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RearVoice:
For people who don't understand this situation, it scars you physically, mentally, socially. All forms
The thing is nobody will really understand you even if you complain to them. Nobody really believes a Mother can hate or do this to their child without them doing anything to deserve it. When she is abusing you every passersby will think and say you are a stubborn child giving your mother headaches. In Nigeria no one believes an elder would lie against a child.
Everything she said happened to me also except the University and Job search part. I believe she has said many evil words against you. Mine did but God helped me
Please contact me dear

RearVoice:
You already sent me a pm. Please I'll contact you as soon as possible when I have the chance. Thanks for your understanding please

paiz:
God will help you

genq:
I agree with the bolded - that's likely why she said you are the reason your father left.
Do not. I repeat, DO NOT threaten suicide. Knowing how heartless your mother is, I doubt she gives a f**

Hold your head high and stop seeking the love of that woman who simply birthed you. She is not your God. Find a community that will become family to you.
Lastly, ask your parents for the truth about your birth.

Houseofglam7:
There's two ways outta this:
(1) I'll gladly adopt you.
(2) You can share my mother.....she's got a large heart,there's space for one more.
No child deserves to pay for their parent's misfortunes!
And,please, don't hate her back.

[color=#008080]OP, here's a very good option.
Cc Lalasticlala you are needed here. [/color]

Xaos:
[color=#008080]OP, here's a very good option.
Cc Lalasticlala you are needed here. [/color]

Vford7840:
I once wanted to commit suicide when she heard about it her response was “that will not stop her from eating chicken during Christmas “ that was the only reason why I didn’t do it cause I know if I die no one will mourn me.