Goodtidies:
Good afternoon to u all. Please, kindly read and advice me on what to do. If am to follow my instinct or yield to my husband's. I beg u no insult.

Am 30 years old lady and also an expectant mum of triplets. We have been trying for the past 4 years of marriage and God finally bless us this year.

My problem now is, ever since I got pregnant things became so tough and difficult. Hubby business became tight that client no longer contact him. And I too could no longer work due to constant sickness and visit to hospital.

We have finished the money we saved for birth process for constant visiting hospital and for feeding. And hubby is losing it already. He is kind of frustrated, also do I.

As at this time 1:50pm which am typing I just took pap and stale moi moi to carry me till tomorrow afternoon again.

My EDD is close we have bought any baby things and i suggested to hubby last night to allow me go to brother house to spend the Xmas there so I can also have the opportunity to feed and to see if I will get help there he refused, saying that my brother is also managing and he don't want me to add to his burden.

Now, am thinking of disobeying him to go to my brother's house on his absent or I should stay here and die of this burden. Please, kindly share ur thought.

Eketem:
Why do Nigerians not do health insurance? With 20k - 50k insurance you are covered from antenatal to birth and even 6 weeks after in a standard hospital.

You cannot feed now, you will not be able to pay bills God forbid it is CS nko?

These marital counseling classes should guide intending couples on how to really plan and prepare for their future even on small income.

As for the current issue, I don't know.
I am guessing the aim is for people to feel empathy and contribute money, I expect resident investigators to come and dig in, my own is just to advise on getting insurance so people won't be begging for hospital bills

pacificman:


shut up stop talking like you are not a nigerian..if you have free health care why do you need insurance..blame the leaders of nigeria

Goodtidies:
My dear, u right about the insurance and counselling of a thing. But, pray not to be a victim of problems u can't explain. I don't need empathy or anything from u. I only pray for God open every close doors for us. Funding Ivf twice is not an easy journey. I believe in God whom I served. The money u think u can help me with today, people are dying and leaving theirs behind. But, here I am, alive. Glory to God

=Eketem post=73575571]Why do Nigerians not do health insurance? With 20k - 50k insurance you are covered from antenatal to birth and even 6 weeks after in a standard hospital.

You cannot feed now, you will not be able to pay bills God forbid it is CS nko?

These marital counseling classes should guide intending couples on how to really plan and prepare for their future even on small income.

As for the current issue, I don't know.
I am guessing the aim is for people to feel empathy and contribute money, I expect resident investigators to come and dig in, my own is just to advise on getting insurance so people won't be begging for hospital bills

Eketem:


There is no free health care anywhere, somebody somewhere is paying for it. It doesn't cost much to have insurance and avoid these embarrassing issues

Goodtidies:
Eketem, I don't understand why u r hurt and pained of my post? Who is cursing at u? Who is emotional blackmailing u? Can u remind me when I robbed or asked u for money

You know sometimes when u r favoured and lucky, u think others are lazy.

Calling on my God shouldn't be ur problem at all. Despite in tough times I still appreciate him cos he has done so much for me.

Goodtidies:
Good afternoon to u all. Please, kindly read and advice me on what to do. If am to follow my instinct or yield to my husband's. I beg u no insult.

Am 30 years old lady and also an expectant mum of triplets. We have been trying for the past 4 years of marriage and God finally bless us this year.

My problem now is, ever since I got pregnant things became so tough and difficult. Hubby business became tight that client no longer contact him. And I too could no longer work due to constant sickness and visit to hospital.

We have finished the money we saved for birth process for constant visiting hospital and for feeding. And hubby is losing it already. He is kind of frustrated, also do I.

As at this time 1:50pm which am typing I just took pap and stale moi moi to carry me till tomorrow afternoon again.

My EDD is close we have bought any baby things and i suggested to hubby last night to allow me go to brother house to spend the Xmas there so I can also have the opportunity to feed and to see if I will get help there he refused, saying that my brother is also managing and he don't want me to add to his burden.

Now, am thinking of disobeying him to go to my brother's house on his absent or I should stay here and die of this burden. Please, kindly share ur thought.

Goodtidies:
Eketem, I don't understand why u r hurt and pained of my post? Who is cursing at u? Who is emotional blackmailing u? Can u remind me when I robbed or asked u for money

You know sometimes when u r favoured and lucky, u think others are lazy.

Calling on my God shouldn't be ur problem at all. Despite in tough times I still appreciate him cos he has done so much for me.

pacificman:


dont people pay taxes in nigeria

Countries with universal health care include Austria, Belarus, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Luxembourg, Malta, Moldova, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Romania, Russia, Serbia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Turkey, Ukraine, and the United Kingdom.

so yes theres what we call free health care

Eketem:


I am not favored or lucky neither did I call you lazy I only gave advise that will help with medical bills and prevent a situation where you will be needing donations for bills. An insurance policy of 43, 000 saved me all this stress, it paid for antenatal and birth and visits after birth, it really helped me have peace in that area.

Insurance really helps if you calmly select a good policy and clear all blurred lines.

We all go through hard times but plans like this really help, at least if you had insurance you will not be worried about money for hospital bills.




These countries have health insurance Sir

tritritri:



Kindly share details of the insurance cor and name of pregnancy and how it works .i have friends this advice could help.

Eketem:


I am not favored or lucky neither did I call you lazy I only gave advise that will help with medical bills and prevent a situation where you will be needing donations for bills. An insurance policy of 43, 000 saved me all this stress, it paid for antenatal and birth and visits after birth, it really helped me have peace in that area.

Insurance really helps if you calmly select a good policy and clear all blurred lines.

We all go through hard times but plans like this really help, at least if you had insurance you will not be worried about money for hospital bills.




These countries have health insurance Sir

ifyalways:


The real purpose of this thread after the graphic picture of your last meal and all is

To stay, starve in obedience or to travel to your brothers place?

Akuko n'egwu Mike Ejeagha

Eketem:


I am not favored or lucky neither did I call you lazy I only gave advise that will help with medical bills and prevent a situation where you will be needing donations for bills. An insurance policy of 43, 000 saved me all this stress, it paid for antenatal and birth and visits after birth, it really helped me have peace in that area.

Insurance really helps if you calmly select a good policy and clear all blurred lines.

We all go through hard times but plans like this really help, at least if you had insurance you will not be worried about money for hospital bills.




These countries have health insurance Sir

boldconfidence:


@eketem, could you please mention the insurance company and the particular policy. I will really appreciate your response

Eketem:


Check reliance HMO, prohealth, prepaidmedicare google them

pacificman:


dont people pay taxes in nigeria

Countries with universal health care include Austria, Belarus, Croatia, Czech Republic, Denmark, Finland, France, Germany, Greece, Iceland, Ireland, Italy, Luxembourg, Malta, Moldova, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, Romania, Russia, Serbia, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Turkey, Ukraine, and the United Kingdom.

so yes theres what we call free health care

Mindfulness:


Eketem is right. Health care is financed with health care insurance payments not taxes. Not only were you wrong, you even chose to impolitely rant in your complete ignorance.

pacificman:


shut up boy and run far away from here

Mindfulness:


Come again, how do developed nations finance their health care system?

pacificman:

dude..am telling you countries have free health care for their citizens and no need of insurance and do you think insurance covers all medical issues??

Mindfulness:


Yes, the health insurance covers all costs. Please, stop spewing nonsense.

pacificman:



so those poor people that go to general hospital lagos have health insurance rightdude you are sick and you need to see a doctor


Where Can You Find Free Healthcare?

According to the STC, all but 43 countries in the world offer free healthcare. However, the standards among these countries can vary widely. The list includes everyone from Norway, one of the healthiest countries in the world and the first country in the world to introduce free healthcare in 1912, to Yemen where raging conflict has made healthcare from international relief agencies nearly impossible to access.

pacificman:

case closed...i just knocked you out boy!!

pacificman:

you are too stupid to read what you posted..in short you knocked yourself out boy