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Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Interesting15: 6:53am On Feb 10, 2019
by Sunday Akanni Moshood

I will try to be as brief as possible.

Now, due to personal reasons, I'm not in the habit of digging for the 'true' genesis of Valentine's Day. However, I've come to realized that in the human world, Valentine's Day is a day synonymous with Love (the 'human-kind' of love). I used those words because many humans believe already that love must be inside the same vehicle with sex (which means, the 'human-kind of Love' is not love in it actual self, but Lust, Infatuation, and anything negative you can think of)

It's a norm already for people to have sex on Valentine's Day as they believe the celebration isn't complete (or classic) without sex. However, wisdom demands that we should be wary of the direction of the crowd, because the crowd can be wrong - and it is always fatal when the crowd is wrongly heading towards a wrong direction (because it means more lives would be ruined).

And so, it is quite nice to have a curiosity that seeks to know/determine if the culture of the crowd is right or wrong, healthy or harmful. The point here is, despite that almost everyone sees sex on Valentine's Day as quite normal, we are wise if we are bent on determining its rightness or wrongness.

I promised to be brief earlier, so, let me go straight to the point. If you must have sex on Valentine's Day, ensure you only have the 'Right Type of Sex'. Yeah, don't be surprised. There is a kind of sex that is right and healthy, and there are other ones that are wrong and harmful. Let me confidently say here that the 'Right Type of Sex' is sexual pleasure shared between a married man and his wife - any other thing is 'perfectly wrong'.

And why am I so sure of all these? Number 1, because that's what God told me in His Word, and I'm confident that God can never be wrong. God made sex, and being the Manufacturer, He is in the best position to tell us how to approach sex. And what He said is that He made sex to achieve certain divine purposes between a legally married man and his female wife inside the safe confines of their marriage institution - and any other contrary thing is a sin, harmful, and will bring forth fatal fruits.

Number 2, considering the effects that follows sex outside marriage, it is simple to identify what is right and what is wrong. Yeah, it is actually simple. You know, deep down within them, those engaging in premarital/extramarital sex are aware of the degree of it wrongness. The issue is, they intentionally allowed their urges and quest for pleasure to becloud their reasoning. And that's why those that engages in illicit sexual activities MUST always do it in secret, behind tightly closed doors. They can't flaunt the fruits with pride like a married couple would. Even the most hardened atheist will hide their illicit sexual activities from their married spouses - deep down, humans can identify rightness and wrongness. Then, we can't ignore the repercussions that follows: Physical Damages, Emotional Damages, Spiritual Damages and even Societal Damages.

So, despite being the popular norm, should you have sex on Valentine's Day (and beyond Valentine's Day)?

Answer: NO - If you are unmarried and won't share the pleasure with your married spouse.

Why? Apart from the fact that it is a sin against the Almighty God, also think about the terrible repercussions. The few-minute pleasure can ruin your life forever!

You can contract a fatal sexual virus (condoms won't always save you) that will bring an end to your great dreams, goals and aspirations. You can bring forth an "unwanted pregnancy" that will attract disgrace to you and your family (condoms and pills are not 100% effective). By attempting to abort the pregnancy, implications might arise, leading to premature death, or damage of the womb and becoming barren forever.

In fact, your sex partner might be a terrible person with a deadly motive to drug you, rape you and make a video of your unclothedness in your unconscious state. The few-minute pleasure is not worth it at all! Flee sexual immoralities!

God bless you

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by hakeem4(m): 6:58am On Feb 10, 2019
I still want to know what is really sacred about this sex you’re making it look like a taboo

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by MJBOLT: 7:21am On Feb 10, 2019
is it your sex?

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Joshmodest(m): 7:42am On Feb 10, 2019
This Guy is anti- sex , especially pre marital sex , every sunday , steadily kicking against sex....bro I feel u , if u don't like it or find it uninteresting....keep it to yourself and don't spoil some people's fun Biko !!

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Nobody: 7:59am On Feb 10, 2019
The hype about Valentine day and sex,
some ignorant girls will lose their virginity that day.
It is a circle that will keep happening.

Assuming I was God, I will give everyone their sex organ on their wedding night.


Modified: Nobody should quote me again, go and have ur sex and leave my comment alone !

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Mariangeles(f): 8:03am On Feb 10, 2019
chivera018:
The hype about Valentine day and sex,
some ignorant girls will lose their virginity that day.
It is a circle that will keep happening.

Assuming I was God, I will give everyone their sex organ on their wedding night.
Hahahahahaha grin

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by CAPSLOCKED: 8:37am On Feb 10, 2019
chivera018:
The hype about Valentine day and sex,
some ignorant girls will lose their virginity that day.
It is a circle that will keep happening.

Assuming I was God, I will give everyone their sex organ on their wedding night.

SO PEOPLE THAT DON'T WED ACCORDING TO YOUR GOD'S PLANS WON'T RECEIVE SEX ORGANS...
THERE WAS NO WEDDING BETWEEN ADAM AND EVE. IF YOU WERE GOD AS YOU SAID, THERE WON'T BE CAIN AND ABEL AND THE EARLY MEN, AND YOU.


WHAT ABOUT ANIMALS THAT DON'T WED, HOW WOULD THEY REPRODUCE?
BECAUSE WE HUMANS ARE INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO BUILD STRUCTURES, INVENT MACHINES AND RELIGIONS WE THINK WE'RE MORE THAN THE STREET DUSTBIN RAT.
WE'RE NOT TOO DIFFERENT. WE'RE JUST A HIGHER CATEGORY OF ORGANIZED ANIMALS THAT LIKE TO MAKE UP THINGS AS WE GO SIMPLY BECAUSE WE'RE CAPABLE OF IT.
SEX OR NO SEX, YOUR DEATH IS JUST AS SIGNIFICANT AS THE DEATH OF A DUSTBIN RAT. YOU BECOME ORGANIC MATTER, NOTHING MORE.


IMAGINE THERE ARE NO SEX ORGANS PRIOR TO MARRIAGE. THAT MEANS WE WON'T BE ABLE TO PEE, AND WOMEN WOULD MENSTRUATE THROUGH THEIR HEADS. grin

PEOPLE DON'T THINK BEFORE THEY SAY THINGS.
OKAY, IF WE DIVORCE AFTER MARRIAGE, GOD WILL THEN TAKE BACK OUR SEX ORGANS??

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:47am On Feb 10, 2019
Answer: NO - If you are unmarried and won't share the pleasure with your married spouse. 

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by helinues: 8:47am On Feb 10, 2019
We from Sirius A never heard the word ' Sex ' before.

Is it a career or a food?

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by OboOlora(f): 8:47am On Feb 10, 2019
Amawarogo ooooo
Ori awon eeyan ti waa buru ni Nairaland yi o

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Nobody: 8:48am On Feb 10, 2019
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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by JessetariahMD(m): 8:48am On Feb 10, 2019
Who you dey ask
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Bbystts: 8:48am On Feb 10, 2019
post=75584958:
NO, DON'T
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Olutola88(m): 8:48am On Feb 10, 2019
An epistle is OP's way of being brief. If u no com dey brief nko? Your write up for long like modern Biology.

He said people have wrong sex in tightly closed doors, abeg na for express road married ones dey do am?

The funny thing na say this OP fit dey do wetin e dey say make we no do

OP say make una stop pre and extramarital sex o. Wetin una sef dey enjoy for that thing? Lol

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by NCANTaskForce: 8:48am On Feb 10, 2019
shocked

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by freemanbubble: 8:49am On Feb 10, 2019
Sex is the sweetest thing on earth especially that moment of orgasm
Women orgasm is the sweetest

This one that our life on earth is not guaranteed
So why should we be scared of contacting sexual virus

When they say for every day we live we are faced with more than a hundred ways to die definitely sexual virus is among

So shut da fuckkkk up

Bang a lady and as a lady get banged

It is fun and sweet.

Sexual virus, accident, the ship when you enter capsize, the train derail, police shoot you, your building collapse, your plane crash
All die na die

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by HaryoBamex(m): 8:49am On Feb 10, 2019
what else do you now want to have b4
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by sammyuche(m): 8:50am On Feb 10, 2019
No
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by jesvic91(m): 8:50am On Feb 10, 2019
Sex! sex!! sex!!! That's what we Nigerians know

Have you tried eating bread and coconut??

Then you'll know sex is overrated !!

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by MezieFresh: 8:50am On Feb 10, 2019
shocked...

Can concentrate on more vital issues.... Biko! undecided

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Nbote(m): 8:51am On Feb 10, 2019
No... Have sense
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Jeromejnr(m): 8:51am On Feb 10, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


SO PEOPLE THAT DON'T WED ACCORDING TO YOUR GOD'S PLANS WON'T RECEIVE SEX ORGANS...
THERE WAS NO WEDDING BETWEEN ADAM AND EVE. IF YOU WERE GOD AS YOU SAID, THERE WON'T BE CAIN AND ABEL AND THE EARLY MEN, AND YOU.


WHAT ABOUT ANIMALS THAT DON'T WED, HOW WOULD THEY REPRODUCE?
BECAUSE WE HUMANS ARE INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO BUILD STRUCTURES, INVENT MACHINES AND RELIGIONS WE THINK WE'RE MORE THAN THE STREET DUSTBIN RAT.
WE'RE NOT TOO DIFFERENT. WE'RE JUST A HIGHER CATEGORY OF ORGANIZED ANIMALS THAT LIKE TO MAKE UP THINGS AS WE GO SIMPLY BECAUSE WE'RE CAPABLE OF IT.
SEX OR NO SEX, YOUR DEATH IS JUST AS SIGNIFICANT AS THE DEATH OF A DUSTBIN RAT. YOU BECOME ORGANIC MATTER, NOTHING MORE.

So much ignorance in one comment.

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Nobody: 8:52am On Feb 10, 2019
Should u cabash on vals day?

I'll find you and kill you if u don't smiley smiley

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Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by internetservice: 8:53am On Feb 10, 2019
funny story
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by INTEGRITYA1(m): 8:53am On Feb 10, 2019
That's strong question.
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Biglittlelois(f): 8:54am On Feb 10, 2019
No comment.
Re: Should I Have Sex On Valentine's Day? by Nobody: 8:54am On Feb 10, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


SO PEOPLE THAT DON'T WED ACCORDING TO YOUR GOD'S PLANS WON'T RECEIVE SEX ORGANS...
THERE WAS NO WEDDING BETWEEN ADAM AND EVE. IF YOU WERE GOD AS YOU SAID, THERE WON'T BE CAIN AND ABEL AND THE EARLY MEN, AND YOU.


WHAT ABOUT ANIMALS THAT DON'T WED, HOW WOULD THEY REPRODUCE?
BECAUSE WE HUMANS ARE INTELLIGENT ENOUGH TO BUILD STRUCTURES, INVENT MACHINES AND RELIGIONS WE THINK WE'RE MORE THAN THE STREET DUSTBIN RAT.
WE'RE NOT TOO DIFFERENT. WE'RE JUST A HIGHER CATEGORY OF ORGANIZED ANIMALS THAT LIKE TO MAKE UP THINGS AS WE GO SIMPLY BECAUSE WE'RE CAPABLE OF IT.
SEX OR NO SEX, YOUR DEATH IS JUST AS SIGNIFICANT AS THE DEATH OF A DUSTBIN RAT. YOU BECOME ORGANIC MATTER, NOTHING MORE.
Better carry your argument to ur follow atheist, I don't have time for any stupid argument this morning.
Don't try to force your opinion down my throat, leave me alone with my opinion.

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