Nigerian dance queen, Kafayat Shafau-Ameh aka Kaffy has revealed how motherhood helped her overcome depression.

She also opened up on how her husband proposed and how they both cope working in the same industry.

Read excerpts of the chat with The Sun News below...

[/b]Before your break, was there any point you felt like quitting?

No, I never did. Yes, I was frustrated about a lot of stuff going on around me and it was really tough. Imagine having to drink garri for seven months (laughter). But quitting wasn’t an option; it was never an option.

[b]Your seventh wedding anniversary comes up this year. How has the journey been?

Like I always say, marriage is not for babies. It is not easy, we have our ups and downs, but we are still here together. It is by God’s grace.

How has motherhood transformed you?

Greatly. Motherhood helped me overcome depression. There are times when you are frustrated by everything around you and you feel the entire world is going to crash on your head. You just feel down but then you need to do stuff because you are a mum. You see, there is this genuine love that radiates from your child to you, and regardless of what is going on in the world, you know that this child loves you and the love is always fresh. And so I learnt to lock into that love and use it as a springboard to forge ahead, and then I begin to see that God loves me so much he decided to bless me with the child.

You and your husband work in the same industry and the belief is that such marriages don’t work, but you guys have been coasting along for the past seven years, what’s the secret?

For those that it doesn’t work for, I don’t know what their problem is. However, if you and your spouse are in the same industry, many factors can make it competitive and unhealthy. But it is also a good platform for you guys to understand each other. I always say it, my husband and I understood each other from the very beginning, but we grew and are still learning; this is just the seventh year.

Was it love at first sight?

It was friendship and not that butterflies in your stomach scenario (laughter). We were two friends that just grew comfortably with each other, and then love happened, and here we are today.

How did he pop the question?

He put food in the microwave and complained that I had not warmed the food, and I was like ‘oh, I have already warmed it’. But he insisted that I warm it again and I grudgingly went to the kitchen, and when I opened the microwave, lo and behold, I saw an engagement ring. Today, the rest is history, even though I was in shock because I wasn’t expecting to find a ring inside the microwave (laughter).


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Strong woman I admire

Motherhood n ur hubby manhood

Kaffy is intelligent
I worked with her in Vmobile concert Kaduna
Kaffy if u find this PM

With which bweast did she feed those kids?

younngest85:
With which bweast did she feed those kids?

enter the picture and ask her

auntysimbiat:
Motherhood n ur hubby manhood

Women and preeq...

Awwwwww
Good for her

didn't even know she was married or even have kids..
thank God for your life anyways

We dont care

small brezzz packaged inside cup..... kaffy don't have bress

kids can help you overcome a lot of things...I just love them

Phock2sweet:
small brezzz packaged inside cup..... kaffy don't have bress

bress kill you dere

Strong and Beautiful Woman

Beautiful lady and in very good shape.

auntysimbiat:
Motherhood n ur hubby manhood

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what sort of rubbish is this?

mods are not doing their jobs at all

marvin906:
didn't even know she was married or even have kids..
thank God for your life anyways

Marvin who's this. I have been seeing this Pictures for a very long time but can't tell. Na celeb pikin?

Lovelyn451:
kids can help you overcome a lot of things...I just love them

That kan thin , lovely love



Hope u ve kid ??

marvin906:




bress kill you dere

Wetin concern u ??, Say he like women to have breast na crime


What do u expect the babies and matured ones to suck ??

But the man still looks depressed. Lovely kids

hopexter:
But the man still looks depressed. Lovely kids

i swear i thought i was the only one that noticed that

Pretty kids!

donziggyman:
Marvin who's this. I have been seeing this Pictures for a very long time but can't tell. Na celeb pikin?

models

Danwakae:



Wetin concern u ??, Say he like women to have breast na crime


What do u expect the babies and matured ones to suck ??

make e go suck gf tokunbo breast.
and leave the lady

oh

don't try to ever be depressed... think positively see great benefits of thinking positively here https://explicitsuccess.com/benefits-of-positive-thinking/

She has really come a long way from the small girl on a wavy skirt dancing in Lexydoo's first n only music video "Baby Skeske" n her first main professional job,Ruggedman's music video "Baraje"

I so much admire her. I don't kw she gt kids sha,well God bless ur home sweet sis