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Openly gay Nigerian man reveals why he turned down a wedding invite over the weekend

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AprokoGirl:
Openly gay Nigerian man reveals why he turned down a wedding invite over the weekend

Shame on you

Hmmm

A good percentage of Nigerian married men are of course down lows who get married for procreation and societal/family pressures.

There's nothing anyone can do about it than to feel sorry for the conned wives and kids who become a dupe of this scam with the exposure to contracting whatever stds she never would know about.

Dem yakpa well well

Hypocrites will crowd this thread to judge this guy Nigeria the land of hypocritical fowls

How a man fvcks a man is something I can never understand.....However, that doesn't make his point invalid. Used to think I hated homosexuality, but I really don't give a damn bout girl on girl (double standards). His life, his choices.

There is nothing wrong with a gay man rejecting his sexuality to marry a woman even if he doesn't love her.

Being gay wouldn't stop him from adhering to his vows, satisfying his wife sexually or being a father to his kids.

So him not gracing their wedding is not an act of moral upstanding that deserve an applaud. Nothing like that.

21years await u

SageMK:
There is nothing wrong with a gay man rejecting his sexuality to marry a woman even if he doesn't love her.

Being gay wouldn't stop him from adhering to his vows, satisfying his wife sexually or being a father to his kids.

So him not gracing their wedding is not an act of moral upstanding that deserve an applaud. Nothing like that.

Do you hear yourself? One day, he will get fed up of living a lie and leave the woman, how is that fair to her? The fact that you said "even if he doesn't love her" shows you don't care for the woman at all because you want to see her in pain, that's just misogynistic, gay men who marry straight women have no heart, he's definitely right

Palehair:
Do you hear yourself? One day, he will get fed up of living a lie and leave the woman, how is that fair to her?

A lot of men have walked out of straight marriages and leave their family behind to start a new one with other women. How is this any different?

The fact that you said "even if he doesn't love her" shows you don't care for the woman at all because you want to see her in pain, that's just misogynistic, gay men who marry straight women have no heart, he's definitely right

1. If you think all marriages are built on love then you've been living in a virtual world and you need to wake up.

2. The fact that I advocate for two people who are not in love with each other to get married doesn't make me misogynist. I only replied your post to make this point.

SageMK:
A lot of men have walked out of straight marriages and leave their family behind to start a new one with other women. How is this any different?




1. If you think all marriages are built on love then you've been living in a virtual world and you need to wake up.

2. The fact that I advocate for two people who are not in love with each other to get married doesn't make me misogynist. I only replied your post to make this point.

That's deception on the man's part, i stand by my point, you have to at least share the same sexuality with whom you are married to, straight relationships are not built on deception from the beginning, even if a gay u wants to have a "beard", he should at least let her know and she should give her consent before building up the relationship with lies and trapping her when she should be have spent all those years with a man who understands her