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Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 9:48pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
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Re: Everyone Blames Me by mrphysics(m): 9:50pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Honestly I didn't understand the entire point of this thread. I just knew your mum treated you badly. When a lady experiences divorce or death of husband at an early stage of marriage and especially when kids are still young, it affects her emotionally and psychologically. Some people lose hope and sometimes those children looks like source of problem to them. Seeing what they will pass through before getting them to be independent. Most ladies doesn't know how to manage this period of their life and you the daughter must understand and bear with them. Kindly forgive her, it will increase your life span by so doing. |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nobody: 9:51pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Get off Nairaland, you need professional therapy. 1 Like |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by LuciferRedeemer: 9:52pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Nonye1234: Go straight to the point. When are you dropping your account number for "help"? 2 Likes
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Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 9:53pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Criis: please, your words are sharp |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Ranchhoddas: 9:53pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
I believe that the solution to every problem is in a book somewhere.
I recommend "The Science of Being in 27 lessons" by Eugene Fersen. |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 9:54pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
LuciferRedeemer:lol 1 Like |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
I didn't read your epistle but you are to be blamed. 1 Like |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 9:54pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Ranchhoddas: thank you |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by daben1(m): 9:59pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
you were just introducing and describing yourself, can you summarize? |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nobody: 10:16pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Well your mom caused it... So decide on what to do and be firm on your decision, don't be intimidated by anyone, you have your life to live, live happy, forget the past and look with straight eyes into the future! You didn't kill her husband, you've come your own life and you are winning, so stay strong! |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nobody: 10:35pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Sorry dear. You've been through a lot of psychological trauma. I can relate. But you can't get any help or reasonable advice here on nairaland. Only insults, criticism and ridicule. This forum is more of a playground. I'd suggest you go to Quora. Open an account and describe your situation in clear English. A lot of professionals are there to advise you. 5 Likes |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by mikejj(m): 10:41pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
girl life is a decision..you need to train your mind from the grassroot.and you cant do this alone get a life coach...sorry dear. 1 Like |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by ikcid: 11:10pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
... One way to get more of what you need in life is to avoid people who bring you down. 2 Likes
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Re: Everyone Blames Me by spiralwedge(m): 11:43pm On Dec 13, 2018 |
Nonye1234, pls how old are you? |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by mankettle(m): 12:49am On Dec 14, 2018 |
seems you have some self esteem issues caused by what you experienced growing up. you do not need anybody to vaildate or confirm who you are. you just need to be more confident and grow a tough skin. if you do not like your surroundings(Ps if you have a good job etc) move out or seek a transfer and develop yourself. one cannot continue to stay in the shadow of ones past. finally get professional help. make research on emotional intelligence too. it will help. 2 Likes |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by czarina(f): 12:57am On Dec 14, 2018 |
You know like someone said, you need professional help and if you're hoping to get that virtually, Nairaland is the wrong place for that, go somewhere like Reddit or Quora. But try to be more articulate. Nairaland is a place you bring conjectures on wide pu**y and boyfriend's smelly boxers. Sorry hun. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Eketem: 3:21am On Dec 14, 2018 |
You have to understand that your mother has issues not you, mentally remove yourself from that situation. As for the abuse by your principal google project alert and send them a message reporting it, they will take it up and believe me your principal will be stopped from abusing others too. Your mother like so many others get away with abuse because people wrongly believe a mother is always right and perfect plus being a widow makes her an extra victim. Some of us faced worse, remove yourself emotionally from her grip stop expecting love or anything and stand up for yourself, when you get older she will use tears to be manipulating you reporting you everywhere don't fall for it, if she is serious she will apologise for the trauma she put you through before you genuinely forgive her |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by pryme(m): 3:04pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Nonye1234: Before I say anything, can you afford to move out from your mum's house? |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:41pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
donproject: your reason? |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:42pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Tosinex: thanks a lot |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:43pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
pryme: no,maybe when I serve |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:46pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Eketem: she doesn't look like shell say sorry but I'll pray I have forgiven her though |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:49pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Eketem: she doesn't look like shell say sorry but I'll pray |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by pryme(m): 7:51pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Nonye1234: Your number one priority should be to move out, don't leave this for a man that will come and marry you. You will never start living life as long as you stay with the your mother. You have to leave, when you do, heal your self, then come back and face your mum. Let her know all the pain she had caused you, pour out your hate or anger, cos as far as some of these parents are concerned, they believe they are the best parent a child could have, even when they make you feel worthless. And strive to be nothing like your mother, don't let your kids go through the same trauma, that cycle should end with you. |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Eketem: 7:53pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Nonye1234: That sorry is mostly in the far future when she is old and needs you |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by Nonye1234: 7:56pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
pryme: thank you so much |
Re: Everyone Blames Me by pryme(m): 7:58pm On Dec 14, 2018 |
Nonye1234: You are welcome. |
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