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My name is shantel(real name withheld) and I am a graduate. I have this guy John (real name withheld) that I met way back in 2012 and we dated. He left the country after dating him for like 6 months. We established communication after some months.
Then I got admission the following year and met another guy James (real name withheld), he was my classmate and he used to help me with classwork and from there we started dating. He changed me so much that I started improving in my academics. He was always there for me even though I was still communicating with my ex who stays outside Nigeria. We have our ups and downs but we still find ourselves together. With his help I graduated as one of the best in my department and also took and passed a professional examination.
The other guy was sending me money sometimes during my time in school but he was not paying my school fees.
Now after our graduation, John Proposed marriage to me and wanted me to come over to his base in Canada. I accepted and he started processing my papers. Co jointly James also proposed to marry me too but I've gone deep work the Visa processing with John and he has committed so much money to it up to three million. Both loves me dearly but I feel free with John my classmate as he understands me better. And truly I love James my former classmate more but I feel am indebted to John. I don't know if it's distance, maybe it's because am always with him.
Am Just confused and in need of an advice. Please no insult..

Just marry me and the case will be settled

My dear

All I will say is that,follow your heart
Don't just think you are indebted to anyone since he did you a favour or something
Its not ur fault that things could not work out well the way it ought too...

Ur happiness is all that matters... my dear
whatever gives you happiness and peace is all that matters...

MsAnne:
My dear

All I will say is that,follow your heart
Don't just think you are indebted to anyone since he did you a favour or something
Its not ur fault that things could not work out well the way it ought too...

Ur happiness is all that matters... my dear
whatever gives you happiness and peace is all that matters...

Thank you very much

[color=#CD1076]If only you were faithful to John who's struggling outside the country to make things better for you, you wouldn't have been having this headache and troubled mind, but you choose to be ungrateful and dance nakeed in James bed.

Learn to stay faithful if eventually the poor dude pick you as a wife.[/color]

Go abroad, gather enough money and pay off your former classmate for all his efforts. Then concentrate solely on your abroad guy. Shikena

Pay James by giving him one night stand sex then move on with John.