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rentAcock:
Says the woman squatting in an uncompleted building as seen on her dp.

peacettw:
Sadly, most females feel this same way and it portrays a very poor sense of self. I was once a victim too and when I didn't get the usual compliments, my day was ruined. No one should live that way and in truth if you are unlucky to have an emotionally abusive spouse who understands that you thrive on this validation to function daily, then you are in for it.

With age and maturity, I learnt that the only opinion that truly matters was mine and God's. One's self esteem is very important to be left to the whims of unstable external factors. Now, I don't care what any man, woman or child thinks about my looks nor anything for that matter. I simply do me and what I believe is right and just and if you don't like it, well, tough.

Numlock:
I know you're lying but continue.
The issue is that you don't let it bother you too much not that you don't care about what any man or woman thinks about your look.

rentAcock:
Says the woman squatting in an uncompleted building as seen on her dp.

peacettw:
Hahaha. Let me put it in a way that you will comprehend easily. If you don't get any "likes" on Naira land, does it make you feel bad? If Yes, then ignore my post since you still have a long way to go. But if No, then we are on the same page but mine is on a much bigger scale. You don't need people to feel good. Once you get to that level of attainment, then you are truly free.

Numlock:
Madam it has nothing to with likes, seun is not paying anybody for likes here.

Well I don't believe you, you don't have to reply me if you don't agree with me,all I know is that every woman needs that validation, some just get to the point where they don't really get bothered about it but still crave for it but if you say you don't care then that's a big lie.

sommy03:
Wouldn't it be nice if you went back to your baby Papa and stop being single Mama?

oriewanbe:
Who told you you are beautiful?

Onyi22:
Above all my sister, marry a rich guy ooo..
Don't worry the type of guys we have on this forum.....

peacettw:
Sadly, most females feel this same way and it portrays a very poor sense of self. I was once a victim too and when I didn't get the usual compliments, my day was ruined. No one should live that way and in truth if you are unlucky to have an emotionally abusive spouse who understands that you thrive on this validation to function daily, then you are in for it.

With age and maturity, I learnt that the only opinion that truly matters was mine and God's. One's self esteem is very important to be left to the whims of unstable external factors. Now, I don't care what any man, woman or child thinks about my looks nor anything for that matter. I simply do me and what I believe is right and just and if you don't like it, well, tough.

peacettw:
If that makes you feel better then I won't argue with you. But to think that All WOMEN crave for compliments of no financial value whatsoever, to survive is just pushing it.

rentAcock:
Says the woman squatting in an uncompleted building as seen on her dp.

peacettw:
Sadly, most females feel this same way and it portrays a very poor sense of self. I was once a victim too and when I didn't get the usual compliments, my day was ruined. No one should live that way and in truth if you are unlucky to have an emotionally abusive spouse who understands that you thrive on this validation to function daily, then you are in for it.

With age and maturity, I learnt that the only opinion that truly matters was mine and God's. One's self esteem is very important to be left to the whims of unstable external factors. Now, I don't care what any man, woman or child thinks about my looks nor anything for that matter. I simply do me and what I believe is right and just and if you don't like it, well, tough.

peacettw:
Hahaha. Let me put it in a way that you will comprehend easily. If you don't get any "likes" on Naira land, does it make you feel bad? If Yes, then ignore my post since you still have a long way to go. But if No, then we are on the same page but mine is on a much bigger scale. You don't need people to feel good. Once you get to that level of attainment, then you are truly free.

Shortyy:
I'd be worried too dearie

peacettw:
Sadly, most females feel this same way and it portrays a very poor sense of self. I was once a victim too and when I didn't get the usual compliments, my day was ruined. No one should live that way and in truth if you are unlucky to have an emotionally abusive spouse who understands that you thrive on this validation to function daily, then you are in for it.

With age and maturity, I learnt that the only opinion that truly matters was mine and God's. One's self esteem is very important to be left to the whims of unstable external factors. Now, I don't care what any man, woman or child thinks about my looks nor anything for that matter. I simply do me and what I believe is right and just and if you don't like it, well, tough.

lefulefu:
thats a guy using dat moniker bros

dachilino:
Uche Elendu who in a new interview stated that she is will be worried if men don’t make passes at me, disclosed that she is willing to give marriage a try again. 

The single mother in the interview with Sunday Scoop disclosed she learnt from her first marriage to never be in a hurry, and further added that she is not in need of male attention. Uche Elendu said; 

“Of course, I am a very beautiful woman and I should get passes. If nobody makes a pass at me, then I’d be worried. But as a Christian, I do things right. I am mature enough to control things and make the right decisions.

“I am definitely willing to give marriage another shot. From my first marriage, I learnt not to be in a hurry to do anything. Don’t be in a haste to jump into marriage; you should really take your time to make sure that you’re with the right person and you’re both compatible. I got married to a very wonderful man but I guess we were not compatible. Don’t just get married because everybody else is doing that, or based on a person’s good looks and money.

“Marriage is not friendship or courtship; it is a serious business. You also have to pray about it and that’s one of the mistakes I made because I didn’t pray about my marriage. When problems arise in your marriage, you should be able to endure. I guess I was always too quick to act. Give God a chance in your marriage.”


https://unclesuru.com/2019/02/17/id-be-worried-if-men-dont-make-passes-at-me-uche-elendu/

dachilino:
Uche Elendu who in a new interview stated that she is will be worried if men don’t make passes at me, disclosed that she is willing to give marriage a try again. 

The single mother in the interview with Sunday Scoop disclosed she learnt from her first marriage to never be in a hurry, and further added that she is not in need of male attention. Uche Elendu said; 

“Of course, I am a very beautiful woman and I should get passes. If nobody makes a pass at me, then I’d be worried. But as a Christian, I do things right. I am mature enough to control things and make the right decisions.

“I am definitely willing to give marriage another shot. From my first marriage, I learnt not to be in a hurry to do anything. Don’t be in a haste to jump into marriage; you should really take your time to make sure that you’re with the right person and you’re both compatible. I got married to a very wonderful man but I guess we were not compatible. Don’t just get married because everybody else is doing that, or based on a person’s good looks and money.

“Marriage is not friendship or courtship; it is a serious business. You also have to pray about it and that’s one of the mistakes I made because I didn’t pray about my marriage. When problems arise in your marriage, you should be able to endure. I guess I was always too quick to act. Give God a chance in your marriage.”


https://unclesuru.com/2019/02/17/id-be-worried-if-men-dont-make-passes-at-me-uche-elendu/