Hello there! I'm a Nigerian, 23years, student. I live in the UK.
A little principle about my relationship life is that I stopped double dating about 3years ago. I give the whole of myself to a relationship when I know my girl is 90% loyal to me.
I started a relationship with a girl (20) last year april. We lived in the same environment before she left for school. Things were going on fine for about four months. The only thing I noticed when she got admitted was that our chat wasn't that normal like before as she got used to late replies. I somehow got used to it. By the end of last year I had the opportunity to leave for the UK to study.
Now, when I was still in Nigeria with this girl, my mom noticed we're getting closer (she doesn't know we're dating) then she said she doesn't want anything between us that her father does jazz alot. I have no Idea if there are other reasons except from that. I kept our relationship during my first two months in UK while my mom kept warning me about her family.
To cut the story short, I broke up with her with the excuse of distance, I couldn't reveal the main reason. I felt so bad about what I did. She was broken and felt played. We're still in contact with each other though but on a normal level. We're still both single. However, ever since we broke up, I felt I lost something important to me, on the other hand, I'm still young, I'm still going to meet lots of girls. I've no idea what will happen with or without her in the coming years. We still have feelings for ourselves though.
If you've been in this type of situation before, kindly give some advice. Thank you!

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Hello there! I'm a Nigerian, 23years, student. I live in the UK.
A little principle about my relationship life is that I stopped double dating about 3years ago. I give the whole of myself to a relationship when I know my girl is 90% loyal to me.
I started a relationship with a girl (20) last year april. We lived in the same environment before she left for school. Things were going on fine for about four months. The only thing I noticed when she got admitted was that our chat wasn't that normal like before as she got used to late replies. I somehow got used to it. By the end of last year I had the opportunity to leave for the UK to study.
Now, when I was still in Nigeria with this girl, my mom noticed we're getting closer (she doesn't know we're dating) then she said she doesn't want anything between us that her father does jazz alot. I have no Idea if there are other reasons except from that. I kept our relationship during my first two months in UK while my mom kept warning me about her family.
To cut the story short, I broke up with her with the excuse of distance, I couldn't reveal the main reason. I felt so bad about what I did. She was broken and felt played. We're still in contact with each other though but on a normal level. We're still both single. However, ever since we broke up, I felt I lost something important to me, on the other hand, I'm still young, I'm still going to meet lots of girls. I've no idea what will happen with or without her in the coming years. We still have feelings for ourselves though.
If you've been in this type of situation before, kindly give some advice. Thank you!

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