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Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Smithwilliams826: 7:46pm On May 23, 2019 |
Amhappy:A bit of kindness?.. Hmmmmm na wa oh. That mean say u no kind. I fear u oh. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Smithwilliams826: 7:49pm On May 23, 2019 |
JastSiryin:You say?... |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Smithwilliams826: 7:51pm On May 23, 2019 |
thelastorca:I guess u are your father mirror image to. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by sweetrace(f): 7:57pm On May 23, 2019 |
Amanee: He is not a failed parent. He is an observant, caring and conscientious parent. He observed his son’s lack of empathy and went ahead to correct it. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:22pm On May 23, 2019 |
Smithwilliams826: A) There are many ways to educate a child other than beating him... B) who else is to blame for child's failed state of mind then...? C) what father though his son (all these years) about being humble/having compassion? |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by felinko(m): 8:31pm On May 23, 2019 |
JasonScoolari: Shut up...mumu 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by felinko(m): 8:32pm On May 23, 2019 |
lomprico:If u don't care u will just pass...mumu 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by felinko(m): 8:34pm On May 23, 2019 |
SimSify:I tire for them o...sometimes I wonder if this guys have brains at all |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by felinko(m): 8:35pm On May 23, 2019 |
angelo5uk:Shut up if u don't see sense in what he did and learn from it...it's not by force to comment 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:41pm On May 23, 2019 |
angelo5uk: He represents important values. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Smithwilliams826: 8:45pm On May 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1:He gave is son the right lesson and punishment. And its not all child DAT has same character as any family member. Characters, behaviors, humbleness, etc can be created by oneself. There are a lot of fathers I know who trained their kids right but kids of now are days want to b indomies so and want to do things their own way. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:45pm On May 23, 2019 |
Sanctimonious NLanders do not recognize important values when they hit them in their face. Open a thread about women's sexual liberation or homosexuality and they will be quoting the Bible up and down all day every day. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:48pm On May 23, 2019 |
MrBrownJay1: Parents are not the only people who shape a child's character. The boy might have picked up the behavior from the media or his peers. Almost every teenager compares himself/herself with others based on what they have. It is a stage most of them go through and the father used it as a learning opportunity. I applaud him for that. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by angelo5uk(m): 8:49pm On May 23, 2019 |
felinko:Can't you see I was just joking... You don't have to be abusive.. People like you are all over the internet looking for people to insult... |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:49pm On May 23, 2019 |
sweetrace: Exactly. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:50pm On May 23, 2019 |
angelo5uk: Didn't you insult the father who was trying to set a good parenting example? And now you are complaining that you got a taste of your own medicine? |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:52pm On May 23, 2019 |
thelastorca: Nonsense! Please read some books on child development before you decide to have your own. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 8:53pm On May 23, 2019 |
phonemakemoney: Yes ooo! |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Oharina(m): 8:58pm On May 23, 2019 |
visijo: Brother who impregneted her |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by JasonScoolari: 8:58pm On May 23, 2019 |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nelson35642: 9:33pm On May 23, 2019 |
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Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 11:31pm On May 23, 2019 |
Mindfulness: hello, i actually have three kids, boy girl boy 11, 9, 3 my 11 year old has a lot of my habits and attitudes, some that i remember from my childhood. my wife is a tiger mum who is always trying to discipline some things out of him so its kind of funny for me. i grumble about corruption, crooked police and the boy does the same. i wake up at night to work, and he wakes up at night after everyone is asleep to steal time on unlocked pcs. i am pretty dull and conservative ish as i have grown older, but when i was young i used to be called ako boy among other things, and my son, for better for worse is also an ako boy. some things are definitely from his peers - eg after we changed schools he has started showing an unhealthy level of sexism, no doubt lifted from his classmates/buddies. but as of today, most of him is from me. his mother complains about his short attention span, that is me to a tee, though she doesn't seem to realise it. he sometimes rushes through his books instead of concentrating - that was me when i was younger. he wants to to too many things at once without considering his limits - thats his mum and i try to suppress that. your attitudes and habits will be mirrored by your kids. sometimes in embarrassing and funny ways. We have a close maiguard who i call by name, my son was doing so too until i noticed and put a stop to it immediately.that was him observing the dynamics in my relationships with different people and copying same. i have always been a person who can unconsciously pose majestically when sitting down, much to the annoyance of my teachers when i was in school, and the other day i saw my three year old doing the same. it was weird. good to see you again 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by lomprico(m): 11:31pm On May 23, 2019 |
felinko: Fuçk you! |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Nobody: 5:15am On May 24, 2019 |
thelastorca: Your children have your genes and imitate you but they are not your mirror image. They can't be, if alone for the fact, that they have a different set of genes from their mother. Moreover, children are also shaped by the zeitgeist, the media and like you have pointed out by their environment. The younger they are, the more important their parents are but as soon as they become teenagers, they will look up to their peers more, which makes matters more complicated and more challenging as the father's experience shows. No parent is responsible for what kids pick up outside of the home. They can only try to correct it, which the father beautifully did. As for the short attention span, it is not a behavior typical of you and your son. In fact, most young boys have a rather short attention span. It is part of the natural development. And you mention the term tiger mum like it is a positive thing. I disagree. 1 Like |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by kingcalors(m): 5:46am On May 24, 2019 |
Lizzysamuel:My broda, u did well. Forget all those yahoo yahoo ppl wey dey sagg. They don't give a damn about how their children behave. Na dem go encourage their children to go make money any how |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by Ikpongiton: 7:37am On May 24, 2019 |
it is too late to bend him now.you did not start early,and now the boy will think that you're wicked and start being rebellious. |
Re: Man Reveals How He Dealt With His Son For Mocking Someone by booksrite(f): 3:27am On Jun 29, 2019 |
hello, i actually have three kids, boy girl boy11, 9, 3my 11 year old has a lot of my habits and attitudes, some that i remember from my childhood.my wife is a tiger mum who is always trying to discipline some things out of him so its kind of funny for me. i grumble about corruption, crooked police and the boy does the same. i wake up at night to work, and he wakes up at night after everyone is asleep to steal time on unlocked pcs.i am pretty dull and conservative ish as i have grown older, but when i was young i used to be called ako boy among other things, and my son, for better for worse is also an ako boy. some things are definitely from his peers - eg after we changed schools he has started showing an unhealthy level of sexism, no doubt lifted from his classmates/buddies.but as of today, most of him is from me. his mother complains about his short attention span, that is me to a tee, though she doesn't seem to realise it. he sometimes rushes through his books instead of concentrating - that was me when i was younger. he wants to to too many things at once without considering his limits - thats his mum and i try to suppress that. your attitudes and habits will be mirrored by your kids. sometimes in embarrassing and funny ways. We have a close maiguard who i call by name, my son was doing so too until i noticed and put a stop to it immediately.that was him observing the dynamics in my relationships with different people and copying same. i have always been a person who can unconsciously pose majestically when sitting down, much to the annoyance of my teachers when i was in school, and the other day i saw my three year old doing the same. it was weird. good to see you again |
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