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Cheating isn't even worst, the worse thing that can happen to a man is to marry a lousy woman, a woman who can't keep secret will kill her man before his time. A lousy woman will tell the whole neighborhood her husband just brought some huge amount of money home, before you know it robbers will come for the money and in some cases kill the husband join.

Divoc:
A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while many men do not have s**x with emotions, women can’t have s**x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s**x while women need a reason to have s**x.

Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.

Men don’t equate s**x with love. A man can have s**x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fall in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrate some hidden secrets concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.

For men, s**x and love are two different things. But for women, s**x and love are one and the same thing. For men, s**x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s**x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s**x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.

The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.

If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why it is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinary criminals or weapons.

There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.

That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.

That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect for their husbands and try to avoid s**x with them in most times.

Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s**x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s**x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behaviour with regard to s**x starts changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerates fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.

Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgement. When a joke is cracked, most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.

Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.

I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s**x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men can’t allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.

A man would cheat but would still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.


https://www.vanguardngr.com/2017/11/cheating/

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SLBMS:
TO MY FELLOW MEN OUT THERE.

If you like your life, if you want to keep your sanity DO NOT, I repeat, DO NOT EVER EVER EVER GET MARRIED unless you have a relationship with God. If you have no relationship with God you cannot escape what is to come.

The greatest weapon of he devil is a WOMAN. Not because they are evil creatures but because they are emotionally wired and soft. Satan brought about the fall of man not through Adam but through the weaker vessel Eve. Same with Samson, King Ahab. David at a time. There is no greater weapon in the arsenal if the devil than women. That's why majority of women are into witchraft.

On a personal note I just learnt last week that the man I have always known as my dad is not my dad. Apparently I was the product of an affair and as such for years tried to figure out why the rejection and hatred and animosity towards me. I've had my "dad" spit on my face countless times and suffered physical abuse. I still bear the physicals scars of a childhood of pain and brutality. Guys, our society has fallen deeper into debauchery with the advent of social media and cell phones. It's now very easy for a women to hook up with an ex or something and have sex at he discretion. 15 years ago it was impossible. Many people today do not realise that they may be the product of an affair. The institution called marriage is DEAD. It's no longer a sacred thing but a joke.

Have a kid, raise your child.

dayum

sorry bro

babyfaceafrica:
u need Jesus...if men can marry ..more wives.. women should marry more husbands

women should go ahead and marry more than one husband nah. Let's see how they will fair

Very true

A cheating woman will bring her husband bad luck and ultimately death especially if he is aware and fails to do anything about it.

Multiple men are NEVER supposed to sleep with a woman within the same period let alone a married one.

hammerFC:
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PORN-STARS ARE HAVING SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI?


PROSTITUTES HAVE SEX WITH EMOTIONS, ABI.


THE DAY U LEARN SEX IS A THING OF PLEASURE FOR MEN AND WOMEN IS THE DAY U WAKE UP.


A WOMAN WILL FUCUK U FOR THE FUN AND NOT LOVE U. FACT!


SHE WILL GO BACK TO HER HUSBAND AND KIDS.

As a guy, maybe u should consider marrying a porn star and then u would understand what the article meant on the long run

mschewwwwwwwww.

PlusVibez:
For the guys. The fear of dangerously beautiful cheating wives is the beginning of many parts on the shoulder that you are an overcomer, CONGRATULATIONS! It ushers you into great shoes of confidence to conquer your destiny and at peace with your conscience. If you can overcome the ones that looks like goddesses, the ugly cheating wives na moi-moi.
Saying from experience. I can relate to all the words said here. I had to break my sim card, travelled to another State for a year far away from the possessed and obsessed one married woman like that that was all over me back then. When after much plead to make love to her failed, to prove her love me, she suggested we elope to another country where we can start a new life, that she has saved millions to take care of our needs for life. She leaked every unimaginable secrets of her husband to me; everything. All this bullshit started from just normal greeting ooo whenever i walk pass her, shikena! Love just possessed her.

Most times we men contribute to their cheating. Boy friend, man friend, husband, whichever one you are, never give your wife the silence treatment. Communication matters a lot in every relationship, be romantic/playful with your wife, let her be monitored lovingly and passionately without the feeling of being alone. I learned a lot after making personal assessment of why she wanna cheat on her multi-millionaire husband who gave her all the cars and houses even with the intention of eloping with me.

She was at my mercy, i could have used her to my own selfish advantage, but thank God for my christian upbringing and to my wonderful mother early sermons which occasionally rings in my ear. That verse in the bible that says train up a child bla...bla...really works. I for dey for one mansion codedly living off d life with her, but to what ends? God forbid! For the men in the house, never give her any reason to cheat. Continue being the wonderful biblical husband to her and watch how God unites, bless and move your family to the permanent site like the likes of Pastor Oyedepo and wife, Pastor Paul Eneche and wife and others. Gracias.

You have spoken well....

African man does not believe in catering to the needs of their wives, hence all these troubles, it's all abt them then and them

but I won't blame them 100 % tho

after all they paid "Brideprice"

an emotionally vulnerable woman is easy prey for those ravenous wolves in sheep clothing bad boys we have there

toplinetrtrend:
women should go ahead and marry more than one husband nah. Let's see how they will fair

there are cultures in this world that permit that...
their civilization is not dead yet

So what are you saying?

joxxy01:
As a guy, maybe u should consider marrying a porn star and then u would understand what the article meant on the long run

A good number of porn stars and strippers are married

So?

Pavore9:
How does love for spouse reflect in infidelity? This rationalization baffles me or does the faith or none you profess affirms your position?

help me ask o

Ugosample:
A good number of porn stars and strippers are married

So?

So their husbands are aware which gives them the freedom to do as they like as far as the money is coming..but can same be said about responsible people?

Korllami007:
Gbamest. That's why our great grand father, grand father married more than five wives, and it is easy for kings to marry more than one wife without shifting love from one wife to the other but love them equally.

How old are you?

joxxy01:
So their husbands are aware which gives them the freedom to do as they like as far as the money is coming..but can same be said about responsible people?

Look at this one

You no sabi wetin dey

I love this topic

Ugosample:
Look at this one
You no sabi wetin dey

See ehn this is just a fact... Just take it or live it.

This is a fascinating but controversial subject. It rang true when I read. However, since I’m a man and this seemed to be written from a male point of view, I was interested in hearing from the female point of view or even a neutral view like from science. Any ladies in the house who agree with this view?

I’ve pasted below a scientific study on same topic as well:


Why Men and Women See Infidelity So Differently
Why do some but not all relationships survive infidelity?
Posted Jul 10, 2017

There is a school of thought that says if a woman cheats, it is more likely to signal an end to her primary relationship than if a man cheats. And this may in fact be the case, because men and women tend to think and feel differently about sex and relationships.
Men are generally more likely than women to be able to compartmentalize sex and intimate connections. For many men, sex is sex, and relationships are relationships, and the two do not necessarily overlap. Thus, a man who casually cheats may do so without feeling a significant degree of emotional connection to a mistress, while a woman who cheats could see things differently, with sex and emotional connection intermingled in ways that make compartmentalization more difficult.

Stated another way, when women cheat, there is usually an element of romance, intimacy, connection, or love. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to cheat to satisfy sexual urges, with fewer thoughts of intimacy. Of course, many men cheat because they feel love as well as sexual attraction for an outside partner, but many more don’t: For them, infidelity can be an opportunistic, primarily sexual action that, in their minds, does not affect their primary relationship. In fact, when asked, many such men will report that they’re very happy in their primary relationship, that they love their significant other, that their sex life is great, and that, despite their cheating, they have no intention of ending their primary relationship.
Women are less likely to operate that way. For most women, a sense of relational intimacy is every bit as important as the sex; often more important. As such, women tend to not cheat unless they feel either unhappiness in their primary relationship or an intimate connection with their extracurricular partner — and either could cause a woman to move on from her primary relationship.
Consider the results of a well-known study in which men and women were shown videos of two men having sex and two women having sex. Male test subjects’ responses were highly gender specific: Straight guys were turned on only by the videos of women, and gay men were turned on only by the videos of two men. Meanwhile, two-thirds of the women, regardless of sexual orientation, were aroused by both male and female stimuli — in particular, the videos that displayed or hinted at an emotional and psychological connection. This research is hardly an outlier: Numerous other studies have produced similar results, confirming that, generally speaking, women are attracted to and turned on by emotional intimacy (especially in committed relationships), while men are more turned on by sex acts.

Put another way, male sexual desire tends to be driven by physiological rather than psychological factors. This is why porn sites created for male users feature short scenarios focused on body parts and overt sexual acts and little else. Even porn literature for men tends to focus more on sexual acts than on relationships and feelings.
Not so for women. Open up a romance novel, or tune in to True Blood, the Twilight movies, or other female-oriented romance/erotica, and you’ll see this rather clearly. In such stories, you'll find very little in the way of purely objectified, non-relational sex. Instead, you'll encounter broad-chested, square-jawed, deep-voiced bad boys who melt when they spot the story’s heroine. This is true even of the more overtly sexual Fifty Shades of Grey series, in which a really bad boy meets a really nice girl who knows in her heart that she can find the good in him and make the relationship work.
Men typically do not need to be in love to enjoy sex. In fact, they don’t even need to be in like; they just have to be turned on. Generally, it’s more difficult to get a woman interested in sex because they want a deep voice AND big biceps AND a sense of humor AND a guy who listens AND a desire to have kids and fix up a house together AND a whole bunch of other stuff.

This difference is most likely the product of thousands of years of evolution. Researchers Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam describe this as well as anyone, writing in their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts:
     "When contemplating sex with a man, a woman has to consider the long term. This consideration may not even by conscious, but rather is part of the unconscious software that has evolved to protect women over hundreds of thousands of years. Sex could commit a woman to a substantial, life-altering investment: pregnancy, nursing, and more than a decade of child-raising. These commitments require enormous time, resources, and energy. Sex with the wrong guy could lead to many unpleasant outcomes."
Ogas and Gaddam call this feminine need to thoroughly vet a potential partner’s physical and character traits before becoming both physically and psychologically turned on “Miss Marple,” referencing Agatha’s Christie’s celebrated female detective. They note that this internal safety mechanism is not willing to give cognitive approval for sex until multiple conditions are met. (Of note: Women with histories of sexual trauma tend to not have this self-defense mechanism, and as such, are more likely to engage in casual cheating and to be further victimized as adults.)
Men have less of a need to guard against the dangers of casual sex, so they have not developed this inner detective. They will sometimes cheat just for the sex, even when they are perfectly happy with their primary relationship. This is why a relationship damaged by a man’s infidelity might be more likely to survive after infidelity is uncovered, as opposed to when a woman has cheated. Men can and do cheat on a good relationship, and good relationships are worth saving. Meanwhile, women are more likely to cheat when their primary relationship is not going well, and that type of already-troubled connection might not be worth the pain and effort required to rebuild relationship trust, emotional intimacy, and long-term harmony.


For more about the ingrained emotional and psychological differences between men and women, I recommend John Gray’s book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. For specific information about overcoming infidelity and healing damaged relationships, I recommend my own book, Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating.
Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S is a digital-age intimacy and relationships expert specializing in infidelity and addictions. He is the author of several highly regarded books. Currently, he is Senior Vice President of National Clinical Development for Elements Behavioral Health, creating and overseeing addiction and mental health treatment programs for more than a dozen high-end treatment facilities. For more information please visit his website, robertweissmsw.com, or follow him on Twitter, @RobWeissMSW.

Divoc:
Must we copy the whites(western world) in everything? I strongly advocate that the men should marry more wives...African man is polygamous in nature. This one-man one-wife is not really working for we Africans...Polygamy worked for our grandfathers. People even practiced polygamy in the Bible.

Do you have the financial means to start a polygamous family? if you have no wahala..becos I know ordinary one wife and two children alone for the average Nigerian guy due to the economy is a big struggle
However, some rich men do have more than one wives because they can afford it .The problem is not about marrying wives and having many children but having the means to take care of them comfortably.
Secondly What about the trouble that comes with polygamy? if you have the energy for that..then all you need to do is to wed only through the Nigerian native law and custom..no court nor church wedding will tolerate polygamy.

Divoc:
Must we copy the whites(western world) in everything? I strongly advocate that the men should marry more wives...African man is polygamous in nature. This one-man one-wife is not really working for we Africans...Polygamy worked for our grandfathers. People even practiced polygamy in the Bible.

Do you have the financial means to start a polygamous family? if you have, no wahala..becos I know ordinary one wife and two children alone for the average Nigerian guy due to the economy is a big struggle
However, some rich men do have more than one wives because they can afford it .The problem is not about marrying wives and having many children but having the means to take care of them comfortably.
Secondly What about the trouble that comes with polygamy? if you have the energy for that..then all you need to do is to wed only through the Nigerian native law and custom..no court nor church wedding will tolerate polygamy.

A very true post. No man, no matter how much he loves his wife should forgive her if she cheats. It goes beyond having sex with another man: your very life is in danger.

Asimov:
This is a fascinating but controversial subject. It rang true when I read. However, since I’m a man and this seemed to be written from a male point of view, I was interested in hearing from the female point of view or even a neutral view like from science. Any ladies in the house who agree with this view?

I’ve pasted below a scientific study on same topic as well:


Why Men and Women See Infidelity So Differently
Why do some but not all relationships survive infidelity?
Posted Jul 10, 2017

There is a school of thought that says if a woman cheats, it is more likely to signal an end to her primary relationship than if a man cheats. And this may in fact be the case, because men and women tend to think and feel differently about sex and relationships.
Men are generally more likely than women to be able to compartmentalize sex and intimate connections. For many men, sex is sex, and relationships are relationships, and the two do not necessarily overlap. Thus, a man who casually cheats may do so without feeling a significant degree of emotional connection to a mistress, while a woman who cheats could see things differently, with sex and emotional connection intermingled in ways that make compartmentalization more difficult.

Stated another way, when women cheat, there is usually an element of romance, intimacy, connection, or love. Men, on the other hand, are more likely to cheat to satisfy sexual urges, with fewer thoughts of intimacy. Of course, many men cheat because they feel love as well as sexual attraction for an outside partner, but many more don’t: For them, infidelity can be an opportunistic, primarily sexual action that, in their minds, does not affect their primary relationship. In fact, when asked, many such men will report that they’re very happy in their primary relationship, that they love their significant other, that their sex life is great, and that, despite their cheating, they have no intention of ending their primary relationship.
Women are less likely to operate that way. For most women, a sense of relational intimacy is every bit as important as the sex; often more important. As such, women tend to not cheat unless they feel either unhappiness in their primary relationship or an intimate connection with their extracurricular partner — and either could cause a woman to move on from her primary relationship.
Consider the results of a well-known study in which men and women were shown videos of two men having sex and two women having sex. Male test subjects’ responses were highly gender specific: Straight guys were turned on only by the videos of women, and gay men were turned on only by the videos of two men. Meanwhile, two-thirds of the women, regardless of sexual orientation, were aroused by both male and female stimuli — in particular, the videos that displayed or hinted at an emotional and psychological connection. This research is hardly an outlier: Numerous other studies have produced similar results, confirming that, generally speaking, women are attracted to and turned on by emotional intimacy (especially in committed relationships), while men are more turned on by sex acts.

Put another way, male sexual desire tends to be driven by physiological rather than psychological factors. This is why porn sites created for male users feature short scenarios focused on body parts and overt sexual acts and little else. Even porn literature for men tends to focus more on sexual acts than on relationships and feelings.
Not so for women. Open up a romance novel, or tune in to True Blood, the Twilight movies, or other female-oriented romance/erotica, and you’ll see this rather clearly. In such stories, you'll find very little in the way of purely objectified, non-relational sex. Instead, you'll encounter broad-chested, square-jawed, deep-voiced bad boys who melt when they spot the story’s heroine. This is true even of the more overtly sexual Fifty Shades of Grey series, in which a really bad boy meets a really nice girl who knows in her heart that she can find the good in him and make the relationship work.
Men typically do not need to be in love to enjoy sex. In fact, they don’t even need to be in like; they just have to be turned on. Generally, it’s more difficult to get a woman interested in sex because they want a deep voice AND big biceps AND a sense of humor AND a guy who listens AND a desire to have kids and fix up a house together AND a whole bunch of other stuff.

This difference is most likely the product of thousands of years of evolution. Researchers Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam describe this as well as anyone, writing in their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts:
     "When contemplating sex with a man, a woman has to consider the long term. This consideration may not even by conscious, but rather is part of the unconscious software that has evolved to protect women over hundreds of thousands of years. Sex could commit a woman to a substantial, life-altering investment: pregnancy, nursing, and more than a decade of child-raising. These commitments require enormous time, resources, and energy. Sex with the wrong guy could lead to many unpleasant outcomes."
Ogas and Gaddam call this feminine need to thoroughly vet a potential partner’s physical and character traits before becoming both physically and psychologically turned on “Miss Marple,” referencing Agatha’s Christie’s celebrated female detective. They note that this internal safety mechanism is not willing to give cognitive approval for sex until multiple conditions are met. (Of note: Women with histories of sexual trauma tend to not have this self-defense mechanism, and as such, are more likely to engage in casual cheating and to be further victimized as adults.)
Men have less of a need to guard against the dangers of casual sex, so they have not developed this inner detective. They will sometimes cheat just for the sex, even when they are perfectly happy with their primary relationship. This is why a relationship damaged by a man’s infidelity might be more likely to survive after infidelity is uncovered, as opposed to when a woman has cheated. Men can and do cheat on a good relationship, and good relationships are worth saving. Meanwhile, women are more likely to cheat when their primary relationship is not going well, and that type of already-troubled connection might not be worth the pain and effort required to rebuild relationship trust, emotional intimacy, and long-term harmony.


For more about the ingrained emotional and psychological differences between men and women, I recommend John Gray’s book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. For specific information about overcoming infidelity and healing damaged relationships, I recommend my own book, Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating.
Robert Weiss LCSW, CSAT-S is a digital-age intimacy and relationships expert specializing in infidelity and addictions. He is the author of several highly regarded books. Currently, he is Senior Vice President of National Clinical Development for Elements Behavioral Health, creating and overseeing addiction and mental health treatment programs for more than a dozen high-end treatment facilities. For more information please visit his website, robertweissmsw.com, or follow him on Twitter, @RobWeissMSW.

interesting


but let me ask

A married woman fvckin the gateman

or that undergraduate

does she have emotional connection?

A cheat is a cheat, doesn't matter d gender,n!gga stop talking sh!t,most people now cheat without reason cos it has just become a lifestyle... We are all human beings regardless of the gender..people now cheat without reason cos it has just become a lifestyle...

Some people here are just funny! Or do I say they are just plainly stupid I don't understand. The op put up a very factual and self explanatory article on women's perception about cheating viz a viz men's perception, stating categorically that women mostly cheat when they are emotionally dead to their husbands and as a result lose the love and respect for them and now see that as reason to cheat while most men see sex as more of fun without much of emotional attachments and some people are here arguing about prostitutes who have sex for money!!! Are prostitutes the same as women?
Just that there are too many hypocrites everywhere, no female adult on this platform can say she doesn't understand this post.

To the op, well done because you just said the fact that no one can dispute.

I challenge anybody with enough proof and fact to contest this (not just blind or sentimental argument)

hammerFC:
MARRY A WOMAN AND LET UR PRICK NOT BE ACTIVE.


SHE WILL GET HERSELF A SEX-MATE.


FUUCCK HIM AND STILL LOVE U.


U GO LEARN THE MEANING OF MULTI-TASKING.

you forgot the part where the woman would another man child to the husband..who think it his own...the best thing is for couples to be faithful to each other and never take the other for granted..like someone earlier said..a cheating man deserve a cheating wife and a faithful man deserve a faithful woman(may God bless that marriage of the faithful ones)

atikuobi2019nig:
take a good look at proverbs 6:25 down to 35 then smile and clap for your self...

you just dey jealous me, na jealousy go kee you

yemre:
Some people here are just funny! Or do I say they are just plainly stupid I don't understand. The op put up a very factual and self explanatory article on women's perception about cheating viz a viz men's perception, stating categorically that women mostly cheat when they are emotionally dead to their husbands and as a result lose the love and respect for them and now see that as reason to cheat while most men see sex as more of fun without much of emotional attachments and some people are here arguing about prostitutes who have sex for money!!! Are prostitutes the same as women?
Just that there are too many hypocrites everywhere, no female adult on this platform can say she doesn't understand this post.

To the op, well done because you just said the fact that no one can dispute.

I challenge anybody with enough proof and fact to contest this (not just blind or sentimental argument)

So prostitutes are not women?

this guy must be a fool


this thing is not as clear cut as the Op is putting it

kenzysmith:
I slep with 49 girls anually but i cant stand a cheat

then dont cheat on your wife so that she would not be frustrated to cheat on you as a payback..

Humble55:
This is absolutely truth. in fact, 100% truth....
The writer of this must be a psychologist.

he is not ..he is bias and twisted in his Nigerian way of thinking

BiggyB242:
They are both dangerous but women are more dangerous, they can do anything for this new partner. Once a girl is in love, she can easily be manipulated.

First hand information- a woman killed her NNPC staff husband because her BF told her to do it. Most times the husband live at the mercy of the woman's bf. Married women don't have multiple sex partner if she's cheating but a married man can be sleeping with several girls this is because no emotion is involved and the man can easily cut away.

Married women cannot have multiple sex partners?

who is telling you that?

one big madam I know I'm Zenith bank go just dey laugh you

That woman was a cheerful giver (both in kpomo and Kudi )
I've been away for a while so I have not been hearing the gist


P.S. I did not call name o

Nkwugheri! Abeg cheating is dangerous for both genders.

Headlesschicken:
A cheat x a cheat, doesn't matter d gender,n!gga stop talking sh!t,most ppl now cheat wivout reason cos it has just become a lifestyle... We r all human beings regardless of the gender..

Bro no matter you look at it, the op is right.

Biglittlelois:
A cheating wife AND a cheating husband is dangerous, I dislike one sided views

Like it or not man is allowed multiple women from the days of king David.