₦airaland Forum

delugajackson:
For the first time he's making sense.

This is very common with our women. To them, marriage is like competition and also their greatest achievement. Once they get married, they start disrespecting single ladies. They start looking down on them, forgetting that they were once single and frustrated.

Don't forget to include the men in your assertions. Thanks

Tallesty1:
Just to please few women that are following him.

but he said the truth.

I'm waiting for a day I will meet a sensible person who will frankly say, I'm never going to marry...I don't know what Nigerians have turned marriage into

Ayomide002:
I'm waiting for a day I will meet a sensible person who will frankly say, I'm never going to marry...I don't know what Nigerians have turned marriage into

Its religious and parental problem

LordAdam16:
Factually, he's making sense.

But people don't often like to hear the truth. And, we're social, competitive beings. As such, if every other person is getting married, most would want to toe the same line. Like is the case with going to university instead of learning a vocation or working for someone else instead of starting a business.

Finally, do whatever you find fulfilling. If you think getting married is your ultimate goal in life. By all means, pursue that goal and throw the grandest wedding when you find your SO.

However, and this is very important, avoid the temptation of using your life as a yardstick for others. You are not god's gift to mankind.

So if getting married or having a kid or being religious is important to you, don't look at others who have opposing convictions as abnormal or simpletons who do not have your level of "enlightenment."

-Lord

God bless you for this.

LordAdam16:
Factually, he's making sense.

But people don't often like to hear the truth. And, we're social, competitive beings. As such, if every other person is getting married, most would want to toe the same line. Like is the case with going to university instead of learning a vocation or working for someone else instead of starting a business.

Finally, do whatever you find fulfilling. If you think getting married is your ultimate goal in life. By all means, pursue that goal and throw the grandest wedding when you find your SO.

However, and this is very important, avoid the temptation of using your life as a yardstick for others. You are not god's gift to mankind.

So if getting married or having a kid or being religious is important to you, don't look at others who have opposing convictions as abnormal or simpletons who do not have your level of "enlightenment."

-Lord

God bless you for this

LordAdam16:
Factually, he's making sense.

But people don't often like to hear the truth. And, we're social, competitive beings. As such, if every other person is getting married, most would want to toe the same line. Like is the case with going to university instead of learning a vocation or working for someone else instead of starting a business.

Finally, do whatever you find fulfilling. If you think getting married is your ultimate goal in life. By all means, pursue that goal and throw the grandest wedding when you find your SO.

However, and this is very important, avoid the temptation of using your life as a yardstick for others. You are not god's gift to mankind.

So if getting married or having a kid or being religious is important to you, don't look at others who have opposing convictions as abnormal or simpletons who do not have your level of "enlightenment."

-Lord

Guy , you don dey make sense all along until you come finish the last word with "Lord" . What are you insinuating?

iammo:


this is true marriage isnt an achievement
Angela Merkel, Oprah Winfreh all have countless children and family yet non is biological, and it was intentional, because they dedicated their life to achieve more than been a glorified wife who belongs in the kitchen the bedroom and the other room

I love this.

This is so foolish a Yan. It was God that instituted marriage and anyone who steadfastly succeeds in marriage is inadvatently contributing to Gid's creative wisdom by genuinely procreating.

Or is this guy now telling us that being a standup storry teller just to earn thousands of Naira is more of an achievement that marriage that is a sign of responsibility?

All these so called celebrity sef.

Liftme:

LMAO this is funny

Gforce2019:
Guy , you don dey make sense all along until you come finish the last word with "Lord" . What are you insinuating?

Look through my post history.

-Lord

Benekruku:
Coming from someone that all his kids look like Tuface


Smh

Lol, you eh

Candiesramah:
He's absolutely right. Some women will talk to people in such a mannerless way that once they get what they demanded for, they'll be like "I am a married woman, don't talk to me like that" nonsense! Does being a married woman mean you shouldn't have sense?

For some men, they'll disrespect themselves and when disrespected, they'll be like "I have your mate as a wife at home, or you're not up to my wife". How does that one concern me?

Nigerians brag with marriage a lot. Anyone wey try marry, even if e dey drink garri inside, will be forming married man/woman.

Exactly..