So apt and true.


_{but will they read and adhere?}

Instead of reflection, some of you are doing a competition of who is most sarcastic. I am very grateful to God that my formative years were long before social media became rampant. The days are becoming more evil, yet we have an 'indomie' generation that don't read to understand, never listens and never learns. In our days, we hardly saw or heard where one was given drip for heartbreak, but it's common with 'indomie' generation, all expenses paid by daddy and mummy. Una wey dey ask weda him be relationship expert, how many una don patronize before.

bokunrawo:
R By their comment you shall know them, this is one of the dumbest comment have read on nairaland since I registered 8 years ago, the ability of your brain to interpret write up has gone faulty, I can conclusively say that you are one of the reasons why Africa is still underdeveloped. EWU :

Ode

i've been through this, i believe.
had the urge to pray more than usual...and for a week i was on it, not knowing what was coming, and suddenly the girl dropped the bomb. so heartbroken, yeah but i had gathered much strenght during my time with God to dampen the effect.
i had the grace to forgive the girl right on the spot.
i honestly dont know what else could have happened to me if not for that singular prompting of God.
this was about 3yrs ago...God is sweet o!

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Famed Gospel singer & Worship leader Nathaniel Bassey took to his Instagram page to share his relationship story. He titled "From Heartbreak To Praisebreak". It is an amazing and educative experience post that you will learn a lot from.

Read Below;

I have shared the story of one of the toughest times I experienced. However, one which led to meeting my wonderful wife. I hope these tips help you if you are in a similar situation. A Heartbreak can become one of the most powerful forces of change in your life. I got a call from my ex saying “This Thing is over.” Now this was tough. Especially coming from someone I thought could worship the very ground I walk on. At least so I thought. I never felt a pain that sore in my whole life. I mean, I’ve lost some loved ones, but this pain was in a class of its own. All efforts to get her to talk failed. So I prayed, and was convinced I had to move on.So I went through the following process.

1. I made sure I experienced healing in GOD’s presence. You see, many times people don’t get healed before they jump into another relationship. I made up my mind not to use someone as my temporal pain reliever. So I spent time Worshipping, and just shedding the tears before my Father in heaven. Then I was led to listen to some sermons which spoke to my situation. This process led to the next.

2. The more I spent time with God, The easier it was to FORGIVE! People! You’ve got to FOOOOORRRRGIVE. This isn’t just for your “heartbreaker.” It’s more for YOU! You will definitely hurt someone if you jump into another relationship without experiencing and giving forgiveness.

3. Get lost in GOD. In fellowship and His Service. Make the Holy Spirit your lover, friend and companion. Let Him shed His love abroad in your heart. Serve God. Get busy for God that you can’t even remember anything RELATIONSHIP (with the opposite sex ), of course until God says it’s time.

4. Then as you begin to sense God stirring your heart in the direction of a relationship, do an objective appraisal of your life. I said to my self, “Nath? Sentiments apart, the way your life was, would you marry YOU? It’s very easy to get upset and bitter when such happens, but we never really sit down to ask ourselves why? I began to see areas of my life that needed upgrades, spiritual, physical, personal development, ministry, character and overall vision as a young man.

5. I wish I can shout � this from a roof top. PLS DON’T TRY TO PROVE ANY POINT TO YOUR EX. If you have thoroughly gone through levels 1-4, The Holy Spirit would have done so much work of transformation within you. And while in the stage of appraising your life and ready to make adjustments and upgrades, it would never be to prove a point to your ex or people. Many have made hasty decisions in the flesh including making bad marriage choices, career, business, relocation choices etc all because they wanted to prove they too can “marry” and be successful. If you truly yield to God’s work, you will come out with one attitude —— , GRATITUDE! And like David say, it was good that I suffered...” Psalm 119:71.

6. This is important... So you can move on and begin a fresh start, BREAK TIES and contact with the Ex, if possible. This is not malice. But this is perhaps for the time being so you can really put closure on things. A time will come when you are able to relate without any sort of attachments and emotional ties. Many wonder why they can’t seem to move on, and when you look, you find certain connections still active. Messaging on social media etc.

7. When you begin sensing a leading into another relationship this is what you should do, PRAY. When you meet someone and begin having feelings for them, that is not a green light for another relationship. That feeling says to you IT’S TIME TO PRAY. Remember feelings are also internal chemical reactions. And Trust me, if you went through what I went through, you don’t ever want to enter casually next time�.

8. And when you meet that right person, and see what you went through and what God has done, you’d give him a praise break���. You also won’t compare this new person with the other. Because you have been HEALED, FREE & GROWN. And if the heartbreak was a terrible one, the kind that could be described as evil done you, you would come out feeling Compassion for the other person, rather than Bitterness.And just to add, one way to forgive also, is PRAYING for the other person. It’s tough, but a mystery that works miracles.Hope this blessed you ��

Source: https://premium9ja.com/from-heartbreak-to-praisebreak-nathaniel-bassey-shares-relationship-experience/

Exactly what happened to me. She did worst. I cried my eyes out in my solitary (my room). I took it to God in prayer for the bone of my bone and flesh of my flesh. And God gave me. Right now I still feel sorry for her because of the situation behind why she did what she did. This is over five years and every day I still reference her in prayer for God to provide and bless her. I still have that passion To Help her economically when I'm blessed Big time. Oje ka wa keng. abi how una dey talk am

LiveByNight:
So now he is a relationship expert?

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Not expert just sharing his personal experience. It worked for him, it may work for you!

Shiloh1986:
I'm so blessed!

Number 4 is EPIC. For Christians and no Christians. Everyone needs to step back and revaluate themselves before going into a relationship

10 Things About Nathaniel Bassey You Probably Didn’t Know

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