Heed to this warning!!!

If you still sleep with that guy in your office, peace will not locate you, you will never be happy all your life, you will work and never have anything to show for it and to crown it all, you will die an untimely death in just six months after you do it again..


just watch this space ..oloso

I must commend you for coming out clean.

Sooner or later, your husband will find out. Then your children will never forgive you for destroying their love.

Worst still was when you try to blame your husband for your nauseating illicit act. That his physique isn't appealing and sh!ts.

You should learn to take responsibility for your actions.

I think it is important that you divorce your husband cos as it stands, you are not ready to stop cheating anytime soon.

How do you sleep at night?

How you manage to look him in the eyes and talk to him?

Just let him go to the woman who will never cheat on him.

The woman who will love him dearly.

The woman that truly understand his worth.

I am hurting for him. He doesn't deserve this deadly lie he's living.

I feel sorry for the brothers advising this Hoe.


She's hooked on the sex. There's no saving her.


My only prayer is that her husband finds out and exposes her as the Hoe she is.

You have tasted another man's penis it will be difficult for you to like your husband own. You still be compel to go back to the man you slept with because you have tasted what is better than your husband. It is better to come out to your husband on what you did. He might forgive u but the relationship can be while again.

Katier00:
Do not beat yourself life happens . so just forgive yourself that is first step to recovery, forgive yourself ,yes you did something wrong it is unacceptable anywhere ,anytime any place, but life happens the question is the way forward stop judging yourself and have a decent conversation with your husband .you can lighten up your bedroom, he's just in his forties , he's not 70 . I believe he still have an erection so you can work hard and get that Dream man that you've always wanted and fantasized about . then for your colleague just look into his eyes and tell him it's over, tell him you're a married woman you have children and you respect the institution of marriage tell him all that and he will leave you . so let's just say this is a mistake, it is when you repeat it again that it will become a habit so don't beat yourself about it and I must commend your honesty we are human and sometimes we feel that way, you will feel like sleeping with another person that is not a spouse its natural anyone that will condemn your action is just lying I'm being hypocritical. so please you are just being human but don't let your flesh rule you because you are going to lead yourself to your own destruction ,be strong everything will be ok. one more thing please if you know the kind of husband you're being married to and you know that it's going to change everything by telling him that you slept with another person please don't tell him .just remember, don't do it again ,don't let the flesh possession thank you

Absolutely honest advise.

truthsayer009:


Spot on! I use to say this to people, everyone thinks I'm childish. "If you spend enough time with a Guy & you don't naturally feel like Fvcking him, he ain't the one". Irrespective of whether it is a no-sex relationship or not, once the thought never comes in. Bye!

There is this line I read upto 10 times, Chaiii the thing sweet me die.


I can bet my 1 month salary on it that she will go back for Round 2, Round 3 even 4. Usually at 7 is where It stops, as my Pastor use to say, 7 is the number of perfection.

True.

Chubhie:

I'm not that bad

Heh

madam, will DNA reveal more? you sounded like this is not your first time oh

Ogbeni please just shut up ahbeg. Women like to fucck, women like to have sex, this is not the 1930s where women will just glue their legs together and suffer. She made a mistake that many people make including men , so what is all this emotional crap you’re typing here? Women cheat, such is life but advise her to do better instead of crying like a sissy.

SaucyBenks:
useless woman... Cheap thing! I pray your husband finds out... Good men are often treated badly in relationships... I hate marriage! I really wish I have the words to explain how I feel for your useless self right now.... When you opened your legs like the way the red Sea was divided, your mind never ran to your husband n how he's busy working himself out to provide for the family while someone who doesn't even know how you n your husband both started is busy enjoying what your husband rightly owns, how he dipped his dick in your married pussy and dipped it out with all your creamy juices around it and in his mind, he calls you a Bleep mate but in your senseless mind, you've found what you been looking for and your husband can go to hell abi... Idiot! Shameless thing! Go on for another round n let's see how you'll conceal this for long... Madam scratchy cunt!

I just wish your husband will get to know this, I feel for him, I feel for all sincere men hooked up to a Jezebel like you.

I wish I can advice you, but the advise wouldn't change a thing. You're a LovePeddler. I just wish I can advice your husband to quickly go for a DNA test on the kids.

At least one of them is not his.

like I used to say, if you love a woman with all what you have, the one that will still Bleep around will still Bleep around.. you can't pleased olosho, is in their blood..

madam you've brought a curse upon ur children,.. you better stop this rubbish you're doing that u called sexual satisfaction before is too late..

JasonScoolari:
Dear Marbella003,

I don't advice cheats, infact, I hate cheats whether a Man or Woman.... You did not advice yourself when your pussy was itching you.

Now you seek our advice after cheating on a good man. And you still feel like offering your pussy to the guy as a useless sex slave.

What a promiscuous Dog.


Get Lost. Filthy animal.

Marbella003 is worse than a filthy dog. A very shameless piece of gutter slum pig she is. Such women... I see them as boreholes. Just look at the way Nairalanders are soft pedaling her.

She even admitted that the sex was great!!! And she wants to go again!!!

The next thing is to poison her husband and escape with his money!!! Forget all that lovey dovey bullshyt with the so called husband. She is just there because the man in his 40s have money!!!

FYI, I am in my thirties abd have serious phobia for stuffs like this. It wreaks me.

You were obviously a prostitute before getting married.
A leopard can never remove it's spots,never!
The only reason you did what you did was just for sexual adventure because of what and who you truly are... olosho!
You have a man who loves and cares for you but your only problem is that he doesn't Bleep you as hard as you want because you were an ashawo before getting married.Shame onto you!

tessytessy:
OP,

Thanks for sharing your problems here. You are human at most. However, the problem is that, you are hooked on that sex like opium. Two things will happen; its either you tell your husband or you tell a close friend who will ensure this ends. Trust me it will not end with a transfer, it will not end with blocking him. The problem is, if your husband gets to find out, your life will be messed up, your kids life will be messed up. Your parents will never respect you again.

Its better to hit a night stand with a stranger (if the thing dey hold you badly) than to be in a relationship with a colleugue.

I saw this happen to a couple, whose wife was hooked up to her EX. The discovery shattered that home for good. The woman lost her job, husband lost his job. Kids had to withdraw from the high brow school. Once those kids discover why their lives became messed up they will never , ever forgive you.

Forget about that guy and face your husband. You will be amazed that your husband can even toss your body upandown but he feels you are too holy for that sh*t. Madam, just talk tour husband. Adultery never ends well. You might even get pregnant,

Op shud heed dz advice! And make sure you cum clean too.

He deserves to know.

Oh my God, this is disgusting, you need serious prayer cos a cheat is always a cheat, and cheating in marriage is a serious offence before God and man.
@OP. can u ever be free from this guilt? am afraid the guilt you are feeling right now will get
to a stage where you will be contemplating suicide, cos depression will soon creep in as a result of this is a question of time, except you have fluctuating conscience, a situation of Repent today and and slide back to adultery tomorrow. pls. PM me I need to correct your brain with prayer before the worse happen.



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Saffi:
Men cannot handle cheating partners mentally like women do and that is just the truth. If you tell him now, the thought of you opening your legs to another man will constantly play in his head when he looks at you, which will eventually ruin your marriage. As a woman, if you cheat on your husband, you must take it to the grave otherwise you have yourself to blame.

To the sex part, encourage your hubby to look appealing for you. Work out together, eat well, mould him into the man that you want him to be physically. Tell him what you want him to do in bed. There’s only so much you can do, but for the sake of your vows and your home, good sex is really not worth it. You have to mentally train yourself to avoid temptation, that is the only way to stay faithful. And realistically most couples go through this at one point, so don’t beat yourself up too much. Dust your shoulders and do better and do not risk your family and your marriage for prick again. It is a temporary satisfaction and You will regret it.

Really love this..

ExcelDeBaron:


Marbella003 is worse than a filthy dog. A very shameless piece of gutter slum pig she is. Such women... I see them as boreholes. Just look at the way Nairalanders are soft pedaling her.

She even admitted that the sex was great!!! And she wants to go again!!!

The next thing is to poison her husband and escape with his money!!! Forget all that lovey dovey bullshyt with the so called husband. She is just there because the man in his 40s have money!!!

FYI, I am in my thirties abd have serious phobia for stuffs like this. It wreaks me.

Vow made, vow broken by the same Person... You know your husband is not sexually attractive, and you marriage him, while you know you love young men . are you stupid?? I don't give a fvck about you. I pity the man you cheated on, and you're still planing on how to have another round of sex with your animalistic colleague who fvck around not only with you but with many girls... Kepp on keeping on with him, before next month you'll get pregnant for the idiot and bring the bastard home for your husband to accept it as his own child... God will expose you soon. Nothing ks hidden under the sun, even you keep it for 20years, your husband will soon find out and chase you out and then your name will become disgrace. Fool.... I pity my fellow innocent man. Later now you'll carry what another man has entered and opened wide to offer him... Spit on you... Fool. Is it not better you start prostitution? Are you not even ashamed to bring this shii of yours here, and still have mind to say you want to have sex with him again... Spit on you and your useless pvssy... Useless asshole... I can choke you knife if I see you now. Fool... I pray your husband finds out soon as possible and cut off your head... Idiot

So sad. She misplaced her priority in marriage. She married for the wrong reason. Now she's always out there finding the right reason with someone else. She will always cheat on that man come what may!

Divorce your husband now when you are still young and can get a replacement.

Because if the truth comes out and it will one day, your husband will leave you and you will be truly fuccked.

Ashawo wey no get sense. Open toto for co-worker without any respect for her husband.

And the guy who I am sure knows the husband would be thinking what a fool he is for wifing such a slut.

May God save husbands from wives that would bring insults and reproach.

The truth is it can never be the same for many reasons. Just as male molestation are mostly overlooked or laughed at but female molestation/rape is a serious offense. Another reason is that the wife can get pregnant and the husband will be taking care of a child who isn’t his so you see why a cheating wife is more dangerous and can never be taken lightly?

Saffi:
Men cannot handle cheating partners mentally like women do and that is just the truth. If you tell him now, the thought of you opening your legs to another man will constantly play in his head when he looks at you, which will eventually ruin your marriage. As a woman, if you cheat on your husband, you must take it to the grave otherwise you have yourself to blame.

To the sex part, encourage your hubby to look appealing for you. Work out together, eat well, mould him into the man that you want him to be physically. Tell him what you want him to do in bed. There’s only so much you can do, but for the sake of your vows and your home, good sex is really not worth it. You have to mentally train yourself to avoid temptation, that is the only way to stay faithful. And realistically most couples go through this at one point, so don’t beat yourself up too much. Dust your shoulders and do better and do not risk your family and your marriage for prick again. It is a temporary satisfaction and You will regret it.

Hedonini:
The thing most of these stupid women (and they're in the majority) don't realize is that sexual attractiveness is like a whiff of smoke in the wind... Sexual performance is a trifle.

The only reason why the guy performed like a stallion is because of the 'first time' thrill of demystifying you. The evil thrill of seeing his married colleague naked before him and having the pleasure of tossing her around and drilling her. This kind of mental tonic does wonders for a man's libido. But it only lasts the first and maybe second time. Soon enough, that novelty effect would wane, and he would start seeing you for the flabby, intolerable 'married woman' slob that you are. By that time he would barely be able to get an erection with you, and even before that, he would manufacture excuses to avoid your sleazy ass. The only exemption to this would be if you're a sugar mummy who doles out loads of money to him, in which case he would prepare himself mentally and physically (with sex enhancers), before performing his lucrative 'duty' each time.

I can't remember how many females I've been in similar situation with - even much younger, single and seemingly attractive ones. First and second time I am enthusiastically thrusting and tossing, pumping and puffing, and shattering everything there is to shatter with no retreat and no surrender. But by the third or fourth encounter, I'm tired of her and even the sight of her greasy face makes my intrument limp in disgust. If, by my first performance, she concludes that her boyfriend or husband is history because she has met a charming 'stallion' to hold on to for life, then the dust soon clears from her eyes.

So true. It's usually about the first encounters. Novelty. Dopamine...

GrossPrice:


If the husband sees what that boy did to his wife in the hotel. He never touch her again.

When a woman complain about sex she's not complaining about the amount of sex but the type of sex.

I say it all the time - every now and then men need to bang their wives like $2 hoez.

Sometimes you just rip off her panties, I did not say take off - rip it off .. tear am ;

Knack am anyhow. Once you finish don't say word to her carry your key and leave the house.

These hoes don't enjoy emotional stability they want financial stability but not emotional stability.

Most Nigerian women cheat because they are secure in their relationships.

Nice one

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

firstly, u are already aware you not sexually attracted to Ur man before u married him, besides be sincere u married him for the money, u be thief,again, u cannot stop having sex with your colleague coz it's a normal thing to savour the rigorous sex u guys first had and wanted to do more, all these things u came to say on nairaland will not even help u because the guy will always comeback into your mind during Ur silent times now.....just keep enjoying Ur new dick and pray Ur husband never finds out...ashewo oshi!!!!!....mtcheeeewww!

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

This is crime.
Mod should ban you for this.
And God'l detest adulterers.

Saffi:
Men cannot handle cheating partners mentally like women do and that is just the truth. If you tell him now, the thought of you opening your legs to another man will constantly play in his head when he looks at you, which will eventually ruin your marriage. As a woman, if you cheat on your husband, you must take it to the grave otherwise you have yourself to blame.

To the sex part, encourage your hubby to look appealing for you. Work out together, eat well, mould him into the man that you want him to be physically. Tell him what you want him to do in bed. There’s only so much you can do, but for the sake of your vows and your home, good sex is really not worth it. You have to mentally train yourself to avoid temptation, that is the only way to stay faithful. And realistically most couples go through this at one point, so don’t beat yourself up too much. Dust your shoulders and do better and do not risk your family and your marriage for prick again. It is a temporary satisfaction and You will regret it.

Take it to the grave and be condemned to hell. Except you aint a christian. For every unconfessed sin gives no opportunity for forgiveness. I think I realise why most women make their husbands fathered children from another man do take the secret to the grave. May God keep men from such reprobate souls...

Shelumiel:
Madam, you should not be flaunting your problems on social media ; you will get the worst kind of advise on earth . And secondly , you need prayers ...lots of prayers , because adultery is something that is capable of destroying not just your home , but your peace of mind. My advice : seek your spiritual leader ; he will know how to handle this from a Godly perspective.

Nigerians problem....everything is prayer....spirit of adultery right.....smh!

Saffi:
Men cannot handle cheating partners mentally like women do and that is just the truth. If you tell him now, the thought of you opening your legs to another man will constantly play in his head when he looks at you, which will eventually ruin your marriage. As a woman, if you cheat on your husband, you must take it to the grave otherwise you have yourself to blame.

To the sex part, encourage your hubby to look appealing for you. Work out together, eat well, mould him into the man that you want him to be physically. Tell him what you want him to do in bed. There’s only so much you can do, but for the sake of your vows and your home, good sex is really not worth it. You have to mentally train yourself to avoid temptation, that is the only way to stay faithful. And realistically most couples go through this at one point, so don’t beat yourself up too much. Dust your shoulders and do better and do not risk your family and your marriage for prick again. It is a temporary satisfaction and You will regret it.

this is the most sensible post on this thread. who says such thing to hubby, that she fornicated with another man while legally married. some things are better left unsaid. op will regret it if she ever confesses such unforgiving sin to her husband. Forget about religion bullshit that will say you have to confess your sin before seeking forgiveness, many of the so called pastors commit abominable acts in secret. OP can make up with her hubby by advising him to go to gym and have some macho look which attracted her to the colleague. nowadays, people can have a body of their dream through training and fitness regime.

This is the moment call is calling u to surrender your life to Him so that the power to overcome sin and the so called feeling you are currently having for the guy will die authomatically and peace will return to your life, otherwise, just know that your creator recorded it against you and it shall not be well with the wicked, your sin must surely find you out. Your life not in your hand. Do something about your soul now, other things will be fixed as well. God help you.

HitSong:

This is crime.
Mod should ban you for this.
And God'l detest adulterers.

I hate them with perfect hatred.

Ashawo.

if I tell you I like your command of English now you may end up liking me back and wanting to fv.k me too, so I don't like it abeg

Because she came here and type abi

Me have to applause her

Many married women do same but never tells

They know the consequences and conditions after all


I just laugh at lads saying shit (their opinions though)


Nothing will stop the lady from going back , at least once or twice ( someone that explore a good ride , will definitely try those ride again .. That's live , people choose what they want

People still cheat on the young mate for low performance not to talk of age difference( but age difference are more sha )


And for those who believe guyz share pictures of the partner online ( it only loser and low self-esteem individuals that do such things )

And for those saying she should tells the guy off , I laugh in Chinese .. it won't happen because her has interest in young lads (other boyz dey street , once she set her eyes on one .. I don't need to explain the rest ...

Lady's like this are left to surf all the want until they have had enough .... If you like watch her ,when your eyes are off (you know the drills