nobody: 8:40am On Oct 25, 2018
oloyeagbaakin:
Just once and I cleaned every mess
WTF how old are you ? Even precum gets people pregnant.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Oct 25, 2018
IamD18:
Just imagine the kind of irritating and disgusting comments coming from people above.

Stupid comments and emotional blackmailing mentalities from these dim-witted folks are the reason why ladies cook up pregnacy-story for a man and end up succeeding and getting away with it.

Her medical result and the date you slept with her didn't merge, and here are some fools neglecting that fact and concluding that she's pregnant for you.

Bruv, i'll advice you to take her to different hospitals to confirm the authenticity of that result. Plan for a DNA test, take care of her and the pregnancy, but before doing that, sign an agreement to be refunded if the DNA test reads otherwise.
God bless this man
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by baby124: 2:20pm On Oct 25, 2018
I can’t get past copulated grin. When you ask her for sex do you say, can I copulate with you? Or the last time we copulated, I really enjoyed myself grin grin grin
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by baby124: 2:22pm On Oct 25, 2018
See mumu OP, in this day and age you are having unprotected sex. Now you have gotten result you are crying like Egbere and trying to play smart. You are now a family man. Congratulations. If you have doubts you can wait for her to give birth and you do DNA test.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by victorian(f): 2:53pm On Oct 25, 2018
crackhaus:
This is how you should go about it:

If you're 90% sure it's NOT yours, sit her down and tell her exactly how you feel - let her know that despite your reservations, you're willing to wait it out and support her until the baby is born. You MUST also make it clear that once she has the baby, you're having DNA testing done to determine paternity and if the results show you're not the baby's daddy, you intend to take a walk right then & there and never have anything to do with her again.

See how she reacts.
She will still. Look at him straight in his eyes and say you are the father of this baby growing inside of me. I am not mistaken.

Even if she knows deep down, she may be lieing or confused who the dad is.

At least he will help on paying for ante natal and all the necessary things she needs to see the pregnancy through. And after 9months, if he wants to go for DNA test? No wahala. She will. Look for other ways to take care of the baby.

At least her breast milk is free.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by thorpido(m): 4:25pm On Oct 25, 2018
IamD18:
Just imagine the kind of irritating and disgusting comments coming from people above.

Stupid comments and emotional blackmailing mentalities from these dim-witted folks are the reason why ladies cook up pregnacy-story for a man and end up succeeding and getting away with it.

Her medical result and the date you slept with her didn't merge, and here are some fools neglecting that fact and concluding that she's pregnant for you.

Bruv, i'll advice you to take her to different hospitals to confirm the authenticity of that result. Plan for a DNA test, take care of her and the pregnancy, but before doing that, sign an agreement to be refunded if the DNA test reads otherwise.
You know nothing about scan results.
Don't be the fool here.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by armyofone(m): 5:37pm On Oct 25, 2018
They slept through human reproductive system in class grin

thorpido:
You know nothing about scan results.
Don't be the fool here.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by crackhaus: 7:06pm On Oct 25, 2018
victorian:
She will still. Look at him straight in his eyes and say you are the father of this baby growing inside of me. I am not mistaken.

Even if she knows deep down, she may be lieing or confused who the dad is.

At least he will help on paying for ante natal and all the necessary things she needs to see the pregnancy through. And after 9months, if he wants to go for DNA test? No wahala. She will. Look for other ways to take care of the baby.

At least her breast milk is free.
Let's hope to God she's not as deceptive as you.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by victorian(f): 7:28pm On Oct 25, 2018
crackhaus:
Let's hope to God she's not as deceptive as you.
Me ke? shocked


What have I done?
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Ranchhoddas: 8:57pm On Oct 25, 2018
IamD18:
Just imagine the kind of irritating and disgusting comments coming from people above.

Stupid comments and emotional blackmailing mentalities from these dim-witted folks are the reason why ladies cook up pregnacy-story for a man and end up succeeding and getting away with it.

Her medical result and the date you slept with her didn't merge, and here are some fools neglecting that fact and concluding that she's pregnant for you.

Bruv, i'll advice you to take her to different hospitals to confirm the authenticity of that result. Plan for a DNA test, take care of her and the pregnancy, but before doing that, sign an agreement to be refunded if the DNA test reads otherwise.
You should know by now that a vast majority of folks on Nairaland are reta.rds so responses like these should not surprise you.

On a lighter note, I doubt any woman will be able to make me responsible for a pregnancy that is not mine.

One look at the child and I will be able to tell whether it's mine or not.
I seem to possess an uncanny ability to detect resemblances.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 25, 2018
pcguru1:
WTF how old are you ? Even precum gets people pregnant.
Lmao.... reality
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Seahawk: 5:57am On Oct 26, 2018
Dumbass calling people retard.

undecided
Ranchhoddas:
You should know by now that a vast majority of folks on Nairaland are reta.rds so responses like these should not surprise you.

On a lighter note, I doubt any woman will be able to make me responsible for a pregnancy that is not mine.

One look at the child and I will be able to tell whether it's mine or not.
I seem to possess an uncanny ability to detect resemblances.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by NoToPile: 6:21am On Oct 26, 2018
Well what you are saying is that the scan is saying the pregnancy is reading 2 weeks ahead of when you slept with her. They mostly add around 2 weeks to the number of weeks pregnant to calculate pregnancy.

Theres a high possibility its yours( as long as you are the only one sleeping with her during that period)

Try and google on scan results
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by PMoTheGreat: 8:06am On Oct 26, 2018
Welcome to fatherhood bros.

This is the second reason why you should use condoms.

The first reason is the fact that your beloved country, Naija, has the second highest number of people with HIV.

In other words, if you dey suspect say person dey sleep around, why you come nak am with no raincoat like say you want die?
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Ranchhoddas: 8:41am On Oct 26, 2018
Seahawk:
Dumbass calling people retard.

undecided
One of the retar.ds just quoted me!
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by chocolatemom(f): 9:19am On Oct 26, 2018
oloyeagbaakin:
Hello nairalander a lady brought to me pregnancy with shady background how should I go about it, On the day we coupulated was on the 24th of June but the result of her scan is reading 8th of June. There is a strong indication on my mind that am not the owner of the pregnancy how can I go about it?
Hello oloye the pregnancy is 100% yours.you said the scan results gave you 8th June and you slept with her on the 24th of June. The 8 June from the scan means her last menstrual period(lmp) and the 24th that you slept with her was exactly the 16th day after her monthly flow which falls within her ovulation period if she's running a 28 or30 days cycle.so please stop confusing your self with the date from the scan the scan gave you her lmp and edd not the ovulation date and a woman gets pregnant only during her ovulation periods not her lmp.
Re: A Lady Brought Me A Pregnancy With Shady Background How Should I Go About It? by Nobody: 11:22am On Oct 26, 2018
Man up and take responsibility for your actions. grin
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