Pavore9:


I read that, just as I know someone who had to leave LAUTECH (Ladoke Akintola University of Technology, Ogbomosho) at the age 23 after 4 years there due to the lengthy closure of the school. Even coming from a far less affluent background in comparison to the OP's background found his way to a private university in Nairobi, where fees is about the same paid in Nigeria and without financial assistance from family nor engaging in illegitimate activities, he is resourceful enough to earn to pay his way through school at age 26.

Far younger people are fending for themselves, he has to be creative on how to earn more income from his business which he noted he has, as one do not need to first have a university certificate before he/she can do so, likewise his younger sisters while hoping their father comes around.

This is why we never move forward...we always compare our situations with others, forgetting we were all born different...

Artistree:

This is why we never move forward...we always compare our situations with others, forgetting we were all born different...

Yes born different but how does it sound a 27 year old man suing his father for school fees when such a person is not dealing with a disability that is impairing cognition.

Even in the realm of psychosocial development, it is not appropriate. Just as some have earlier proposed, going through litigation is no way to go.

Pavore9:


Yes born different but how does it sound a 27 year old man suing his father for school fees when such a person is not dealing with a disability that is impairing cognition.

Even in the realm of psychosocial development, it is not appropriate. Just as some have earlier proposed, going through litigation is no way to go.

That he's 27 doeowbt mean the father can't fend for him...he lost 5years and so doesn't have the prerequisites to get a job and fend for himself.
Stop shaming people for things they don't have power over.. it's wrong.

Artistree:

That he's 27 doeowbt mean the father can't fend for him...he lost 5years and so doesn't have the prerequisites to get a job and fend for himself.
Stop shaming people for things they don't have power over.. it's wrong.

This no shaming but learn how to dissect sense of entitlement.

Should he learn that his father intends to sell all his properties, can he sue him?

He is not a minor where the court can mandate his father to make provisions for him, no sentiments here rather if it is only through his father he can get to stand on his feet, he should forget going to court!

acecouture:
Thank you very much ,but I tried to reach him ,last time we spoke was last year October. Went to his office in Edo (high rank police officer) I waited for 7hours and he didn't show up and I was at the reception.

Another thing is that is he spoilt my name including my mom and my sister to the extent say his not my biological father,my sister is a prostitute and so ,I had to move out and rent an apartment.it is worse than this.

Concerning playing along and taking sides,yes I did played along for months , until I couldn't take it
Remember I told you about taking my mom to kings palace concerning property,there was a particular house he and my mom started together.but after the divorce he wanted to claim it then my mom refuse . My mom is on 3 million naira debt on the building(loan). She started the project her self even till roofing level my dad didn't visit the site.
All of a sudden he started showing interest and claiming the property, on several occasions he got the workers at the site arrested.
After some weeks my mom begged me to relocate to the house for her to secure it, and I did.
This man is so gullible that they normally collect properties from him,infact there was another house my mom built ,he collected the house illegally and the name in the proposal my mum's.

All these epistles

You don't have a relationship with your own father, it's his money that you are seeing. It's children like you that keep me single, imagine! Did you make that money, did you sweat for it?

Abeg go and hide your face. Spoilt lil brats! You're type kill their parents for their inheritance, that's your only option. Until then go and find somewhere to sit.

Artistree:

This is why we never move forward...we always compare our situations with others, forgetting we were all born different...

They don't know we are all different, sometimes success isn't all about hardwork, if you are successful at a young age, be grateful and don't try mocking others.

Life no be 1+1 (Life is not simple arithmetic).

acecouture:
Good evening, first of all I want to apologize for any grammatical errors and blunders am going to make thank you.

I don't know how and where to start from but I will make the story short and brief. My dad took my mom to court accusing her of which craft, threat to his life 2017 and January last year he divorced her,mind you it was 28 year year of marriage. My dad is 60, am 27 years.


I had set back concerning my education,i had to withdraw from a federal university to a private university, 5years was wasted. The main reason of going to a private university is simply because of the university strike ,am getting older... thank God and in my final year now and am doing well ,but my father suddenly withdrew every support on me including my sisters because we took our mother side.

About my mother, months after the divorce he took her again to kings palace concerning property, well he happens to be a successfull man I mean he is worth up to 100 million naira. Out of 13 houses he has and several properties we don't know about he only issued us one and that was the first house he built.

My mom won the case but with annoyance he withdrew his support on me, my younger sister's r through in university(o yes am the first born and only son with 3 girls). Now I have now where to run to ,I haven't paid school fees and am in final year.i don't know what to do

My mom can't raise the money , neither can I .I have a business but is just for feeding
Please I want to extort money from him in a legal way,am not after his properties but just to finish from the university.

Pls and pls I need your sincere advice, I battling with depression (bipolar disorder) .there is more to this story but am ready to answer any question
Thanks you
PS .sorry for the errors once again

At this stage you really need your dad, so if possible send him text, tell him you want to have a face to face discussion with him, if you see him, tell him you don't want to get into a fight you know little or nothing about, tell him you are sorry and ready to make amends.

If you know you can't meet your dad for anything, then defy your admission for a while and put in more effort into your fashion biz, you mom and sisters need you more now, you are now the father of the house.

Wishing you all the best man.

I pray pray you will never encounter my situation, even to your generation,like I said earlier I am not lazy ,I have 3 businesses ,farming,fashion designer and bike which I gave out......but these r not just enough am in a private university just because age is not by side, if I were to be in a federal university where they are paying lw school fees I won't have problem at all,i just want to graduate thats my priority now.
You don't know what called life so don't judge me
I have been going through marathon fasting believing thing will change,. This is spiritual
I mean I didn't waste 5 years ,I wasted 8y year,this is my third university and all problems usually start at my final,i can't just believe it will be of money I will defer my education,once again thanks for the comments

I pray pray you will never encounter my situation, even to your generation,like I said earlier I am not lazy ,I have 3 businesses ,farming,fashion designer and bike which I gave out......but these r not just enough am in a private university just because age is not by side, if I were to be in a federal university where they are paying lw school fees I won't have problem at all,i just want to graduate thats my priority now.
You don't know what called life so don't judge me
I have been going through marathon fasting believing thing will change,. This is spiritual
I mean I didn't waste 5 years ,I wasted 8y year,this is my third university and all problems usually start at my final,i can't just believe it will be of money I will defer my education,once again thanks for the comments

In addition out of his numerous properties ,am in possession of 7 properties documents ( he gave me to keep) and also we bear the same name,i can as well as sell some and find my way out of the country but i didnt. It is set back I have, I didn't kill.