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Help! My Wife Easily Quarrels And Keeps Malice With Me. / I Easily Get Angry And Keep Malice A Lot, Please Help / How Do I Stop My Husband From Keeping Malice With Me? (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by boomssey(f): 10:58pm On May 29, 2019 |
Hmmmn! Honestly I don't blame her and please this isn't about taking sides.but if she doesn't come to u go to her and sort it out.how can I be under d same room with my husband and not talk to each other,hell no! |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by oladele00(m): 11:00pm On May 29, 2019 |
I need a job In Jos pls..I resigned from my place of work in Lagos because I was offered admission for my postgraduate program by the university of Jos.. I need a job to keep my self going in this new adventure pls.. I have enough cash for the program but I just Dont want to remain idle doing nothing..... 07058227492 |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Acidosis(m): 11:00pm On May 29, 2019 |
spiceadole: Oga say what you know. There are many married men earning that salary, and even less. The average salary of a teacher in a private school is lower, yet some married men work in these schools. Not only teachers, all the lab scientists with ND in your universities, and other National Diploma holders in banks, military, police, civil service, custom, prisons, etc. earn around or same figure. You lots should stop putting pressure on people. Rather preach contentment, financial/wealth management and, of course, empowerment. This young man failed in the area of financial management. I'm not sure he has kids, yet he allowed his taste and that of his wife pushed him to a 3-bedroom apartment. You can imagine how they spend wrecklessly on other household needs because wifey's biz dey boom - a case of eating their dinner in the morning. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ibkayee(f): 11:00pm On May 29, 2019 |
Harsh but anyone would be frustrated if they were in her shoes. Pardon my ignorance, I know things are tough but is there no way you can step your financial situation up too? As per why is she setting up businesses that are flourishing but your own case is different? (I'm not trying to bash you, genuinely curious) Is that your maximum earning potential as far as skill set? Or you're just settling because the market is trash and can't find anything else? It would help to know the details. Her tone was harsh and I'd imagine quite emasculating, but like I said I understand her frustration |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Gplan(m): 11:01pm On May 29, 2019 |
ceeroh:I have 8years experience on fumgation bussiness having worked for a fumigation company in the past |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by jelel6: 11:01pm On May 29, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Kenturkey048(m): 11:01pm On May 29, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:she is trying,I know..but she knew her husband finance capacity before agreeing to his marriage proposal..only one statement can lead somebody into staunch depression..am putting myself in the OP's shoe..if na me person wey I love tell such..,thinking for don kill me I swear.. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by SocialJustice: 11:02pm On May 29, 2019 |
emerald16:Apologise to her and let your family know you don't have money when they ask. Stop heaping your family and your responsibilities on her. Don't you have shame as a man? 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by luminouz(m): 11:02pm On May 29, 2019 |
Viking007:Guy,na true I talk o...I keep wondering what dafuq do I get from marrying if marriage is like this? Funny enough,its the miserably married ones that are on my neck now to goan marry...seeing their marital lives is enough proof na! 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by anonymuz(m): 11:03pm On May 29, 2019 |
ImaIma1:you just said it all. Let us be realistic. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by luminouz(m): 11:03pm On May 29, 2019 |
jelel6:GTFOH!!! MOFO!!! |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:04pm On May 29, 2019 |
emerald16:your plane has already landed at front page destination. As for ur wife, her reaction is just due to stress, you are the husband, get some cash, take her out for lunch, play with her, and everything becomes history. She can even send #1500. Credit for your dad later. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Rexnegro(m): 11:04pm On May 29, 2019 |
adewumiopeyemi:as him swallow him pride to ask you and I on nairaland to see if we have a better know how to his prob is it bad ? Mr perfect park well jor if you no get better tin to say, let people with sense contribute. op as for me give her time to heal from the issue , don't talk about it again, you just be your normal then re-strategize on how to double your hustle to double your digits . so help us God all. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Nobody: 11:04pm On May 29, 2019 |
Kenturkey048:Yea I get. But op no suppose ask am for that airtime. A man should never discard his dignity. Men like Okonkwo in Things Fall Apart are fast disappearing these days. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by luminouz(m): 11:06pm On May 29, 2019 |
Acidosis:No mind that one...criticising 60k salary. Homes have survived on less!!! 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by godofuck231: 11:06pm On May 29, 2019 |
emerald16:she's stretched thin, there's something going on in her mind, when a woman stops talking to you she's about to make a horrible decision, I better massage her and pet her to confession, let her vet the anger and you should shut the f#ckup never to reply, then make up with outings and gifts, a shoe and a bag will do. next time know her limits and don't thin her out. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by SocialJustice: 11:07pm On May 29, 2019 |
Lexusgs430:Exactly and he did it in such a shameful manner. I'm even shocked he has to come here to report before he realises he's a failed husband. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by luminouz(m): 11:08pm On May 29, 2019 |
godofuck231:U people will not kill me with senselessness! OP borrowed 200 naira card yet u miraculously want him to suddenly have access to money for outings,gifts,a shoe and a bag From where? Jumia? Una go just dey advise anyhow!!! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by wiseone28: 11:09pm On May 29, 2019 |
clive2u:Most of them saying add another income to ur salary are idle, as if starting business is that easy 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Jamesayo: 11:09pm On May 29, 2019 |
There is no two way to it, than to man up and initiate more conversation. You are focusing more on financial hitches than building togetherness in your home. Your focus on money will not help as some point as expenses will keep increasing. I will suggest you get more sources of income, work alongside the existing and get more and more. Keep improving, and shift focus on your salary. If more skills need to be learnt, please opt for it. If it's more support to your wife, please go for it. The focus should not be on who is bringing in more. She is still your all as far as marriage is concern and issues as this nature are normal in marriage. Give things time sire... |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by CaptainFM1: 11:09pm On May 29, 2019 |
emerald16: Try and watch African Magic or her favourite channel together with her. Laugh with her even when the occasion isn't that funny to you. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by BotafogoJunior(m): 11:09pm On May 29, 2019 |
luminouz:Your opinion make sense jor!!!!! |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by anonymuz(m): 11:10pm On May 29, 2019 |
friendl:gbam 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by luminouz(m): 11:10pm On May 29, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by bettercreature(m): 11:10pm On May 29, 2019 |
Viking007:That comment by luminouz doesn’t make any sense! It wasn’t ordinary 200 naira (it was the last straw) this lady has been taking care of your immediately family,as if that isn’t enough you are telling her to start sending money to your relatives,It’s even very embarrassing telling your wife to send money to your dad let alone just 200naira Its just super wrong This poster is taking advantage of his wife generousity 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:11pm On May 29, 2019 |
Preshy561: I wonder, maybe he's irresponsible or he drinks, a lot of men are looking for a supportive wife, 60k plus what the wife earns shouldn't be too low for the family 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Kenturkey048(m): 11:11pm On May 29, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:you are ryt...e got it wrong right there...pride is very important in a mans life.. |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by SmartyPants(m): 11:12pm On May 29, 2019 |
ImaIma1: So you're going to ignore the fact that the marriage has been fine up until this issue? The fact is that this story actually proves that getting married on a budget can work albeit with some discomfort which the parties should expect. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by emaopel: 11:15pm On May 29, 2019 |
Man... You need to seat up... No how wife is submissive, once they have upper hand in financing the home... The marriage can't be the same because of their ego! If you are one that has the resources,wouldn't you provide for her family? Woman will always be woman... Manage your home and know that...all women behaves like that...she even tried as you have described her 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:16pm On May 29, 2019 |
ImaIma1: It's not about the income, it's about how wise he can utilize the income, he's even lucky the wife is working so the question is what does he do with the money 1 Like |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by darkelf: 11:18pm On May 29, 2019 |
luminouz: You can imagine I wonder how some people just dish out advise. I guess they want him to go and rob a bank or scam a foreigner. The same people will rebuke him if caught. #SMH |
Re: My Wife And I Are Keeping Malice! by Nobody: 11:19pm On May 29, 2019 |
Money comes and goes but the loyalty that stays and supports is valuable she should have sent it sometimes yes it’s frustrating when you have to handle all the bills but for the people we love we should not count the cost. I’ve sent credit to someone when they only called me for one minute 3 Likes |
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