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While showing his concern at the rate at which children are made to work and bring money home for their parents, a man has advised against having a baby if you can’t comfortably take care of 3 people.

The Facebook user identified as Michael Nwanator, who is known for his opinion on various issues concerning, wrote that parents should not turn their children to deputy-parents to care for their other siblings.

Read his post below:

CHILDREN ARE NOT INVESTMENT & RETIREMENT PLAN

What you’re about to read now may not look or sound nice to you, but that doesn’t change the fact that many of our mothers and fathers failed us. They were Ignorantly heartless.

Continue reading to discover the TRUTH that hurts.

Do parents derive joy seeing their kids suffering in the name of hustling?

No body gave a consent before He or She was born, you weren’t born with a silver spoon. You suffered and went through hell for you to survive. In as much as you maybe successful today, tell yourself the truth, do you really like those horrible experiences you had when you were infant and would you love to see your kids go through same?

The truth remains that it was heartless of Africans to subject their kids to suffering. They will tell you that God gives children even if they have 8 kids meanwhile they can’t comfortably give themselves a good life not to talk about the kids.

A crime against humanity is bringing a child to this earth and let the child suffer.
When I go to some places and see how children suffer in the sake of hustling for their parents, I shed tears. Many kids out there with no shelter, let me not talk about the Almajiri system in Northern Nigeria, that’s the worst crime against humanity those people are commiting over there.

As a Christian, I will take just few scriptures. Africans see children as investments which shouldn’t be so.

Genesis 1:28 (KJV)
28 And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.
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The scripture above has been used many times by ignorant Christians who want to justify their stupidity and wickedness.
If you can’t comfortably take care of three persons, you have no reason getting married and giving birth. If you can only take care of one person comfortably and you must marry, marry but don’t bring kids to this world to suffer. The river doesn’t flow backward.

2 Corinthians 12 vs 14 (NIV)

14 Now I am ready to visit you for the third time, and I will not be a burden to you, because what I want is not your possessions but you. After all, children should not have to save up for their parents, but parents for their children.

Proverbs 13:22 (NIV)
A good person leaves an inheritance for their children’s children,
but a sinner’s wealth is stored up for the righteous.
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Your fathers ignorantly failed, do you still want to toll that line and be foolish in this age?

This is a big mistake we MUST correct now before it ruin us all.

Parents are to give their kids the best life. Any parents in this 21st century that gives birth to kids they can’t take care of are wicked and capable of commiting murder.

Parents are to support their kids in business too and leave inheritance for them. Not to turn them into bill payment machine without asking how they were able to survive out there. Mehn, dudes have a life to live, we have needs too, a lot of young guys have lost their lives via accidents, robbery attacks etc in the process of hustling for the family.

Our young ladies now go into prostitution in the higher institutions just for them to survive because funds aren’t coming from the parents.

First sons now take care of the children (siblings) they never gave brith to �. Young guys who are hustling face lots of pressure from their parents, this has lead many to indulge in various crimes. The rate of cyber crime (yahoo yahoo) is increasing, this is the root cause of it. This system breeds poverty and crime.

Parents, prepare for your kids and also yourselves for the raining days.

Yes! Our fathers and mothers made this horrible mistake, we MUST correct it.

Listen, you can take better care of two than five. Imagine sharing or splitting the resources meant for two to five kids.

I am fully aware that there are those who were financially buoyant, along the line they fell out. Don’t you think it’s better to prepare for the worst by not having more than three kids just in case there happens to be a storm you couldn’t survive?

Africans! Chidren aren’t retirement plan or investments. Go and tell your family and friends.

Let it sink.

Image: This is actually children paying for the sins of their parents.

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lalasticlala

We are going to put this to vote.

Those in support say Nay
Those against, say Aye

The result is inconclusive. Lalasticlala, over to you.

He's right, population explosion is one of the problems we have in Nigeria

The circle of doom wont change. U are aged 47 with 12 years to retirement . U go still give birth. For who to raise

Joromi12:
The circle of doom wont change. U are aged 47 with 12 years to retirement . U go still give birth. For who to raise

That's how they die and leave the children to suffer.

I know of 60+ retired police officer who have kids from his second wife. His late first wife gave birth to 5 boys who are all grown up.

This system is a time bomb.

Some poor men will not listen, they will keep having unprotected sex, keep impregnanting their wives, keep borning children and tell you is God that takes care of children afterall God drives away flies from the cow with no tail."

I only pity their relatives and children who are saddled with the financial burden

My people believe that if they 'born plenty' , maybe one of them would be successful and take care of me...d remaining can be sent out for 'almajiri'