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Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by premium9ja(m): 9:45am On Mar 18, 2019 |
Famed Gospel singer & Worship leader Nathaniel Bassey took to his Instagram page to share his relationship story. He titled "From Heartbreak To Praisebreak". It is an amazing and educative experience post that you will learn a lot from. Read Below; I have shared the story of one of the toughest times I experienced. However, one which led to meeting my wonderful wife. I hope these tips help you if you are in a similar situation. A Heartbreak can become one of the most powerful forces of change in your life. I got a call from my ex saying “This Thing is over.” Now this was tough. Especially coming from someone I thought could worship the very ground I walk on. At least so I thought. I never felt a pain that sore in my whole life. I mean, I’ve lost some loved ones, but this pain was in a class of its own. All efforts to get her to talk failed. So I prayed, and was convinced I had to move on.So I went through the following process. 1. I made sure I experienced healing in GOD’s presence. You see, many times people don’t get healed before they jump into another relationship. I made up my mind not to use someone as my temporal pain reliever. So I spent time Worshipping, and just shedding the tears before my Father in heaven. Then I was led to listen to some sermons which spoke to my situation. This process led to the next. 2. The more I spent time with God, The easier it was to FORGIVE! People! You’ve got to FOOOOORRRRGIVE. This isn’t just for your “heartbreaker.” It’s more for YOU! You will definitely hurt someone if you jump into another relationship without experiencing and giving forgiveness. 3. Get lost in GOD. In fellowship and His Service. Make the Holy Spirit your lover, friend and companion. Let Him shed His love abroad in your heart. Serve God. Get busy for God that you can’t even remember anything RELATIONSHIP (with the opposite sex ), of course until God says it’s time. 4. Then as you begin to sense God stirring your heart in the direction of a relationship, do an objective appraisal of your life. I said to my self, “Nath? Sentiments apart, the way your life was, would you marry YOU? It’s very easy to get upset and bitter when such happens, but we never really sit down to ask ourselves why? I began to see areas of my life that needed upgrades, spiritual, physical, personal development, ministry, character and overall vision as a young man. 5. I wish I can shout � this from a roof top. PLS DON’T TRY TO PROVE ANY POINT TO YOUR EX. If you have thoroughly gone through levels 1-4, The Holy Spirit would have done so much work of transformation within you. And while in the stage of appraising your life and ready to make adjustments and upgrades, it would never be to prove a point to your ex or people. Many have made hasty decisions in the flesh including making bad marriage choices, career, business, relocation choices etc all because they wanted to prove they too can “marry” and be successful. If you truly yield to God’s work, you will come out with one attitude —— , GRATITUDE! And like David say, it was good that I suffered...” Psalm 119:71. 6. This is important... So you can move on and begin a fresh start, BREAK TIES and contact with the Ex, if possible. This is not malice. But this is perhaps for the time being so you can really put closure on things. A time will come when you are able to relate without any sort of attachments and emotional ties. Many wonder why they can’t seem to move on, and when you look, you find certain connections still active. Messaging on social media etc. 7. When you begin sensing a leading into another relationship this is what you should do, PRAY. When you meet someone and begin having feelings for them, that is not a green light for another relationship. That feeling says to you IT’S TIME TO PRAY. Remember feelings are also internal chemical reactions. And Trust me, if you went through what I went through, you don’t ever want to enter casually next time�. 8. And when you meet that right person, and see what you went through and what God has done, you’d give him a praise break���. You also won’t compare this new person with the other. Because you have been HEALED, FREE & GROWN. And if the heartbreak was a terrible one, the kind that could be described as evil done you, you would come out feeling Compassion for the other person, rather than Bitterness.And just to add, one way to forgive also, is PRAYING for the other person. It’s tough, but a mystery that works miracles.Hope this blessed you �� Source: https://premium9ja.com/from-heartbreak-to-praisebreak-nathaniel-bassey-shares-relationship-experience/ 44 Likes 7 Shares
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Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by daddytime(m): 9:52am On Mar 18, 2019 |
Hmm 1 Like |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Benlight: 9:54am On Mar 18, 2019 |
Great tips 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
So now he is a relationship expert? [img]https://media1./images/41623c30893884b0cd1b2d696a3abd33/tenor.gif?itemid=9495358[/img] 22 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Amuocha: 12:20pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
HCF is God LCM is God 2 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Truefaith: 12:21pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Cd 1 Like |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Lamasta(m): 12:22pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
God bless your ministry, God will continue to use your mouth for His glory 12 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by xtremeTall(m): 12:22pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Not helpful for me though 2 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Creedxii(m): 12:22pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
oga therapist drop your office address |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by ojuikwu: 12:23pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
FLAT head always talk about BIAFRA MASOOB IPOG IPIG.but immediately they sighted pyton they will lie dowm inside gutter 2 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by ojuikwu: 12:24pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
ojuikwu:WHY FLAT HEAD PLENTY FOR IKOYI PRISON |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by philsbaba: 12:25pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
And that is how he met his latest beautiful wife |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by bokunrawo(m): 12:26pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
LiveByNight:R By their comment you shall know them, this is one of the dumbest comment have read on nairaland since I registered 8 years ago, the ability of your brain to interpret write up has gone faulty, I can conclusively say that you are one of the reasons why Africa is still underdeveloped. EWU : 21 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by PhenomenalMorgan(m): 12:26pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Ok |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Shehunoshewhat: 12:27pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Great! 1 Like |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by TemmyT002(m): 12:28pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
This is pure gold! That number 3 though. Very very few people have the Holy Spirit so they cannot be guided by Him. As they result, they keep making bad relationship choices. 14 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by ifr23: 12:31pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
very inspiring 2 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by MicheyJ1: 12:31pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
ojuikwu:you are stupid and no one cares enough to tell you. 3 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by freetheking: 12:31pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Though I fall seven times, I shall arise seven times. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Owutuotuo(m): 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
LiveByNight: Well he's not, but he's a testimony beyond human expertise. Having seen the wife, you can always tell he's right on point. 12 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by ojuikwu: 12:35pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
MicheyJ1:my run pyton is coming,see gutter over there go and lie down..flat head 1 Like |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Awesome! THANKS OP FOR SHARING THIS. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by CyberWolf: 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
Probably she wasn’t a virgin and you’re not ready to shine her Congo so, she was tired of cheating secretly, that’s why she dumped you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by blaqroy: 12:38pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
I luv u Nat, but u are taken.... God keep blessing u 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by opoorookagbon(m): 12:39pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Shiloh1986(m): 12:39pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
premium9ja:I'm so blessed! 3 Likes |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by henrysho: 12:40pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
[quote author=premium9ja post=76757542]Famed Gospel singer & Worship leader Nathaniel Bassey took to his Instagram page to share his relationship story. He titled "From Heartbreak To Praisebreak". It is an amazing and educative experience post that you will learn a lot from. Read Below; I have shared the story of one of the toughest times I experienced. However, one which led to meeting my wonderful wife. I hope these tips help you if you are in a similar situation. A Heartbreak can become one of the most powerful forces of change in your life. I got a call from my ex saying “This Thing is over.” Now this was tough. Especially coming from someone I thought could worship the very ground I walk on. At least so I thought. I never felt a pain that sore in my whole life. I mean, I’ve lost some loved ones, but this pain was in a class of its own. All efforts to get her to talk failed. So I prayed, and was convinced I had to move on.So I went through the following process. 1. I made sure I experienced healing in GOD’s presence. You see, many times people don’t get healed before they jump into another relationship. I made up my mind not to use someone as my temporal pain reliever. So I spent time Worshipping, and just shedding the tears before my Father in heaven. Then I was led to listen to some sermons which spoke to my situation. This process led to the next. 2. The more I spent time with God, The easier it was to FORGIVE! People! You’ve got to FOOOOORRRRGIVE. This isn’t just for your “heartbreaker.” It’s more for YOU! You will definitely hurt someone if you jump into another relationship without experiencing and giving forgiveness. 3. Get lost in GOD. In fellowship and His Service. Make the Holy Spirit your lover, friend and companion. Let Him shed His love abroad in your heart. Serve God. Get busy for God that you can’t even remember anything RELATIONSHIP (with the opposite sex ), of course until God says it’s time. 4. Then as you begin to sense God stirring your heart in the direction of a relationship, do an objective appraisal of your life. I said to my self, “Nath? Sentiments apart, the way your life was, would you marry YOU? It’s very easy to get upset and bitter when such happens, but we never really sit down to ask ourselves why? I began to see areas of my life that needed upgrades, spiritual, physical, personal development, ministry, character and overall vision as a young man. 5. I wish I can shout � this from a roof top. PLS DON’T TRY TO PROVE ANY POINT TO YOUR EX. If you have thoroughly gone through levels 1-4, The Holy Spirit would have done so much work of transformation within you. And while in the stage of appraising your life and ready to make adjustments and upgrades, it would never be to prove a point to your ex or people. Many have made hasty decisions in the flesh including making bad marriage choices, career, business, relocation choices etc all because they wanted to prove they too can “marry” and be successful. If you truly yield to God’s work, you will come out with one attitude —— , GRATITUDE! And like David say, it was good that I suffered...” Psalm 119:71. 6. This is important... So you can move on and begin a fresh start, BREAK TIES and contact with the Ex, if possible. This is not malice. But this is perhaps for the time being so you can really put closure on things. A time will come when you are able to relate without any sort of attachments and emotional ties. Many wonder why they can’t seem to move on, and when you look, you find certain connections still active. Messaging on social media etc. 7. When you begin sensing a leading into another relationship this is what you should do, PRAY. When you meet someone and begin having feelings for them, that is not a green light for another relationship. That feeling says to you IT’S TIME TO PRAY. Remember feelings are also internal chemical reactions. And Trust me, if you went through what I went through, you don’t ever want to enter casually next time�. 8. And when you meet that right person, and see what you went through and what God has done, you’d give him a praise break���. You also won’t compare this new person with the other. Because you have been HEALED, FREE & GROWN. And if the heartbreak was a terrible one, the kind that could be described as evil done you, you would come out feeling Compassion for the other person, rather than Bitterness.And just to add, one way to forgive also, is PRAYING for the other person. It’s tough, but a mystery that works miracles.Hope this blessed you �� Source: https://premium9ja.com/from-heartbreak-to-praisebreak-nathaniel-bassey-shares-relationsh |
Re: Nathaniel Bassey Shares His Relationship Experience (so Educative) by Alejoas(m): 12:46pm On Mar 18, 2019 |
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